men going their own way

In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we analyze the "Alpha Widow" dynamic and what a guy should do when he is faced with a situation where he is confronted with a woman's past. How does he compete with the men from her past? What does he do if she continues to bring past partners up?

Also on the episode:

- "Sex Positivity"
- What to wear to the gym for maximum attraction
- When to approach girls at the gym
- How the Titanic demonstrates the "Alpha Widow" dynamic
- The duality of hypergamy and where guys miss the mark

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In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we analyze the struggles that some men encounter when "taking the red pill" much like Cypher in the Matrix series. When is it best to be more cautious when it comes to evangelizing the concepts we discuss about the sexual marketplace and male/female dynamics? Why are some people better suited for it than others?

Also on the episode:

- Male and Female age preferences
- Dealing with others frowning upon your dating choices
- Looking ahead to 2022
- Is is wrong to want to be blue pilled again or "plugged back in?" 

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In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we go back into the #MeccaMailbag to answer the backlog of questions from our listeners. We focus on one of the three "pillars" of Masculinity: Game. What is the definition of game and why is it important to have a further understanding of WHY game is effective beyond just applying it for positive results. Topics also discussed:

- Recovery from muscle belly tears
- ART, Cryotherapy, graston, and more
- Can AEW ever overtake WWE?
- Is game the easiest to achieve vs. having money and a good physique?
- Cuttlefish game
- If you have all three pillars of masculinity dialed in, is it even that important to have knowledge of the Red Pill?

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In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we welcome the founder and host of the Divorced Dadvocate Podcast, Jude Sandvall. Jude specializes in helping divorced fathers with the process of separation and how to recover. Together we discuss the reasons men end up in this situation and how they can adjust to ensure it doesn't happen in the future. Also on the episode:

- How do shows like Sex/Life, films like Eat, Pray, Love, and popular media influence the divorce rates we see today?
- The common mistakes men make in their marriage
- The most difficult aspects of divorce
- Tapping into your masculinity and why so many men fail to do this

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In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we go into the Mecca Mailbag to uncork phase 1 of our two part episode series related to the divorce and the dynamics at play when a marriage is reaching the end. We discuss the situation of a man who has been left by his wife, his child taken from him and what may have caused this demise. The Blue Pill mentality can ruin your life and unfortunately, this situation is the perfect example. Also on the podcast:

- Fasting... Is this an effective cutting method?
- A run in with Bobby Lashley
- Why a Blue Pill mentality can lead to the end of your marriage or relationship
- Men's love vs. women's love

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In today's episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we bring Paul Benjamin from Apex Mindset. Paul has studied evolutionary psychology and teaches Red Pill concepts on his YouTube channel to thousands of viewers and subscribers, including regular appearance on the "Rule Zero" talk show with Richard Cooper from Entrepreneurs in Cars and Rollo Tomassi from the Rational Male.  Paul is a Special Forces military veteran and entrepreneur who shares Colton's passion for carrying the torch of masculinity and we discussed various topics in depth including:

- The issues men face today in the face of feminism and a feminine primary social order
- Men's preclusion for "self deletion" including celebrities like Will Smith, Anthony Bourdain, and Robin Williams
- The best steps to take to level yourself up in the sexual marketplace
- The dynamics at play in relationships and why so few men will ever internalize Red Pill concepts that will better serve them

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In this episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast, we examine the hypocrisy that exists as it relates to women and their "preferences" vs. what is labeled as "insecurities" for men. Why is this problematic for men and how does it play out in a real world scenario? This week's Mecca Mailbag brings us a question that will uncover exactly how to handle a scenario where your preferences as a man are shamed as "insecurities" to a woman. 

Also on this week's episode:

- How much do looks really matter vs. a man's mentality when it comes to dating?
- A preview of our upcoming guest, world renowned dating coach, Rob Judge

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In this episode of the Macho Mecca Podcast we discuss the recent interview between Jordan Peterson and Rob Henderson, both clinical psychologists and their observations of the sexual marketplace between men and women. Unfortunately, even clinical psychologists and some of the most forward thinkers on the internet do not fully grasp the situation men are faced with today. While on the surface, things like Tinder and loosened regulations around promiscuity would seem to allow for more opportunities for men, the results show the opposite is true. We go in depth to reveal the truth that Jordan and Rob were unable to uncover.

Also on this week's episode:

- Mecca Mailbag (Cortisol and its effects on the human body)
- A preview of next week's episode featuring our long awaited joint interview with the Total Package Lex Luger and the return of Buff Bagwell to the show.

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In this week's episode we discuss the harsh realities of the sexual marketplace for men. There are no social concessions or participation trophies when it comes to the world of intersexual dynamics which is a concept that too few men understand. While "Men Going Their Own Way" and the Black Pill communities gain popularity, we at the Macho Mecca Podcast do not subscribe to the notion that it's better to not participate in the game at all. Rather, we need to seek other solutions and uncover truths that reveal how to earn results and better navigate life.

While men slip further into a false sense of reality that conditions them to think their masculinity is worthless, that they'd be better suited leading with emotionalism than rationalism, and that "the right person is out there for everyone", we at Macho Mecca seek to pump objective truth into the pipeline that few venture to discuss.

It's no secret that I believe strongly in fighting for men's rights, and that I think feminism usually takes political issues way too far, but I'm also not a fan at all of the Redpill and Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement. 

All these ideologies act as big red flags to emotionally unstable people who have vendettas against the opposite gender. 

I'm going to talk about why I think all of these philosophies are hurting the world at present and what I think members of these parties need to do in order to grow as people and make the world a better place to live in. 

Over the last 2 weeks, I've read through the entire Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi, to better understand the philosophy behind the red pill movement. 

It turns out there's plenty that I agree with, but there's also a lot that turns out to be teaching very unhealthy mindsets. 

Do I think men should be turning to the red pill philosophy to improve their lives? For many it would drastically improve their dating lives and their relationships - But I still think it's a flawed option. 

I'm going to take some time today to explain why. 

Few things can be more soul-destroying than going through an emotionally abusive relationship, and yet almost all men go through this at one point or another in their lives. 

But what's really important is how you learn to process the abuse you received during your relationship, and what kind of accountability you take for the role you played.