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Chicago comedian and producer Sonal Aggarwal discusses growing up in an Indian family and the parental pressure to marry. Sonal and Karen discuss dating: How kinky are folks on the apps exactly? Who’s picking up the tab? Plus how being a massage therapist is an added benefit with partners.

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• Sonal Aggarwal - standup, actor, producer– @sonalmedia on all social platforms
• Karen Yates  - sex educator, performer, energy worker

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No, it's not the Bollywood movie we're discussing here but a real HUNTER for the spicy masala that's in between the legs of all those PYAARI LADKIS! 

Welcome back to the show because we're back baby, and we're back with that same DHAMAKA and MASTI you've been missing! It's been a while but we're now here to stay! 

Say hello to Mr. W, a Malaysian Gen Z rockstar all the way from Down Under, the land of the kickin' Kangaroos. He's here because he needs answers and by now, all of you know that we don't leave a brother-in-arms hangin' so we roll the carpet out for Mr.  W in this juicy episode.

Join Sam and I as we breakdown the problems Mr. W is currently facing to give him cold, hard insight on seducing those LADKIS. From logic to emotions, we got it all covered! 

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End of a season, but not the end for THE DESI BOYZ!

Enjoy this mini episode where we reveal what's in store for us in the near future! You don't want to miss this....as the title says [wink wink]

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You asked and we delivered...

“I do know how to administer CPR. However, I will not administer CPR unless you’re a hot female… If you’re some fat dude and you just had a heart attack and I don’t really know you, you’re gonna die… No, not even if you’re a friend… If you’re my friend, you just can’t be a p*ssy. ‘Well, I had a heart attack’, get the f*ck up. F*cks wrong with you. Go hospital later. Have a drink, cigarette, cup of coffee, back in the game. F*cking having heart attacks near me, you little p*ssy.” - Andrew Tate a.k.a 'Tatti'

Forget the book 'The Game'...

The above quote is from none other than the man who claims that most men (except for him) are invisible because of their weakness of being sad all the time...sigh. Yes, we decided to go to the big leagues and talk about the biggest CHUUTIYA on the planet at the moment. 

Grab a CHAI and listen in because we tell you why we think Mr. 'Tatti's' view on life is extreme, wrong and far different than someone who mastered INNER GAME - Kevin Samuels (R.I.P).

Join Sam and myself as we share our views on the two most polarized but admittedly influential people and discover what we have learned from observing the lives of these people.  This is a serious yet deep one. You'll want to sit down. 

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What would you do if you met someone who had a weapon aimed at you? How would you talk your way out of that situation? Stay and find out...as it might shock you.

In this episode, we explore how our thoughts, feelings and actions can be aligned to use the power of language to influence someone. 'Trishul' or 'The Holy Trinity', as we like to call it here at DesiBoyz HQ, provides a framework for understanding relationships because it shows that our thoughts, feelings, and actions have consequences on people's lives. This model is helpful because it helps us see that we have CONTROL over our own behaviors, which we can use to create desired outcomes in our relationships and interactions with others.

Join Sam and myself as we dive into this world of the 'Trishul', starting with me narrating a personal incident that happened to me and ending with a mini discussion about Andrew Tate. This is just part 1 so make sure you subscribe to our socials to stay updated for the next one.

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"You're weird!"

Those words are the last you wanna hear but they ring in your head like an alarm bell. What do you do? State control! 

People call people all sorts of things, using labels to define behaviour and experiences. Our jobs are to destroy those tethers that are holding you back and to let you see that it doesn't really matter what the world thinks of you!

This episode is all about diving deep into purpose and state control. Sometimes, you'll want to listen to the devil sitting on your shoulder and sometimes, the angel dude makes more sense because perception is just an aspect of reality. What you perceive to be true will always be true for you, so listen to this episode if you want some solid insight into changing your perception and frame! Setting a purpose for yourself sets the tone of how your reality is shaped.

Join Sam and myself as we explore Sam's encounter with 'Sunglasses Girl', my encounter with a 'Walking Dictionary' and our collective take on spiritual goals and purpose.

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First, an apology needs to be made. The upload was delayed due to some unforeseen circumstances but we haven't forgotten about all of you! 

