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Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to offer up the kind of therapy only your best girlfriend can. Bring on the laughter and good advice. 

Included in the discussion:

00:38 – Ashley W is back in New York after her birthday trip, but was it the “Eat, Pray, Love” adventure she thought it might be? Ashley N gets the details.

11:02 – Can you believe Ashley N was forced to steal back her own groceries in her own neighborhood? Find out why she is fed up with delivery drivers.

13:38 – Kids grow up fast these days, and the drama is hitting close to home for Ashley N. Ashley W isn’t a parent but does her best to offer up support.

20:49 – What’s worse in a man? Overwhelming ambition or none at all? The ladies are answering another listener question.

31:09 – Ashley W met a relationship coach, and it’s Ashley N's turn to provide support. Together they craft the perfect man...or the perfect pizza? However you choose to receive it, they finally know what type of “bae” Ashley W needs.

41:49 – Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss the love of lying men, smart vs. kind, OnlyFans to pay the rent, and Lori Harvey’s finesse.

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Adrienne Bailon Houghton fills in for Ashley N while she's working late.  Adrienne and Ashley W go way back, and they’re spilling the tea on some of their favorite moments. When Ashley N arrives, the ladies dive into a discussion of their party days, the first Black Bachelor, and sexy talk as a career option.

Included in the discussion:

00:16 –While Ashley N is working late, Adrienne and Ashley W catch up on old times.

7:08– It’s Ashley W’s birthday weekend, and she’s heading into her new year with a fresh outlook.

15:03 – Ashley N joins the party and catches us up on her busy week. She’s making big career moves, but how are her girls adjusting to the new work schedule?

24:00 – The first listener question has arrived, and it’s perfect for our resident TV expert! The ladies go deep on the first Black Bachelor, and the image he portrays.

31:37 – Ashley W and Adrienne’s most memorable nights out were often totally random. Wait ‘til you hear the one about the underage drinkers and the “British” bar owner.

39:49 – Question Time! Ashley, Ashley, and Adrienne discuss reverse cowgirl, stepmom potential, and faking orgasms for OnlyFans.

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Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss unlocking your inner hoe, “Bridgerton” in real life, and hookup drop-offs.

Included in the discussion:

00:16 – Kevin Hart & Joe Budden are guests this week. Or are they? So what if the ladies had to trick them into being on the show.

01:58 – The men have set Ashley + Ashley straight. It’s not about competition. They just like hoes. Go live ya life, Sis!

06:28 – Ladies Night was a success, and Ashley N had the hangover to prove it. Mark your calendars for the next event on February 3rd. You don’t want to miss this.

09:29 – Ashley W took the advice of our resident television guide, Ashley N, and binged “Bridgerton.” The show is definitely fire, but does love always win in real life?

19:50 – You’re dope. You know you’re dope. So why does your guy’s ex-girl make you insecure? The ladies talk it out.

33:45 –   Dick appointment drop-offs are sex trafficking. Discuss.

38:10 – Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss packing heat, baes on social media, lingerie for the long run, and requisite foreplay.

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Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance again this week to discuss empathic abilities, sex toy secrets, and “Bridgerton” binges.

Included in the discussion:

01:28 – Ashley W’s back from her Miami golf trip with a new Bae. The trip was a success, but that’s all she’s saying for now.

07:22 – Ashley N is the girl who would bail on the sleepover before bedtime. Ashley W is the girl who would stay until the morning donuts arrived. Which one were you?

10:26 – Sometimes the energy of a room is just too much to handle. Ashley + Ashley explore their empathic abilities, and things start making sense.

23:54 – It’s time to binge, and “Bridgerton” is fire! Our resident television guide, Ashley N, brings Ashley W up-to-speed on the hottest new show from Shondaland.

26:13 – Things were dark in the nation’s capital this week, but President-Elect Joe Biden is giving the ladies hope.

34:49 – Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss lesbian chic, sex toys, and hallucinogens.

