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    Explore " road less traveled" with insightful episodes like "The Proverbs - Part 9: The Crossroads of Faith // Pastor Christian Bonham", "FAR OUT #91 ~ Let's Talk About Failure", "FAR OUT #89 ~ How to Reach the Moon", "FAR OUT #88 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Shaman Zach Poitra on the Path of Pura Medicina (Episode 6)" and "FAR OUT #87 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: 1500+ Ceremonies Later, Shaman Zach Poitra's Journey (Episode 5)" from podcasts like ""We Are Bethany", "FAR OUT: Adventures in Returning Home", "FAR OUT: Adventures in Returning Home", "FAR OUT: Adventures in Returning Home" and "FAR OUT: Adventures in Returning Home"" and more!

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    The Proverbs - Part 9: The Crossroads of Faith // Pastor Christian Bonham

    The Proverbs - Part 9: The Crossroads of Faith // Pastor Christian Bonham

    What if faith was not just a onetime decision, but a series of decisions over the course of our life? Each of those decisions serves as a proverbial fork-in-the-road, but are all paths equal? Should we choose the “path less traveled”? Carve our own path? Go with the status quo? Which path will lead to a more meaningful and full life of faith and satisfaction? Today we look at what Proverbs says about the paths we take, and which ones lead to life and which ones lead to ruin. 

    TEXT: Proverbs 8 and 9

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    Worship Service of Bethany Baptist Church (Wendell, NC/Raleigh, NC) 
    August 23, 2020 
    NOTE: We had several technical glitches in today's recording, to include a popping sound in our mic during the sermon. We are working to remedy this issue as fast as we can.)

    Worship Service of Bethany Baptist Church (Wendell, NC/Raleigh, NC)

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    FAR OUT #91 ~ Let's Talk About Failure

    FAR OUT #91 ~ Let's Talk About Failure

    Listen and explore:

    • The difference between failing and being a failure
    • Julie-Roxane's issue with the word failure
    • Three ways Alasdair failed epically, all in one year
    • Julie-Roxane calls off an engagement
    • Two levels to look at failure from
    • Failure's relationship to the ego
    • How our current circumstances can be directly traced back to specific failures

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #89 ~ How to Reach the Moon

    FAR OUT #89 ~ How to Reach the Moon

    Listen and explore:

    • What is a moonshot?
    • Stage 1: Finding the audacity to look up
    • Stage 2: Getting off the ground
    • Stage 3: Reaching escape velocity
    • Stage 4: Settling in for the long journey
    • What stage Alasdair and Julie-Roxane feel they are in right now

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #88 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Shaman Zach Poitra on the Path of Pura Medicina (Episode 6)

    FAR OUT #88 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Shaman Zach Poitra on the Path of Pura Medicina (Episode 6)

    Listen and explore:

    • The healing technology of icaros
    • Developing a relationship with plants through shamanic dieta
    • The important role lineage plays in Zach's training as a maestro ayahuascero 
    • The path of Pura Medicina and the slippery slope that leads to witchcraft
    • The differences between lsd and ayahuasca
    • Zach's training program: what it takes to work with ayahuasca
    • The potential importance of ayahuasca in the West at this moment in history

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #87 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: 1500+ Ceremonies Later, Shaman Zach Poitra's Journey (Episode 5)

    FAR OUT #87 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: 1500+ Ceremonies Later, Shaman Zach Poitra's Journey (Episode 5)

    Listen and explore:

    • How Zach ended up in the jungle drinking ayahuasca 3-6 times per week for four and a half years
    • What is ayahuasca? How does it work?
    • Why Zach has issues with the shaman label
    • How ayahuasca, spirituality and physical and emotional healing are all interconnected
    • Methods for integrating an ayahuasca experience and why it's so important
    • What exactly is the job of an ayahuasca facilitator?
    • Avoiding the trans-rational fallacy after experiencing ayahuasca

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #86 ~ Rest as a Revolutionary Act

    FAR OUT #86 ~ Rest as a Revolutionary Act

    Listen and explore:

    • The role of rest in our wellness and creative projects
    • Julie-Roxane's recent decision to embrace cyclicality in her work
    • Why embracing rest is such a radical thing to do in our modern society
    • The power of looking at our lives through the lens of the four seasons
    • The small ways we can start a rest revolution in our lives and society
    • The powerful advantage women have in leading us into a more cyclical, life-affirming society
    • How to find freedom by embodying space

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #85 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Shaman Jess Poitra on Kambo, the Warrior Frog Medicine (Episode 4)

    FAR OUT #85 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Shaman Jess Poitra on Kambo, the Warrior Frog Medicine (Episode 4)

    Listen and explore:

