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How much does someone need to do for you to warrant an expression of gratitude? Today we learn that each of us naturally sits somewhere different along the appreciation spectrum. Like all character traits, we must constantly strive to improve our attitude of gratitude and learn to thank people for even the tiniest nice gestures they do for us.

How do you keep yourself busy during the Torah reading? Today we learn that even Torah can be a distraction from Torah!

Why do people envy others? What’s the meaning of having a good eye? Today we learn that the key to rid yourself of jealousy is to think in terms of absolute prosperity instead of relative prosperity. When that’s your mindset, you won’t envy your neighbor’s success, you’ll rejoice!

Have you ever dreamed of life as a princess or prince? Today we learn that you ARE a child of the Supreme King of Kings, making you a supreme prince or princess. Are you living up to the expectations of your exalted position?

Why should you never cast stones up at God when you feel He’s let you down? Today we learn that those who cast stones at Heaven are only making things more difficult for themselves. Sadly, thanks to Newton, those rocks end up landing back on your head. Life is filled with ups and downs, but Hashem is always in control.

When things aren’t going well in your life, do you ask God for a sign He’s still in control? Today we learn that “emunah” means recognizing all the signs He’s already given you, all the blessings and good times in your life!

Is it better to pray in Hebrew or a language you understand? Today we learn the importance of praying in the original. If you’re not there yet, it’s something you must strive to attain!

What’s one obvious way to identify a haughty person? Today we learn that arrogant people get upset at the smallest irritations. When you realize that God fills the universe, there’s never any reason to lose your cool.

Have you ever had a brilliant idea and then found out that someone beat you to the punch? Today we learn that one should never be deterred by another person’s success. The challenge is to build upon their successes!

Have you ever wished you could eradicate your temptation for a certain desire? Today we learn that desires are what fuels our ability to live and function in this world. We don’t seek to destroy them, but to transform them!

Do you feel held-back in life and limited by the choices offered to you based on your background and upbringing? Today we learn that you have the ability to rise even higher than those born with a silver spoon in their mouths!

Is the mitzvah of modesty incumbent upon the wearer or on the gazer? Today we learn that while we should all strive to dress modestly, we must also do our best to avoid situations where our eyes may go astray.

What do you carry with you to remind yourself that this world is merely a corridor for the eternal life? Today we learn that constant reminders ensure that nothing in life gets us down. After all, this world is just the prep room!

Remember how you felt after summer camp as a kid? Or after gap-year in Israel? How do you keep the energy flowing today? Today we learn about the importance of finding regular and special ways to keep you soul refreshed and alive, such as inspirational classes and retreats.

Do you suffer from Bentchaphobia? (Make sure the bread’s mezonos!) Or Fleishiphobia? (Pizza in 6 hrs!) Today we learn that bentching isn’t a curse. It’s a blessing!