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Episode 54: How Do I Know I'm Healing? (2/2)

With your co-hostesses:

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

Listen now:

Today, Pam and I are finishing our conversation around “How Do I Know That I’m Healing.” (Lyschel still isn’t with us, but she will be back soon!

We have a practical conversation, about things you can do to assess are you healing or stuck?

We Will be Discussing:

What can she practically do to help her move forward in her healing and recovery?
What hope can we leave our listeners?

Resources mentioned in this show:

Writing to Heal by James Pennebaker, Ph.D

Clearing Cognitive Distortions by Pam Blizzard

22 Examples of Cognitive Distortions and Worksheet from Positive Psychology

Scripture references:

2 Corinthians 10:5

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Hope For Wives

en-usFebruary 27, 2024

christian marriage

porn addiction

sex addiction

infidelity in marriage

betrayal trauma recovery

Episode 53: How Do I Know I'm Healing? (1/2)

With your co-hostesses:

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

Listen now:

Today, Pam and I are discussing, “How Do I Know I’m Healing?” (Lyschel isn’t here because she is taking a very small sabbatical because her plate is very full at the moment. She will be back soon, promise! I know we will all miss her!)

Back to our topic, “How Do I Know I’m healing?” sometimes, in the worst of the pain or when we have a day full of triggers it can feel like we are going to be raw and seeping for the rest of our lives. We want to give you validate your experience and give perspective on how healing happens.

We Will be Discussing:

What can a woman experience that makes her feel stuck?
What questions can she ask herself to assess if she is in fact stuck?
What hope can we leave our listeners?

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Hope For Wives

en-usFebruary 20, 2024

christian marriage

sex addiction

pornography addiction

infidelity in marriage

betrayal trauma recovery

Found You're Husband Watching Porn

Have you ever thought, "My husband watches porn, why?" Let me share three important things you need to know.

This channel will provide you with the motivation and inspiration to gain the strength you need to make it through difficult times in your relationship. I know this sounds cliche... but, you can become stronger and healthier than ever and do what is necessary to repair your relationship or realize you need to move on, both with love in your heart. Sexual betrayal is hard, so hard. But, recovery is incredibly worth it. You can do it. We can help.

This channel is perfect for you if:

🎯 Your partner watches porn, and you don't know what to do.

🎯 Your partner struggles with compulsive sexual behaviors.

🎯 You have suffered an affair in your relationship. And more.

Listen now to see what your Sanity After Betrayal Coach says about helping you heal your brain and life after betrayal.

❤️Need support?

Check out the Sanity After Betrayal Program:

👉 https://sanityafterbetrayal.com/programs/

Schedule a complimentary consultation with SAB Coach Jamie Watson:

👉 https://calendly.com/jamie-consult/15min_consults

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Sanity After Sexual Betrayal

en-usJanuary 27, 2024

Episode 48: Your Healing is Not Dependent on His Recovery (2/2)

With your co-hostesses:

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

Today, we continue our discussion around how a wife can heal even when her husband is not in good emotional and behavioral health, yet. We will be focusing on practical tools and ideas you can use to care for yourself and move into personal growth in spite of her husband's lag in recovery.

We Discuss:

Why should a wife focus on herself in this season?
What are some ways a wife can care for herself in this tough season? (Self-assess your safety, get into a support group for validation and education, do your own personal therapy work for childhood trauma, join a boundaries group if boundaries are hard for you)
What hope can we leave our listeners?

Resources

Episode 8: Self Care with Practical Ideas

Episode 33: Why are Cognitive Distortions Important to Understand when Healing from Betrayal Trauma?

Episode 34: How Do We Navigate or Heal From Cognitive Distortions

Pam's Clarity and Peace with Boundaries Group

Lyschel's Hope Redefined Boundaries Group

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Hope For Wives

en-usJanuary 16, 2024

christian marriage

sex addiction

betrayal trauma

pornography addiction

infidelity in marriage

Episode 41: Sexual Identity Rupture after Betrayal

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

TRIGGER WARNING. This content may be trigger your threat response. Please use your self-compassion and decide whether this is right for you to hear at this time.