    • What the hell is Kambo?
    • The jungle origin story of Kambo
    • How Jess came to the frog ---or perhaps how the frog came to her.
    • How Kambo complements working with ayahuasca
    • What it feels like when Kambo begins working on you
    • How the experience of Kambo can be a lot like giving birth
    • Jess' Kambo practitioner training program in the U.S.
    • Hear Jess sing an Ikaro calling on the power of Kambo

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #84 ~ Death Celebrant Blanche Colson on Reclaiming Death and Grief

    FAR OUT #84 ~ Death Celebrant Blanche Colson on Reclaiming Death and Grief

    Listen and explore:

    • What's wrong with the way we die
    • Blanche's path to death work
    • What is a death celebrant?
    • The cost of our society's grief avoidance
    • Alternative approaches to death
    • The importance of rituals in dealing with loss and change
    • Learning how to suffer with instead of "fixing"
    • Being a wanderlust and the role it plays in Blanche's journey

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #83 ~ 3 Reasons to Look at your Triggers

    FAR OUT #83 ~ 3 Reasons to Look at your Triggers

    Listen and explore:

    • What is a trigger?
    • Three ways we deal with our triggers
    • What does it mean to be free from triggers?
    • Why work with our triggers?
    • The difference between reacting and responding
    • What we can learn from our triggers
    • Two ways to work with your triggers

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #81 ~ Derek Sivers on Identity, Freedom & Singing the Counter Melody

    FAR OUT #81 ~ Derek Sivers on Identity, Freedom & Singing the Counter Melody

    Listen and explore:

    • When to say yes to everything and when to say hell yea or no
    • Why Derek doesn't want to fit in
    • What it means to be local vs. global
    • The value in singing the counter melody
    • Derek's journaling process
    • Why you should make saying "no" your default
    • Where to look if you don't know what you want

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #80 ~ How to make money online doing fulfilling work

    FAR OUT #80 ~ How to make money online doing fulfilling work

    Listen and explore:

    • Julie-Roxane's exciting news that prompted us to talk about this now
    • The three critical steps that have led us to make money online doing fulfilling work
    • The important role of trusting the process
    • Why you shouldn't go into sex expecting an orgasm
    • What you need to do before looking for problems to solve
    • The trick of going from 0 to 1
    • Why taking the first step is the only way to see the next one

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #79 ~ Via negativa: the road to the good life

    FAR OUT #79 ~ Via negativa: the road to the good life

    Listen and explore:

    • The business of selling change and how not be a sucker
    • The major (but often invisible) upside of limiting the downside 
    • Why focusing on what you want to remove is such a practical approach to realizing a better life
    • Unforeseen complications or "side effects" are just effects you don't want
    • Some of the things Alasdair & Julie-Roxane have removed from their lives over the years
    • Why your job is to focus on the "what" and the "why"

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    Adventure Travel, "Road Less Traveled" │ Jonathan Legg, TV Host, Actor

    Adventure Travel, "Road Less Traveled" │ Jonathan Legg, TV Host, Actor

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    Jonathan Legg, TV Host and Creator of "Road Less Traveled" sits down remotely to discuss his journey from growing up in Peoria, Illinois, to the Philippines, and Los Angeles; his careers in teaching English, being a flight attendant, modeling & acting, his love for travel, adventure and "performance", tribalism and Millennials, the "Hero's Journey", psychedelics, and why we need to get off the caravan (metaphor) for Covid-19.

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    INTERVIEW QUESTIONS:

    • You grew up in Peoria, Illinois. Your dad moved your family to Hong Kong and the Philippines when you were young. You then studied communications at southern Illinois and got a masters in linguistics from West Virginia university. Did you always want to travel for a living? Or were you trying to become an actor? How did you get into this?
    • Why do you travel? Is it escapism? Are you figuratively or literally trying to seek something better? You talk about connection. What is it that you really seek?
    • Millennials love to travel. I’m sure at one point or another we’ve all fantasized about getting paid to travel for a living. But you’re actually doing it! Is it everything that it’s cracked up to be? Is it a fantasy? Or do you miss connection with friends, family, and it must be hard to date. Please enlighten us. Is it really a fantasy? Give us the real version
    • Topics i want to ask you
    • Tribalism and prejudice as it relates to Millennials. You talk about challenging cultural beliefs and prejudice as it relates to foreign cultures around the world. The irony is the whole time I’m thinking to myself the same could be true about the Millennial generation. It’s the same Interesting dichotomy.  They want to feel part of a larger group. But don’t want to labeled. “I want to be part of a community and surrounded by people, but i don’t want to be compared to anyone.” I’ve never fully understood it. You deal with both primitive and advanced cultures all around the world. So my question is What lessons can you share regarding tribalism. And how can our generation learn from that to compare each other a little less and be more accepting of one other?
    • You talk a lot about the Hero’s journey and the idea of our larger identity. Can you elaborate more? What do you mean by this? And what revelations have you had in your own journey?
    • Covid 19 and reinventing yourself. Rebirth is something you like to discuss. And not feeling enough. Or that we’re all competing with one another. I love your caravan analogy. We’re all on the same caravan trying to one up each other. Why do you think we all jumped on the caravan in the first place? Who’s brilliant idea was that? And What are the lessons our generation can learn from this period in our lives? What do you want to change moving forward?
    • I want to ask about you personally.
    • What are some personal emotional challenges or struggles you’ve dealt with in your career? How did you overcome them?
    • Favorite location in the world?
    • Do you ever get tired of travel? Does it ever feel burdensome to you to the point where you don’t get enjoyment out of it?
    • What is something you wish someone had told you 5 years ago, or you had told yourself, that you had to learn on your own? But would have made life so much easier had you known.
    • How can people get involved and learn more about you?

