indifference

*Host's note - if you'd like to watch this interview, check out the YouTube Video.

This episode features our guest, Lorraine Nilon, an Australian author, podcaster, and life coach with over 20 years of personal growth and spirituality research who specializes in helping others reconnect through self-reflection.

TOPICS COVERED:
- Their Journey – even though she was not a childhood sexual abuse victim, she found herself with all these clients of this type of trauma, so she started documenting and finding patterns, eventually found herself with many more clients who were adult children of narcissistic abuse and started finding patterns there as well
- Victim of abuse is the present moment experience; survivorhood comes with the work after
- Dynamics of narcissistic abuse – leaves a child feeling unworthy and blaming themselves (library of self-judgment)
- Narcissistic abuse is a “chip away” process on their victims
- Words v Tone – creates a “confusion fog”
- Indifference – when someone stops caring and then makes the victim indifferent to themselves
- Indifference – destroys boundaries, power plays make victim feel they have to appease people
- Learning to understand yourself – builds self-trust and intuition
- You can choose how to respond and observe and make healthy choices; take back control; empowerment
- Role of spirituality = knowing yourself, soul connection (your true essence), finding alignment, stripping away what’s not congruent, self-exploration, self-respect

GUEST RESOURCE RECOMMENDATIONS:
1. Learning about Narcissism (via YouTube) to really understand the reality of this type of abuse

FOR MORE INFO ABOUT OUR GUEST:
1.  Website
2. YouTube
3.  FB
4.  Her book: Spirituality, Evolution and Awakened Consciousness: Getting Real About Soul Maturity and Spiritual Growth
5.  Her book:  Breaking Free from The Chains of Silence: A respectful exploration into the ramifications of abuse hidden behind closed doors 

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In this Bible Story, Jesus speaks of generosity through the story of a glutinous rich man and a poor beggar. The rich man gorged on his wealth with no attention to the sick and cold beggar right at his door. As a result, the rich man suffered when he died, but the poor man was restored. This story is inspired by Luke 16:19-31. Go to BibleinaYear.com and learn the Bible in a Year.

Today's Bible verse is Luke 16:25 from the King James Version.

Episode 199: Another time as Jesus was teaching His disciples He told them the story of an ignorant rich man and a pitiable beggar. The rich man was selfish and indifferent to the suffering of the poor beggar that lived in front of his gate. When they died, it was Lazarus, the poor beggar, that was in the home of Abraham enjoying the good things he missed out on in life, while the rich man was in Hades tormented by hunger and thirst. Though the rich man begged Abraham to send Lazarus to warn his family about this, he refused saying they have The Word of God already to warn them, if they don’t listen to this, they won't listen to anything else.

Hear the Bible come to life as Pastor Jack Graham leads you through the official BibleinaYear.com podcast. This Biblical Audio Experience will help you master wisdom from the world’s greatest book. In each episode, you will learn to apply Biblical principles to everyday life. Now understanding the Bible is easier than ever before; enjoy a cinematic audio experience full of inspirational storytelling, orchestral music, and profound commentary from world-renowned Pastor Jack Graham.

Also, you can download the Pray.com app for more Christian content, including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.

Visit JackGraham.org for more resources on how to tap into God's power for successful Christian living.

This episode is sponsored by Medi-Share, an innovative health care solution for Christians to save money without sacrificing quality.

Pray.com is the digital destination of faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store.

Executive Producers: Steve Gatena & Max Bard

Producer: Ben Gammon

Hosted by: Pastor Jack Graham

Music by: Andrew Morgan Smith

Bible Story narration by: Todd Haberkorn

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this Bible Story, Josiah becomes King over Judah at eight years of age. However he clings to the wisdom of God, and becomes beloved as the righteous king of Jerusalem. He restores the temple and repentes on behalf of the people. This story is inspired by 2 Kings 22 & 2 Chronicles 34:1-32. Go to BibleinaYear.com and learn the Bible in a Year.

Today's Bible verse is 2 KIngs 22:8 from the King James Version.

Episode 153: As Josiah finished reading the scroll of God to the people, he cried out to God on their behalf and led them in making a covenant to God. After the people went home, he ordered Hilkiah and his men to banish any remaining priests of Baal they could find. Josiah even went to the forests to tear down the high places that generations of kings had erected there! Josiah did great things for his people to lead them back to their God.