NOT SAFE FOR SMALL EARS. Please wear your ear buds for privacy and to protect small ones.

Welcome to another episode of Hope For Wives. Today, we are discussing a very important topic, the impact sexual betrayal has on a wife’s sexuality.

We Will be Discussing:

What is a sexual identity?
are some ways wives are impacted in the area of their sexual identity after infidelity or sexual betrayal?
What are some ways a wife can heal from the rupture to their sexual identity?
What hope can we leave our listeners?

Resources mentioned in this show:

Sexual Clarity for Christian Women, class led by Bonny L. Burns (Strong Wives).

Scripture references:

Genesis 4:1

Psalm 139:23

Philippians 4:6

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Hope For Wives

en-usOctober 24, 2023

pornography addiction

infidelity in marriage

healingfrombetrayal

sexual wounding betrayal trauma

sexual betrayal trauma

Welcome to Sanity After Betrayal Podcast

Porn use, lies, affairs, and manipulation making you feel crazy ?

If you have been sexually betrayed by your partner, then this podcast is for you.

Dr. Trish Leigh, Cognitive Neuroscientist and Sex Addiction Coach, unpack betrayal and healing just for you.

NOTE: Adria Sullivan is no longer with us. Our SAB Coach is Jamie Watson.

This channel will provide you with the motivation and inspiration to gain the strength you need to make it through difficult times in your relationship. I know this sounds cliche... but, you can become stronger and healthier than ever and do what is necessary to repair your relationship or realize you need to move on, both with love in your heart. Sexual betrayal is hard, so hard. But, recovery is incredibly worth it. You can do it. We can help.

This channel is perfect for you if:

🎯 Your partner watches porn, and you don't know what to do.

🎯 Your partner struggles with compulsive sexual behaviors.

🎯 You have suffered an affair in your relationship. And more.

Listen now to see what your Sanity After Betrayal Coach says about helping you heal your brain and life after betrayal.

❤️Need support?

Check out the Sanity After Betrayal Program:

👉 https://sanityafterbetrayal.com/programs/

Schedule a complimentary consultation with SAB Coach Jamie Watson:

👉 https://calendly.com/jamie-consult/15min_consults

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Sanity After Sexual Betrayal

en-usJuly 01, 2023

What to Expect After You Discover Your Husband Watches Porn.

You just found out your husband has been watching a ton of high-intensity porn? Plan on talking to him about it? Find out what to expect in the week after from Dr. Trish Leigh.

This channel will provide you with the motivation and inspiration to gain the strength you need to make it through difficult times in your relationship. I know this sounds cliche... but, you can become stronger and healthier than ever and do what is necessary to repair your relationship or realize you need to move on, both with love in your heart. Sexual betrayal is hard, so hard. But, recovery is incredibly worth it. You can do it. We can help.

This channel is perfect for you if:

🎯 Your partner watches porn, and you don't know what to do.

🎯 Your partner struggles with compulsive sexual behaviors.

🎯 You have suffered an affair in your relationship. And more.

Listen now to see what your Sanity After Betrayal Coach says about helping you heal your brain and life after betrayal.

❤️Need support?

Check out the Sanity After Betrayal Program:

👉 https://sanityafterbetrayal.com/programs/

Schedule a complimentary consultation with SAB Coach Jamie Watson:

👉 https://calendly.com/jamie-consult/15min_consults

#whatisbetrayaltrauma #myhusbandwatchesporn #traumarecovery #healfrombetrayaltrauma #betrayaltrauma #betrayaltraumarecovery #Icantstopthinkingofmyhusbandwatchingporn #betrayatraumarecovery #husbandpornaddiction...

Sanity After Sexual Betrayal

en-usJune 29, 2023