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Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss back-handed compliments, kids these days, and sex in strange beds.

Included in the discussion:

00:26 – Ashley N needs to know how Ashley W is managing the cuts to her Bae List. Turns out men like competition.

03:35 – Is AN a hater or did she accidentally sign up for a job she doesn’t want? The girls need to clear the air.

10:18 – How to break down a back-handed compliment. Why can’t some guys just be direct?

14:14 – The Tik Tok Gen is skipping the awkward phase and going straight to grown. The ladies have questions and concerns.

19:43 – Is sex at your parents’ house ever okay? What about your friends’? Just be sure to change the sheets.

29:37 – Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss therapy, relationships in the rearview, hall pass privileges, and sexy selfies.

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Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance to recap their Christmas week and look back at their favorite moments from the past twelve podcast episodes. They discuss last-minute gift buying, restructuring the Bae Roster, and how they plan to walk into 2021.

Included in the discussion:

01:05 – Ashley N’s Dad decides to visit at the last minute, so it’s a mad dash to the mall for additional Christmas gifts. The trip officially turns Ashley N into “crazy mom.”

08:20 – It’s Soulmate Bae’s birthday, and he’s dodging gifts from AW. This is not a good sign.

11:03 – As a gift to the fans, Ashley + Ashley have pulled their favorite moments from the last twelve episodes. Remember when…

• We met Hyundai Hybrid
• AW + AN shared the COVID testing experience
• Brenn Colleen popped into the studio to discuss quarantine relationships and woman-to-woman talks
• The ladies discussed men who love the tea
• Shayla Cowan and Ingrid Best paid a visit to discuss closet space and fake babies
• We met British Bae
• The Cool Moms, Erica and Milah, from the “Good Moms Bad Choices” podcast paid a visit.
• AW rolled up to the studio in rollers. 
• The ladies discussed how sympathy sex becomes cringey
• Kristel Davis and Autumn Pierce stopped by to discuss their 007 dating stories
• AN shared how she defied expectations.
• AW + AN discussed thrill rides and body counts.

47:54 – Holiday Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss which Baes will make the cut and their goals for the upcoming year.

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Ashley + Ashley are getting into the holiday spirit. This week they discuss splitting the check, the importance of good sex, and how to bridge the gap in a long-distance relationship.

Included in the discussion:

02:25 – Ashley + Ashley had their first official photoshoot for the podcast - beautiful shots, awkward experience.

06:20 – The girls share a couple moments where their meals out were comped.  The moral of the story is, “Find a roach.”

13:14 – When girlfriends gather for dinner it can get complicated. Just split the check, Sis!

17:43 – The men in the audience have a question or two: If the guy is great but the sex is bad, do you give him another shot? 

29:03 - Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss the last time they cried, dream celeb besties, thrill rides, and long-distance love stories.

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio to chat about the changing times. This week they discuss misleading social media, teen crushes, and the kind of sex you can get behind.

Included in the discussion:

03:14 – Ashley + Ashley are turning down invitations, and social plans are suffering. But it’s 2020.

09:22 – Don’t let social media fool you. Men are looking for real women. Natural bodies and intelligence are still a winning combination.

15:34 – Ashley W is convinced she’s second wife material. Ashley N needs more information.

20:28 – The girls take a stroll down memory lane and revisit their teen TV crushes. This may not be cute.

23:46 - Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss embarrassing sex, living the life you’ve envisioned, bouquets vs. cash, and embarrassing Instagram follows.

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Ashley + Ashley welcome their guests Kristel David and Autumn Pierce to the studio to discuss the highs and lows of raising young ladies, how to navigate life alongside a sports star, and secret agent stories that reveal deep truths.

Included in the discussion:

00:15 – Ashely N’s girls are right at home in front of the camera, but can Ashley W convince her to start making those casting rounds again.

03:15 – It’s a WAGS reunion this week. Autumn Pierce and Kristel David join Ashley + Ashley to catch up on some girl talk and discuss their latest ventures.

