love-&-sex-&-relationships

What conversations should you have with your potential mate to know your love will last a lifetime?

If conversations start out harsh, the relationship will often break down into loneliness and unhappiness for both parties.

Conversations where each partner discusses the positive things they need tend to go smoother.

You don’t have to hook up with your clone. In fact, someone a little different from you makes it interesting. You can learn from each other.

Here are the topics that make a date easy and enjoyable, while giving you the information you seek quickly:

1. Trust
2. Conflict
3. Sex and intimacy
4. Work and money
5. Family and children
6. Fun and adventure
7. Sacred beliefs and values
8. Dreams for life

Discussing the history, experiences and preferences with each of these topics will help both of you see if this is a relationship worth pursuing.

Listen as Dr. John Gottman joins Melanie Cole, MS, to share how to have the conversations for a lasting love.

Online dating has changed the face of courtship. With so many websites and apps available, it’s hard to know where to start.

One of the advantages is that you can pre-screen people before you meet them. You needn’t sidle up to the bar, fingers crossed that attractive person is available and looking to date. It’s easier to zero in on likely candidates for love.

Of course, the disadvantage is that body language and tone of voice don’t come across in a text chat.

Concerns about cat-fishing or disingenuous profiles are legitimate. Watch out for those who don’t talk about their future or have clear statements about themselves. Take the first step and be honest yourself.

You have to meet lots of people to find love. Online dating makes it easier to narrow the candidates. The yeses matter; forget about the rejections.

Mobile apps are best for a first screening and a first date. You can gain more information about a person and see more photos on a website.

Listen as Mark Gibson joins Melanie Cole, MS, to guide you into the world of online dating.