Hear the Bible come to life as Pastor Jack Graham leads you through the official BibleinaYear.com podcast. This Biblical Audio Experience will help you master wisdom from the world’s greatest book. In each episode, you will learn to apply Biblical principles to everyday life. Now understanding the Bible is easier than ever before; enjoy a cinematic audio experience full of inspirational storytelling, orchestral music, and profound commentary from world-renowned Pastor Jack Graham.

Also, you can download the Pray.com app for more Christian content, including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.

Visit JackGraham.org for more resources on how to tap into God's power for successful Christian living.

This episode is sponsored by Medi-Share, an innovative health care solution for Christians to save money without sacrificing quality.

Pray.com is the digital destination of faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store.

Executive Producers: Steve Gatena & Max Bard

Producer: Ben Gammon

Hosted by: Pastor Jack Graham

Music by: Andrew Morgan Smith

Bible Story narration by: Todd Haberkorn

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This third in a 3-part series of my insightful conversation with Brent Smith will to fast-track your success in the world of dating. Brent gives us a sneak peek into his soon-to-be-published book, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery and exuding confidence. We explore the process of target selection and offering a treasure trove of dating advice. By embracing Brent's unique approach that focuses on self before diving into advanced tactics, you can master the art of approaching women, fine-tune your sexual techniques, and perfect your phone and texting protocols.

How important is the role of body language when it comes to sexual attraction? You'll be astounded by the results of an onstage experiment where women rate men based on their presence rather than their looks. The power of body language in sexual chemistry. Steady eye contact and rock-solid stability in the face of powerful feminine energy can significantly influence a woman's attraction towards you, often outweighing your physical appearance. 

The importance of cultivating a positive mindset and taking responsibility for your relationships. Brent shares invaluable advice on enhancing self-talk, visualizing success, and setting clear expectations in relationships. The power of authenticity and honesty in avoiding drama and building fulfilling relationships. 

The Joseph W. South Show – Volume 1 is packed with even more practical insights and personal stories than what you saw in my last book. Building on the success of Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man, this book provides you with a deeper understanding of female psychology and how to apply it to everyday interactions with women.

Whether you're a new reader or a returning fan you'll find plenty of useful advice in these pages. I bring decades of experience to the table, having made every mistake possible when it comes to the opposite sex. From divorce and child custody battles to wild sex and successful relationships I've seen and done it all!

It's not just men who stand to benefit. Female readers of the original book have raved about how PFP helped them understand their own thinking and the differences between masculine and feminine thought processes.

In a world where dating, sex, and relationships are complex and difficult to manage, I offer practical advice on how to overcome shyness, interact comfortably with the opposite sex, and find sexual partners. I share experiences of meeting and having sex with a lot of women, despite not being super rich, tall, or with model-good looks.

NOW ON AMAZON: THE JOSEPH W. SOUTH SHOW – VOLUME 1 ...

Ever wondered why rejection stings so much? Is it the bruised ego or fear of being seen as less than perfect? We dissect the psychology of dating and rejection, learning how to take it in stride and use it to fuel our personal growth. We also delve into the importance of self-esteem, offering practical advice on boosting it, such as engaging in random acts of kindness. 

We shift gears in the second segment, focusing on the non-verbal communication cues that are often overlooked in dating settings. Tune in as we analyze the role of eye contact in deciphering interest levels and managing emotional reactions. We also confront the challenge of congruence tests, explaining their occurrence and discussing the right way to respond without losing your cool. 

In the final segment, we delve into maintaining the spark in a relationship. We paint a vivid picture of how limiting time spent together and pursuing multiple relationships can keep the relationship vibrant. We also talk about the importance of creating magical moments and why they make relationships more fulfilling. So, buckle up for a thrilling ride into the world of dating and relationships, and gain valuable insights to up your game.

The Joseph W. South Show – Volume 1 is packed with even more practical insights and personal stories than what you saw in my last book. Building on the success of Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man, this book provides you with a deeper understanding of female psychology and how to apply it to everyday interactions with women.

Whether you're a new reader or a returning fan you'll find plenty of useful advice in these pages. I bring decades of experience to the table, having made every mistake possible when it comes to the opposite sex. From divorce and child custody battles to wild sex and successful relationships I've seen and done it all!

It's not just men who stand to benefit. Female readers of the original book have raved about how PFP helped them understand their own thinking and the differences between masculine and feminine thought processes.