This is an interesting episode, for sure. We all have that little voice inside of us...ya know...the angel and the devil? The only difference with our take and the conventional perspective is that we mix things up. Sometimes, listening to the devil with your hand on the control panel can lead to unexpectedly good results. By changing your frame and adjusting how you think, you kick the 'angelic' nice guy voice in the butt, reel the 'devilish' bad boy into your command matrix and unleash a side of you women have never seen before.

Yes, it's all about that AWAAZ inside your mind in this episode. Join Sam and I as we talk about Sam's experiences with changing his frame, my experience with observing other guys, the influence of Al Pacino in the movie, Devil's Advocate and more! You won't want to miss this. 

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What if you could read faces? 

Even better: What if a woman could read your face and know just exactly how much you desire her...so much that she won't be able to resist because it works on a subconscious level...

Is this JADOO?? Some type of weird JUGAAD?? 

No, our Desi Bros...it's no JADOO or MASTI...it is simply a skill you can master with practice and by subscribing to our channel (wink).

In this episode, we go to body language downtown and explore the various aspects that make up how we carry ourselves. From our head to our toes, our body communicates how we feel all the time...including our ROCKET down there. It's important to understand how to use the skills we cover to master the way you project your dominance so that any woman feels a burning desire to get closer to you. 

Join Sam & I as we dive deeper into non-verbal communication, from Sam's adventures with bending over to suggest intimacy with a woman to my eye-language that communicates playfulness. This is one of those episodes you'll want to re-listen to. 

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"Your voice sends thrills down my spine!"

Isn't that something we guys all want to hear from that special lady? You'll be surprised what a sexy voice can do to a woman. Combine that with the way you stand like Superman! You'll be unbeatable!

Fear not! In this episode, it's all about that magical voice and body language or as we at Desi Boyz HQ like to call it: The Uncivilized Gentleman. With the rise of technology, we have become so reliant on using our fingers to send texts to women that we forget to use our tone and voice to seduce them. Sam and I aim to break that pattern in this episode and help you find your true voice by giving you some useful pointers, so you won't want to miss this.

Join us as Sam talks about his opinion on a B movie with a raunchy sex scene, my experience with thrilling a woman with just my voice, Power Poses and more! 

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No, we're not talking about the MOVIE...although the themes from the movie apply to our conversations in this season.

Yes, we're back! You know it! We wouldn't want to leave our fans disappointed. 

Season 4 is here DOSTIYAN! FIKAR MAT KARO!

There's a word which shares a common misunderstanding in the world of men and it's spelled D-O-M-I-N-A-N-T. We all strive to achieve that '50 Shades', Christian Grey vibe but we fail because we come off as weird, creepy or the more appropriate word in this case - DOMINEERING. Why is this? Well, we have some of the answers in this episode, so you won't want to miss it! 

Join Sam and I as we explore Sam's adventure in defending a girl from a cockblocker in Santa Cruz, me getting dry-humped by a beauty in a bar during a "CHAMMAK CHALLO" dance, our banter on being dominant and more! 

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What's in an age?

Does it really matter how old you are when it comes to meeting, seducing and mingling with women? Does age control your physical limitations? Can you still get up to poop? 

We answer all those mundane questions with a bit of MASALA and a bit of MASTI...and more! Yes, you can blame Naughty Sam for coming up with this topic (wink) but it certainly stirred something within me, Professor Akira. 

Join Sam and myself as we bring another season to an end with a lighthearted but insight-filled finale, exploring all aspects of age and what potentially lies for us beyond the higher numbers. 

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Mrs. X was a seemingly loyal woman who dedicated herself to her husband, treasured all her moments with him until one day, the relationship started getting stale, boring, uninteresting and monotonous. All her happiness is drained when she suddenly meets Mr. Y at the grocery store who happens to be a seductive, daring and charming man. At first she's hesitant to pursue anything with Mr. Y but she gives in to her desires and the two end up having an affair. 

Bollywood plot? Maybe.
Reality? Yes. Very much so.

That's right, you heard it from us. Women cheat too. Big time. We're going to explore the whys and the hows so stick around. We use a Netflix show called Fishbowl Wives as a base model that serves as the door to this rabbit hole we fall into. 

