group identity

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their unpack  Table & Well's Community Identity Statement.  In this episode they will conclude their  discussion on the third statement, We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known.  This statement carries a lot of meaning.  Listen in as Tennison and Ginelle finish this conversation and talk through, WE practice the gift of presence and We actively practice relational curiosity with ourselves and others. 

We Take Care of Ourselves

We are Gentle Protectors

We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known

• We see people through the eyes of Heaven
• We see ourselves through the eyes of Heaven
• We seek to understand ourselves and each other
• We practice the gift of presence by giving our full eye, ear, and heart attention to ourselves and one another
• We actively practice relational curiosity with ourselves and each other

So that, together, we may cultivate joy, safety and belonging in our community.

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their discussion through  Table & Well's Community Identity Statement.  In this episode they will begin to discuss the third statement, We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known.  This statement carries a lot of meaning.  Listen in as Tennison and Ginelle unpack it. 

We Take Care of Ourselves

We are Gentle Protectors

We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known

• We see people through the eyes of Heaven
• We see ourselves through the eyes of Heaven
• We seek to understand ourselves and each other
• We practice the gift of presence by giving our full eye, ear, and heart attention to ourselves and one another
• We actively practice relational curiosity with ourselves and each other

So that, together, we may cultivate joy, safety and belonging in our community.  

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their discussion through the second statement of Table & Well's Community Identity Statement, We are Gentle Protectors.  Our heart in this is to protect the relationship.

We Take Care of Ourselves

We are Gentle Protectors

• We stay in our circle by not speaking about, or for, others
• We are careful to not overshare 
• We do not share other’s personal stories
• We hold each other’s stories with kindness and full confidentiality
• We remain glad to be with others, even in hard times

We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known
So that, together, we may cultivate joy, safety and belonging in our community.  

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they discuss Table & Well's community Identity statement.  Listen as they talk through how this statement came to be and why it is so important.  This week we begin our discussion on the second Community Identity Statement' We are Gentle Protectors.  What is a gentle protector?  How  do we protect gently?  

We Take Care of Ourselves

We are Gentle Protectors

• We stay in our circle by not speaking about, or for, others
• We are careful to not overshare 
• We do not share other’s personal stories
• We hold each other’s stories with kindness and full confidentiality
• We remain glad to be with others, even in hard times

We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known
So that, together, we may cultivate joy, safety and belonging in our community.  

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they discuss Table & Well's community Identity statement.  Listen as they talk through how this statement came to be and why it is so important.  

We Take Care of Ourselves

• We focus on doing our own work and release others to do theirs
• We make the time to fully read, process, practice and apply each concept
• We honor our relational health journey through awareness, intention and practice
• We follow through on our commitment to mature, both in the short and long term
• We do hard things

We are Gentle Protectors
We Seek to See and Be Seen, Hear and Be Heard, Know and Be Known
So that, together, we may cultivate joy, safety and belonging in our community.  

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Dr. Dan's guest on Freedom Forum Radio this weekend is Robert Kappelmann, PE.  Kappelmann is the principal energy and environmental policy consultant with RLK Associates.  Prior to entering the consulting field, he served as Director of Legislative and Regulatory Affairs at JEA (Formally the Jacksonville Electric Authority).  He has assisted clients in understanding the economic impacts of new energy and environmental legislative and regulatory initiatives on their utility operations. 

Dr. Dan and Kappelmann will discuss the purpose of the “Woke Movement”.  “Woke-ism” is one of many tools created by the collectivist elite to divide our nation into antagonistic groups. 

E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 2 of 3)
E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 3 of 3)

Dr. Dan's guest on Freedom Forum Radio this weekend is Robert Kappelmann, PE.  Kappelmann is the principal energy and environmental policy consultant with RLK Associates.  Prior to entering the consulting field, he served as Director of Legislative and Regulatory Affairs at JEA (Formally the Jacksonville Electric Authority).  He has assisted clients in understanding the economic impacts of new energy and environmental legislative and regulatory initiatives on their utility operations. 

Dr. Dan and Kappelmann will discuss the purpose of the “Woke Movement”.  “Woke-ism” is one of many tools created by the collectivist elite to divide our nation into antagonistic groups. 

E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 1 of 3)
E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 3 of 3)

Dr. Dan's guest on Freedom Forum Radio this weekend is Robert Kappelmann, PE.  Kappelmann is the principal energy and environmental policy consultant with RLK Associates.  Prior to entering the consulting field, he served as Director of Legislative and Regulatory Affairs at JEA (Formally the Jacksonville Electric Authority).  He has assisted clients in understanding the economic impacts of new energy and environmental legislative and regulatory initiatives on their utility operations. 