    FAR OUT #78 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: A month later (Episode 3)

    FAR OUT #78 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: A month later (Episode 3)

    Listen and explore:

    • Learning how to purge
    • "Getting sick" vs. "getting well"
    • Tuning into the wisdom of our bodies
    • What JR's shadow told Alasdair
    • What ayahuasca told JR when she asked about the future
    • How our relationship has changed since working with ayahuasca
    • The surprising spirit who visited JR during ceremony

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #77 ~ Off the map and lost in a conflict zone [Travel Story]

    FAR OUT #77 ~ Off the map and lost in a conflict zone [Travel Story]

    Listen and explore:

    • What led Alasdair to such an obscure corner of the world
    • What Alasdair and Julie-Roxane love the most about traveling with no plans
    • How Alasdair got the idea to hike the Janapar Trail
    • Land mines, snipers, & tanks: when Alasdair began to doubt his decision 
    • Is camping next to  a sacrificial shrine with dead animals hanging in the trees a good idea?
    • Alasdair's multiple failed attempts at not drinking the local villager's home-brewed and lethally strong Oghi 
    • Alasdair's wild night with a local family in Nagorno-Karabakh 

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #76 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Working with the Medicine (Episode 2)

    FAR OUT #76 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Working with the Medicine (Episode 2)

    Listen and explore:

    • The James Bond move we had to make to get to our retreat
    • The set and setting of our ayahuasca experience
    • The structure of the ayahuasca retreat
    • What is a shamanic dieta?
    • Ayahuasca as medicine 
    • Getting sick vs. getting well
    • Insights and experiences over four ayahuasca ceremonies

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #75 ~ Tips for surviving quarantine with your spouse

    FAR OUT #75 ~ Tips for surviving quarantine with your spouse

    Listen and explore:

    • How we avoid killing each other while spending almost all our time together
    • The things we both do that sometimes make us want to kill each other
    • Tricks for working together that have helped us be more creative, productive and happy
    • The difference between managing energy and managing energies
    • Why we'll often wear headphones even when they aren't plugged in
    • The importance of boundary setting and why it can be so difficult
    • Why we schedule time every week to reconnect

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #74 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Drinking it for the first time (Episode 1)

    FAR OUT #74 ~ Exploring Ayahuasca: Drinking it for the first time (Episode 1)

    Listen and explore:

    • How Alasdair found Ayahuasca (or how Ayahuasca found him)
    • "The eye of the storm" Alasdair was in when he went on his first ayahuasca retreat in Peru
    • The grueling cleansing process Alasdair underwent in preparation for ayahuasca
    • What it was like to drink Ayahuasca
    • Why it's been one of the most significant experiences of Alasdair's life
    • How he feels about taking ayahuasca again after almost six years

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #73 ~ The introvert/extrovert divide

    FAR OUT #73 ~ The introvert/extrovert divide

    Listen and explore:

    • What's happening to extraverts all over the world right now
    • The introvert/extrovert divide and why it matters
    • How understanding these two traits can be a revolution in self-understanding
    • The costly risks of not being aware of the introvert/extrovert divide
    • How understanding this divide can foster a deeper appreciation for our diversity and lead to much more rewarding relationships

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    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)

    FAR OUT #72 ~ Don't ask 'why me?' ask 'for what?' with Mayan entrepreneur Anita Cortez Chac

    FAR OUT #72 ~ Don't ask 'why me?' ask 'for what?' with Mayan entrepreneur Anita Cortez Chac

    Listen and explore:

    • How Anita started her first business selling bananas
    • The money machine that as a child, Anita imagined every Gringo had
    • Her successful journey as a female entrepreneur despite encountering deep resistance every step of the way
    • The difficult times Anita went through when she left her husband with her baby son in tow and not long after was also banished from home by her mother
    • How Anita found God when she hit rock bottom
    • The gifts Anita was given by strangers on her journey and the way she  passes them on to new generations of Guatemalans

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    Credits:

    • Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonald
    • Outro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)