06:23 – Daughters! It’s a group chat about how to handle the growing pains facing the young ladies at home.

10:59 – What’s it really like when your guy is a player for the pros? The ladies pull back the curtain and share the truth. They laugh. They cry. They come to some understandings.

33:54 – Dating tips: Check out the frozen foods section, but don’t buy the bathmats too soon.

38:52 - Question Time! It turns out everyone has an inner 007. Some of us even have FBI connections.

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio, and they’re considering the male perspective. They dive into guys who can cook, cringey behavior, and sex that’s less than sexy. 

Included in the discussion:

01:33 – Ashely N has received some listener feedback. Is Ashley W being too judgy or is “Match My Fly” still valid?

07:24 – Bonus points for knowing your way around the kitchen, but cooking skills shouldn’t be a prerequisite. Ashley + Ashley can get the job done just fine with an app.

12:36 – Second-hand embarrassment is so cringey. What do you do when the perfect guy pulls a vibe-killing move?

18:54 - Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss getting a guy’s say on your appearance, “sympathy” sex, communication expectations, and social compatibilities with substance.

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Ashley + Ashley are giving thanks and diving deep on holiday traditions, spy stories from a single girl, and how to handle a cheating man when he’s not your own.

Included in the discussion:

02:37 – Ashley W is prepping for a date, but she’s keeping the details on this Bae to herself. It must be serious.

07:31 – Dear Young Queen has added new contributors to the blog.  Ashley W gives us one story that almost all women can relate to.

14:14 – Ashley N is obsessed with “Love Island UK” because, well…the British are better. Wait ‘til she hears what they’re doing Down Under.

17:20 – Welcome to the Clubhouse. Ashley W is right at home with the new audio drop-in app, but Ashley N is still getting the lay of the land.

19:45 – Ashley + Ashley talk family dynamics and holiday functions. Why can’t everyone just be on their best behavior?

33:19 - Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss the best way to tell a friend their man is cheating, the price to be cell phone free, and the thanks they’re giving this holiday season.

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Ashley + Ashley welcome the hosts of "Good Moms Bad Choices," Erica and Milah, to the studio. This week they discuss turning up when dressing down, the new mommy movement, and hacking Hinge.   

Included in the discussion:
00:15 – Ashley + Ashley breathe a sigh of relief now that Biden and Harris are heading to the White House.

04:59 – The hosts of Ashley + Ashley’s favorite podcast, "Good Moms Bad Choices," are in the studio. Erica and Milah share the origin story of their friendship and how their bond has sparked a new kind of mommy movement.

11:53 – Girls grow up fast. As Erica, Milah, Ashley, and Ashley compare notes on how to handle the little ones in their lives, they consider things from their moms’ perspectives.

21:39 – Ashley W. needs some Hinge tips, and Erica and Milah are here to help. Apparently, not everyone knows how to create a good dating profile.

29:51 - Question Time! Listen in as everyone discusses the appropriate time for your kids to meet your guy, who pays for the sitter, and baby mama craziness on a scale of 1 to 10.

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Ashley + Ashley weigh in on the biggest presidential election of a lifetime and put their faith in the process. This week they discuss pro tips for being the best houseguest, guys who can’t commit, and why social compatibility is key for couples.

Included in the discussion:

00:50 – Ashley + Ashley are refreshing their news feeds just like the rest of us. Who will be our next president?

03:25 – Is Ashley W ready to make the leap to the West Coast? Ashley N lays out a plan.

13:26 – There’s a new man on the line. British Bae dials in to the studio, but his call leaves Ashley + Ashley with more questions than answers.

18:45 – Ashley N shares her professional opinion on why couples should match their vibes but not take it too far.

24:04 – Ashley + Ashley break down the importance of social compatibility in a relationship.

30:34 - Question Time! Listen in as Ashley + Ashley discuss how to respond when your ex comes calling, ground rules for your guy’s female bestie, keeping up connections with old flames, and the age-old question of spit or swallow?