Dr. Dan and Kappelmann will discuss the purpose of the “Woke Movement”.  “Woke-ism” is one of many tools created by the collectivist elite to divide our nation into antagonistic groups. 

E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 1 of 3)
E138: Robert Kappelmann - What's in a Word (Part 2 of 3)

Yale Law School professor Amy Chua shares how group identity has caused bitter partisanship in the U.S. and the failure of U.S. policies in Vietnam and other countries. Learn how children as young as 4 years old identify with groups and consistently display systematic, unconscious bias toward other groups. Amy argues that tribalism has taken over America's political system and that the way forward lies in remembering what makes the country special. 

Amy Chua is the author of 5 books and was named one of Time magazine’s 100 Most Influential People.

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If living Whole-Brained is truly how God created us, why don't we?  Why does it seem so hard to live relationally?  What are we missing, or is this really just a unrealistic utopian dream?  Or is it simply, we don't have the relational skills?

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they dig into and share practical skills that, when practiced, will help you live more relationally aware and mature. 

Part 1 of 2

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Whole-Brained relationally mature pastors and leaders are unfortunately, hard to find today.  We, the people, have a very strong propensity to promote people past their maturity level.  We see their gifts and jump at the chance to have them lead us.  But in doing so we tend to sacrifice the importance of relational connections that God designed us to live in.

In this episode, Tennison and Ginelle will be discussing what Whole-Brained relational mature pastors and leaders look like.  What the character traits that we should be looking for, and be seen, in our leaders. What is the purpose of the titles, Apostle, Pastor, Prophet, Teacher, Evangelist, that we give our leaders.

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Living Whole-Brained is the way that God design us to live from the beginning.  And Jesus modeled this for us.  Everything he did was relational, however He did not forgo knowledge and spiritual disciplines.  Somehow, over time we have swung the pendulum to the completely opposite side.  We forgo the true relational aspects that we were created to live and thrive in and functionally live in the knowledge, truth, program, and spiritual discipline side of our brain.  And we think that is how transformation happens.  This is not the roadmap that Jesus left us.

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin to unpack Whole-Brained Christianity.  In this episode they will revisit the 4 ingredients for healthy soil and what a Whole-Brained church could look like. 

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

This disease of narcissism is devastating to everyone it touches.  What do we do when we see, feel or experience narcissism in our community.  How do we protect our communities from narcissism?  Can it be eradicated?

Join Tennison and Ginelle  as they discuss the ways to protect your community from the disease of narcissism, the importance of a mature community, and the formula needed to eradicate this disease from our churches, communities, and family. 

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Enemy Mode:  We have all heard this phrase.  This is what happens when you are trying to win or feel that everyone is against you.  Most of us have ventured into this territory.  However, did you know that there are 2 types of enemy mode, Simple and Peditory. 
Join Tennison & Ginelle as they discuss and dissect these two very different ways to operate in enemy mode, the effects of each, and what is happening in your brain and the brain of the narcissist while this is happening. 

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Self Justification is the go to response when corrected for people who have narcissistic tendencies.  Since they cannot metabolize shame relationally and their need to feel special is driving them, deflection is key.  Self justification can come in many forms, everything from, "You'll never understand in a million years!" to, "How dare you question me!" to " God told me to do this." 
Listen in as Tennison and Ginelle look at this narcissistic tendency and continue to dissect this relational infection of narcissism

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Would you be able to identify narcissist behavior?  Most people believe that they can.  If so, why are there so many narcissist people leading churches, businesses  and communities?  Believe it or not we actually look for, find,  put in leadership, and hire people with major narcissist tendencies and call them strong leaders and follow them blindly.  All while there is a wake of destruction behind them.   

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Healthy group identity is something that is very important to having a strong community and something that is not normally talked about.  Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin the conversation about healthy group identity, who forms its, what it is, and how it is formed.

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they discuss some very easy ways that churches and community build their group identity around very toxic and potential destructive things.  These usually start as a "great way to minister" to a group of people, but if gone unchecked you can begin to identity yourself as your malfunction, (who we are when we are not acting like ourselves).  When this happens we erode, and can misrepresent our true identity.  

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#donate
For more information about the Table go to: tableandwell.org/communitytable
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org/intro
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Dr. Dena connects fear with intergroup relations, and the persistence  of pandemia, with a heritage approach to the possibilities to come together as the family of God.

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