In a world where dating, sex, and relationships are complex and difficult to manage, I offer practical advice on how to overcome shyness, interact comfortably with the opposite sex, and find sexual partners. I share experiences of meeting and having sex with a lot of women, despite not being super rich, tall, or with model-good looks.

NOW ON AMAZON: THE JOSEPH W. SOUTH SHOW – VOLUME 1 ...

In this Bible Story, Jesus speaks of generosity through the story of a glutinous rich man and a poor beggar. The rich man gorged on his wealth with no attention to the sick and cold beggar right at his door. As a result, the rich man suffered when he died, but the poor man was restored. This story is inspired by Luke 16:19-31. Go to BibleinaYear.com and learn the Bible in a Year.

Today's Bible verse is Luke 16:25 from the King James Version.

Episode 199: Another time as Jesus was teaching His disciples He told them the story of an ignorant rich man and a pitiable beggar. The rich man was selfish and indifferent to the suffering of the poor beggar that lived in front of his gate. When they died, it was Lazarus, the poor beggar, that was in the home of Abraham enjoying the good things he missed out on in life, while the rich man was in Hades tormented by hunger and thirst. Though the rich man begged Abraham to send Lazarus to warn his family about this, he refused saying they have The Word of God already to warn them, if they don’t listen to this, they won't listen to anything else.

Hear the Bible come to life as Pastor Jack Graham leads you through the official BibleinaYear.com podcast. This Biblical Audio Experience will help you master wisdom from the world’s greatest book. In each episode, you will learn to apply Biblical principles to everyday life. Now understanding the Bible is easier than ever before; enjoy a cinematic audio experience full of inspirational storytelling, orchestral music, and profound commentary from world-renowned Pastor Jack Graham.

Also, you can download the Pray.com app for more Christian content, including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.

Visit JackGraham.org for more resources on how to tap into God's power for successful Christian living.

This episode is sponsored by Medi-Share, an innovative health care solution for Christians to save money without sacrificing quality.

Pray.com is the digital destination of faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store.

Executive Producers: Steve Gatena & Max Bard

Producer: Ben Gammon

Hosted by: Pastor Jack Graham

Music by: Andrew Morgan Smith

Bible Story narration by: Todd Haberkorn

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's never a great feeling when you're giving your all but people just aren't into it.

In this penultimate episode of Emotipod Series 2, Creative Blocks, host Frances Butt once again seeks help from her friends, creatives and coaches, to discuss experiences of indifference and possible ways of dealing with it.

Guests:
Lisa Jones psychotherapist
Knud Stüwe, guitarist and oud player
Amos Childs, music producer
Birdsmith (Katie Bird) silversmith/jeweller
Oliver Lee, copywriter & Alexander Technique teacher
Alex Bollag, healing coach

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In this episode, I consider some initial objections against Fischer's view that death can harm the one who dies: that death cannot be experienced as a harm, that it has no time at which it is harmful, and that we have no more reason to fear an early death than we have do regret a late birth. Absent a successful defense to each of these challenges, Fischer would have to concede the argument to Epicurus and his followers, who contend that death is harmless. Lastly, I consider the indifference objection to Epicureanism, that were death harmless one has no reason to avoid death. Ultimately, I disagree with Fischer as I do not think Epicureanism can successfully avoid reformulations of this objection.

May you never choose to be spiritually disabled - instead, choose life with Jesus!

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It doesn't always seem as if China is a part of the real world. Usually, it is seen as representing a different 'other' to us. Why is that? Are you a tolerant person and what does that even mean? Is being tolerant more difficult than being indifferent? When did Australian children get to read about Australian fairy rather than European ones filled with Kings and Queens  and castles? 

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Matthew 22:1-14 - The parable of the wedding banquet is the story of salvation.  Everyone is free to choose or reject God's invitation.  Every choice has a consequence.  Rejection of God's invitation will result in eternal separation from God and His people.  On that day, you will stand before God, silent and without excuse.  Accept His offer of salvation today while you still can. For those who have accepted Christ, may we be bold in our witness.  

Matthew 22:1-14 - The parable of the wedding banquet is the story of salvation.  Everyone is free to choose or reject God's invitation.  Every choice has a consequence.  Rejection of God's invitation will result in eternal separation from God and His people.  On that day, you will stand before God, silent and without excuse.  Accept His offer of salvation today while you still can. For those who have accepted Christ, may we be bold in our witness.