Join Naughty Sam and Professor Akira as we explore carnal desires, ancient philosophies, the psychological makeup of people in failed marriages and a look at how far back in time since affairs started. You won't want to miss this!

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There are those that get close to you and then there those that get close so that they can use you...

Yes, this episode is about betrayal and how to filter out friends who really aren't "FRIENDS".

This is a serious one and quite personal to me, Prof. Akira. Naughty Sam joins in midway to narrate his experience with sh*tty 'friends'. 

SO, that being said, sit down, grab a chai and listen in as there's not much I have to say here in this description box, except: PAY ATTENTION. 

If it's one takeaway from this episode, it's, "Champagne with your real friends, real pain for your sham friends".

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It's the year 2022 and we are in tumultuous times. 

Neo-Nazi Feminism is reaching its limit...

MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is on the rise...

Gender neutrality is skewed...

Racism is being taken to extremes...

Yet, we call this evolution of humankind "woke". This term has been loosely thrown around and misused since the incidents involving BLM (Black Lives Matter) triggered the movement of "staying woke" back in 2014. What was once used to spread awareness of racism has now been used as an excuse to allow for unnatural and irrational behaviour, especially with modern day women. 

In we come to save the day. Not to worry Desi Bhais! We're here to let you know that there is hope beyond this chaos and we're going to help you kick it in the butt...but first, we need to understand it in detail, which is why this episode is necessary.

Join me, Professor Akira & Naughty Sam as we talk to our guest of the week, Leo, a.k.a. 'Starsage' about the idea of "woke" culture and how it has affected so many men who pursue genuine relationships with women. Leo hails from my very own city of Toronto and has a knack for understanding the finer layers of society when it comes to social dynamics. There's no better person who can highlight these evolutionary molecules under a microscope. 

Get ready to kick some GHAAND!

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Are you even aware that you're operating on default?

That's right. Deeper down the rabbit hole we go and in this episode, it's all about SELF-AWARENESS. Ask yourself this question: How aware are you of your perceived reality? Do you understand the environment you're in? Or do you simply do what you've been told to do because everyone else is?

It's time to wake up and see THE MATRIX for what it is. Wake up and smell the coffee! If you want to get better at connecting with women, join Sam & myself as we talk about Sam's encounter with a Russian Robot, my pattern interrupt with an Albanian designer at a Design Show and our take on the Johnny Depp-Amber Heard case. Yes, it's like Star Trek but for guys...we go DEEPER THAN NO MAN HAS GONE BEFORE! 

Don't worry if this overwhelming because HUM HAI NA?

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What did we tell you?

Yes! We brought him back and not just to chat but to report on his success using our suggestions! That's right, Mr. R is back and his recent sexcapade and Kuch Kuch Hota Hai session has brought forth some concerns which he shares with us in this episode. 

So sit back and enjoy the Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gam world of dating where just when you thought everything could go right...things do take an unexpected turn.

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Is it us or is this turning out to be the most revolutionary podcast for Desi Men out there?

We are going deeper into the forest, BHAIS!
This episode will probably be our most controversial yet because of the truths we uncover blatantly for the audience to see. However, this is also probably the most important episode till date as it talks about some very necessary facts that men need to hear. Whether you've been in a destructive relationship before or are experiencing harsh rejection from Neo-Nazi Feminists, this episode will contain everything you're looking for...and guess what? You're not alone. 

So join Sam and myself as we talk about the state of our society in a post-MeToo era, explore reasons why feminism has backfired, highlight key issues women face now in the dating world and what other activist movements have sprung up since the Neo-Nazi Feminist movement has gained momentum. Yes, we are ruffling feathers and we are creating a ruckus because it's time that this SHIT GETS EXPOSED!

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As the title says, we have yet another Desi Bhai joining us for a candid interview.

This time, we welcome Mr. A all the way from Helsinki who has problems getting women emotionally invested in his approaches. 

You know how we do [wink]. We whip some insight and wisdom into our Desi friend and send him on his way to moist pink freedom! Or in hindi - NAM GULABEE SVATANTATRA! 

Join us for another hard-hitting episode where Sam & myself talk about observing body language, using hero models, increasing the intensity of conversations and more!

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