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Explore "gaydating" with insightful episodes like "19 · Gaydating mit Denis Helmke", "Episode 118: Gay Men Who Have Given Up On Finding a Relationship", "Episode 114: PART TWO - Gay Men’s Dating Situations That Are “No-Go” – And Their Alternatives", "Episode 113: Gay Men’s Dating Situations That Are “No-Go” – And Their Alternatives – PART ONE" and "living in integrity and other things" from podcasts like ""OUTHENTISCH", "Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST", "Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST", "Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST" and "queer maintenance"" and more!
Episodes (25)
Episode 118: Gay Men Who Have Given Up On Finding a Relationship
Ken discusses how gay men can cope with the frustrations of being single when you want a partner, and how we can rally our internal and external resources to be at our best.
Episode 114: PART TWO - Gay Men’s Dating Situations That Are “No-Go” – And Their Alternatives
In the second of this two-part episode, Ken discusses more "deal breakers" in gay men's dating, and gives tips for their alternatives.
Episode 113: Gay Men’s Dating Situations That Are “No-Go” – And Their Alternatives – PART ONE
In Part One of this two-part episode, Ken gives guidance on six of the most common dating "no-go's" for gay men, how to cope with them and their alternatives.
living in integrity and other things
what to get your SO/FF (significant other/fun friend) after dating for a short time
what is AJ like after happy hour
are you truly living in integrity
Thanks for taking time out to listen to us gab. Just a couple of wild chickens having the time in our 40's. If you feel inspired, send us a message on social @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok. We're also available via email for those who want to go old school: queermaintenance@gmail.com.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
living in integrity and other things
what to get your SO/FF (significant other/fun friend) after dating for a short time
what is AJ like after happy hour
are you truly living in integrity
Thanks for taking time out to listen to us gab. Just a couple of wild chickens having the time in our 40's. If you feel inspired, send us a message on social @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok. We're also available via email for those who want to go old school: queermaintenance@gmail.com.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
panty dropper
the many forms of jealousy; this was a tough one to talk about for me
dating while parenting in the LGBTQ community (divorce etc...)
divine timing, something greater than ourselves
Thanks for spending your time with us on this Monday morning (or whenever you're listening). We appreciate all of you and hope that you get something out of these fireside chats. If you feel so inclined, leave us 5-stars or a simple comment letting us know what you liked.
If you want to find us on social, search @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
panty dropper
the many forms of jealousy; this was a tough one to talk about for me
dating while parenting in the LGBTQ community (divorce etc...)
divine timing, something greater than ourselves
Thanks for spending your time with us on this Monday morning (or whenever you're listening). We appreciate all of you and hope that you get something out of these fireside chats. If you feel so inclined, leave us 5-stars or a simple comment letting us know what you liked.
If you want to find us on social, search @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
after further thought
COVID hit me
Pride month and what it all means
Sometimes we have to edit out what we say and dub over; I prefer the rough edits
Appreciate you coming back to us after we took a week off to recover. As always, we are super thankful to everyone who spends time with us and who engages with us on social. If you'd like to chat with us outside of this episode, hit us up on IG and TikTok @queer_maintenance.
If you enjoyed this episode, consider leaving a 5-star rating or even dropping a short comment. All of it helps get us to more ear holes.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
after further thought
COVID hit me
Pride month and what it all means
Sometimes we have to edit out what we say and dub over; I prefer the rough edits
Appreciate you coming back to us after we took a week off to recover. As always, we are super thankful to everyone who spends time with us and who engages with us on social. If you'd like to chat with us outside of this episode, hit us up on IG and TikTok @queer_maintenance.
If you enjoyed this episode, consider leaving a 5-star rating or even dropping a short comment. All of it helps get us to more ear holes.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
S3E7 Who Are You?
things that go bump...
alien life forms?
best friends and girlfriends
I swear I'm not on my phone
Appreciate you taking time to listen to this episode. This week we decided to just chat (which is what we do most weeks) but this one was plan-free. Sometimes we just need to shoot the shit and you get to listen to it, if you so choose.
