kink shaming

In his episode, we respond to a conservative YouTuber's kink shaming.
Here is a link to the original video: We Need To Bring Back Kink Shaming.

Episode Art: Allegory of Salvation, Wolf Huber, c. 1543

Have you ever been shamed or ever felt ashamed of your kink/s or fetishes? Do you wonder why people shame others for their personal choices? And, how and when does shame start? How is the cuckold kink, perceived? Listen at 36:17, for the REAL reason why, I LOVE chastity! In this episode, I will dig into those topics, share some information from a great resource that I often turn to, called: Psychology Today and I discuss how kinks used to be considered a symptom of mental illness and how that original (and improper diagnosis) from the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) has now changed.  At 35:47, I discuss tease and denial kink. I also discuss how to approach public kink/fetish play. I will share a real life story, of one of My first sissies and their desire to display their kink to someone that did not CONSENT and how I dealt with that situation. I will also share the methods and reasons behind My specific approach, with any public kink.  My slave and I, discuss these things from the perspective of Me, a FemDom and him, a submissive slave-minded, chaste man.

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**WARNING: YOU MUST BE 18 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER TO ENJOY THIS CONTENT**

On this episode, Brian and I discuss some thoughts we had about Fetlife, kink shaming, and gatekeeping in the community after reading a wonderful writing titled, "So you posted a picture online and now you think you're kinky" by _Papa-Bear_ on Fetlife.   

Papa Bear works in the Sexual Health realm of Public Health and is also a BDSM and Sexual Health Educator. He has been an active part of the BDSM Community for over a decade and has enjoyed sharing his journey from hiding his sexuality due to shame to BDSM ambassador. You can read more about his journey in the world of BDSM and his opinions on relationships, BDSM dynamics, sex, health, politics and more at https://fetlife.com/_Papa-Bear_.

I've read this writing during the episode but if you would like to see it and you don't have a Fetlife account, you can find it on our website at https://kinkyintroverts.com/writings.

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