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Ashley + Ashley welcome to the studio Ingrid Best, Vice President of Marketing for Combs Enterprises, and Shayla Cowan, Chief of Staff at Will Packer Productions and Will Packer Media. They chat about Black Girl Magic, the importance of MENtors, and dodging kidnap vans.

Included in the discussion:

00:45 – Ashley + Ashley welcome their guests and discuss Ingrid and Shayla’s positions as successful Black Women in this moment of profound change.

13:55 – What’s it like to work alongside some of the most powerful players in the entertainment industry? Shayla and Ingrid discuss their career trajectories and how to identify your mentors.

19:45 – Would you rather share your closet or your bathroom with your man? Everyone weighs in, and the answers may surprise you.

22:41 – Sometimes your friends can’t quite get on board with your manifestation destination. Ashley W is put in the hot seat.

26:55 – When it comes to money, what are the ladies looking for in a romantic partnership?

38:08 - Question Time! Listen in as everyone discusses the appropriate time to show the true you, psychic readings, and the magic of mushrooms.

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio together. They catch up on what happened in their lives this week and chat about the beauty of a Cash App gift, gossip sites, and languages of the heart.

Included in the discussion:

3:00 - Ashley W gives an update on Soulmate Bae. Has he been demoted?

7:44 - Did you hear about the rookie who broke the rules? Ashley + Ashley share their thoughts.

14:11 - Ashley + Ashley decode their love languages and the kinds of apologies that speak to them most clearly.

22:33 - Question Time! Listen in as Ashley + Ashley discuss favorite ways to receive affection, healthy changes, weird coincidences, and angry reactions.

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In this episode, Ashley + Ashley welcome their first guest – author of Love Letters & Lighter Fluid, Brenn Colleen. They catch us up on quarantine honeymoons, woman-to-woman talks, and how to navigate the tricky path of having guys as friends.

Included in their discussion:

01:58 – Ashley + Ashley hear how Brenn’s love life (and garden) blossomed during quarantine.
09:52 – There are some things to keep in mind before you come to someone “Woman-to-Woman.”
11:39 – What happens when your guy friend’s girl isn’t feeling your friendship?
17:45  – Question time! Listen in as Ashley, Brenn, and Ashley share their thoughts on joint finances, Venmo stalking, extreme thrills, and insecurity.

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In this episode, Ashley + Ashley are reunited on the West Coast after months of pandemic lockdown. They catch us up on Ashley N’s recent birthday, COVID testing as a team, and dating while searching for your soulmate.

They discuss:

01:04 – Ashley N had plans for her birthday, and Ashley W flew private to help her celebrate. How did that go?

07:35 – The highs and lows of COVID testing with your best friend.

14:05 – Ashley W introduces us to Soulmate Bae and Bentley Bae. Which one deserves to win her heart? Ashley N has some thoughts.

25:19 – Question time! Listen in as Ashley + Ashley share their thoughts on keeping gifts after a breakup, dating apps, when to share the real you, married men, and how to handle inappropriate comments.   

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It only took four scrapped episodes, a couple of false starts, and a two-month battle with Apple Podcasts, but we’re here! Welcome to ASK ASHLEY: THE PODCAST. In this episode, Ashley + Ashley tackle the age-old question, “Is love blind?” 

They discuss:

03:16 – A recent dating experience that left Ashley W questioning her standards when evaluating men. Is she being frivolous? Ashley N weighs in on the subject as only a best friend can.

17:47 – SPOILER ALERT. Ashley + Ashley cover their binge of the hit Netflix “social experiment” LOVE IS BLIND. They offer unfiltered opinions on the entire season and share the surprising ways the contestants’ journeys resonate with their own lives.

33:00 – Question time! Listen in as Ashley + Ashley share the history of their nicknames, advice from their mothers, and the best and worst parts of their first jobs.  

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