Hit us up on social @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
things that go bump...
alien life forms?
best friends and girlfriends
I swear I'm not on my phone
Appreciate you taking time to listen to this episode. This week we decided to just chat (which is what we do most weeks) but this one was plan-free. Sometimes we just need to shoot the shit and you get to listen to it, if you so choose.
Hit us up on social @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
Episode 104: Gay Men and How to Avoid the Pitfalls of Dating
Ken gives guidance on eight common pitfalls in dating for gay men, and strategies for how to cope with each of them.
in defense of love
what are your fears in a relationship and how do you face them?
anxiety got me like...
what does that word even mean?
Appreciate you taking the time to listen to this episode. If you have time and enjoyed it please consider rating us or leaving a comment. It's definitely not required but I think it helps get us out to more people who might also enjoy it.
Always grateful for our "mechanics" (that's you!) and if you want to reach out to us on social, you can! @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
in defense of love
what are your fears in a relationship and how do you face them?
anxiety got me like...
what does that word even mean?
Appreciate you taking the time to listen to this episode. If you have time and enjoyed it please consider rating us or leaving a comment. It's definitely not required but I think it helps get us out to more people who might also enjoy it.
Always grateful for our "mechanics" (that's you!) and if you want to reach out to us on social, you can! @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
Love,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
when is it time for the D?
- see title
- how long do you wait to fart in front of your partner?
- what is our take on being friends with our exes
Thanks for joining AJ and I on another random episode where we discuss things we have absolutely no business discussing in public. It's our take on life and how we experience it and we hope you enjoy. If you did, please consider rating us and possibly even leaving a comment!
If you'd like to connect with us on social, slide into our DMs @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
With all the gratitude we can muster,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
when is it time for the D?
- see title
- how long do you wait to fart in front of your partner?
- what is our take on being friends with our exes
Thanks for joining AJ and I on another random episode where we discuss things we have absolutely no business discussing in public. It's our take on life and how we experience it and we hope you enjoy. If you did, please consider rating us and possibly even leaving a comment!
If you'd like to connect with us on social, slide into our DMs @queer_maintenance on IG and TikTok.
With all the gratitude we can muster,
Jess (@jess_culpepper) & AJ (@askajanything)
S6P3 - Gay Sexual Justification, HBO Euphoria, High School Memories & New Covid Nightlife
In this pigisode, Brian and Rick catch up on their lives. Brian talks about fish and casino. Rick talked about HBO Europhia and how the show touched on pay/cash pigs, Small Penis Humiliation.
The conversation changes to sexual justification and how straight guys justify having sex with gay men. Introverts have taken over social media apps. The conversation changes to gays coming out in school. Rick and Brian share their experience in high school.
Brian share his story about hooking up in a sauna in Fort Lauderdale and how the culture is different in the south.
The closing conversation is about Covid and how life have accepted Covid and how it nightlife has adapted to it.
Make sure you subscribe to this podcast from your favorite listening device. Check out our apparel collection at www.topsubvers.com and use the promo code LNC20 to save 20% off on your purchase.
Late Night Cruisin - https://linktr.ee/LateNightCruisin
Gay Party Tix - https://linktr.ee/gaypartytix
S6P3 - Gay Sexual Justification, HBO Euphoria, High School Memories & New Covid Nightlife
In this pigisode, Brian and Rick catch up on their lives. Brian talks about fish and casino. Rick talked about HBO Europhia and how the show touched on pay/cash pigs, Small Penis Humiliation.
The conversation changes to sexual justification and how straight guys justify having sex with gay men. Introverts have taken over social media apps. The conversation changes to gays coming out in school. Rick and Brian share their experience in high school.
Brian share his story about hooking up in a sauna in Fort Lauderdale and how the culture is different in the south.
The closing conversation is about Covid and how life have accepted Covid and how it nightlife has adapted to it.
Make sure you subscribe to this podcast from your favorite listening device. Check out our apparel collection at www.topsubvers.com and use the promo code LNC20 to save 20% off on your purchase.
Late Night Cruisin - https://linktr.ee/LateNightCruisin
Gay Party Tix - https://linktr.ee/gaypartytix