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Transform Your Young Person's Motivation: The 4-Stage Journey to Self-Driven Success!

Are you watching your child or teen meander through life with minimal drive?

It's time to turn the tide!

In this pivotal episode of The Modern Parenting Solutions Podcast, I unveil the final secret to unlocking your young person's independent self-motivation. Discover the science-backed 4-stage journey that promises not just a fleeting change, but a transformative shift in your young person's approach to life.

Say goodbye to external incentives and welcome a new era of intrinsic drive. After this episode, you'll be equipped to guide your child or teen towards a future brimming with self-initiated success and fulfillment.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• [5:22] Transformative Story: Dive into a real-life coaching success story demonstrating the life-changing impact of the 4-part self-motivation success journey.
• [9:10] Motivation Series Recap: A quick review of parts 1-2, laying the groundwork for today's deep dive.
• [13:45] Journey Overview: Grasp the essence of the self-motivation journey and its transformative potential.
• [16:44] Stage 1: Learn the initial steps to kindle your child or teen's motivation.
• [24:35] Stage 2: Discover how to evolve from external drivers to personal accountability and pride.
• [33:31] Stage 3: Unravel the shift towards aligning activities with personal values and passions.
• [40:39] Stage 4: Witness the culmination of the journey where your young person's motivation becomes a true reflection of their identity.

Remember, you are not just a spectator in your young person's life - you're a catalyst for their growth and success. By understanding and applying the insights from today's episode, you can profoundly influence their journey towards self-motivation and achievement. Remember, every young person has a reservoir of untapped potential; it's time to unlock it!

📣 Ready to dive deeper and empower your child or teen like never before? Join The Self-Motivation Success Academy (SMSA) at MotivateMyKid.com. Let's embark on this transformative journey together!

Are you puzzled by what truly motivates your child or teen? This episode is a game-changer in understanding and harnessing their unique motivational powers!

Discover the seven motivation personality types and identify which one resonates with your young person. This isn't just about learning these types; it's about transforming your approach to parenting. By recognizing your young person's motivation personality, you can apply effective, tailored strategies to strengthen their 'Motivation Muscle,' setting the stage for a happy and successful future.

📌 In This Episode, You’ll Explore:

[5:42] My Personal Story: The story of how I created the seven motivation personality styles, shaped by my family and professional experiences.

[12:40] Key Motivation Concepts: A recap of the important terms and concepts from the previous two episodes that are also related to today's episode.

[22:80] Type #1: The Lack of Confidence Kid 

[28:05] Type #2: The Inconsistent Kid 

[32:15] Type #3: The ‘What’s In It For Me?’ Kid 

[36:25] Type #4: The Easily Distracted Kid 

[40:20] Type #5: The Smart Kid 

[44:58] Type #6: The Rebellious Kid 

[49:20] Type #7: The Motivated Kid 

Click here to take the 18-question motivation personality quiz!

Click here to get the free ebook: The 7 Motivation Personality Types: How To Work With Your Child's Natural Personality To Encourage Self-Motivation

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Because self-motivation is such an important and HUGE topic, I’m also continuing the theme on today’s episode.

Last week, I told you about the 3 science-backed ingredients that need to be present in your day-to-day parenting in order to influence your child or teen’s self-motivation to grow.

I know these ingredients work, too, because not only have I seen success with these ingredients when I used them with my own 2 kids, but I’ve also seen countless numbers of the parents I coach use these ingredients successfully.

So just to review, the three ingredients are autonomy, mastery, and connection, and if you’re new to these ingredients – or you need a reminder – I created a helpful free guide called the Self-Motivation Cheat Sheet that breaks down what these ingredients are and how to use them with your own parenting.

And remember – these elements have a LOT of scientific backing behind them – so they definitely work.

If you’ve already listened to Episode #32, I now want to address all of those common objections that I hear from parents about why autonomy, mastery, and connection just won’t work for their child or teen.

I KNOW this works – so I want to address the top 5 myths that keep a lot of parents from taking this important step in helping their young person to totally turn around their self-motivation in a good way.

I believe that once you see how these myths aren’t true, you’ll feel more empowered to use the 3 ingredients to begin creating a home environment where your child or teen has no excuse but to succeed.

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Today’s episode is going to answer the question you’ve always wondered: why can’t young people just buckle down and get their work done?

Believe it or not, self-motivation is like a physical muscle – it can be strengthened with practice. This means that parents can develop strategies to use with their young people to help them grow well-developed self-motivation muscles!

In this episode, you’ll learn TWO important concepts:

• #1: Why your current parenting style might be DESTROYING your child or teen’s self-motivation, and
• #2: What 3 elements MUST BE PRESENT in order to build your young person’s “Moivation Muscle”.

After listening to this entire episode, you’ll come away feeling like you now have a plan of action that will guide your child or teen to a successful semester at school.

Rate, review, and follow on Apple Podcast. This helps me serve more parents just like you to use science-based strategies to parent their young people in a way that sets up their child for a great future AND builds a warm and positive parent-child connection. CLICK HERE, then scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “write a review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

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