school of attraction

How we deal with Rejection and Failure is one of the biggest determining factors in whether we are going to go and accomplish all the things we dream about in life. 

But the truth is that most of us give up after a couple of failures or brutal rejections, and some of us are so frightened of the pain that we never even try in the first place. 

But there is a deceptively simple strategy to breaking through and dealing with rejection in a way that prevents it from having a lasting effect on your emotional well being. 

This strategy will also massively boost your self-esteem and confidence levels. 

Watch this video to find out what that is. 

4 Online dating tips to help guys get casual sex relationships with women from their dating apps. 

When looking for dating advice for men - it's often focussed on how to get dates, rather than how to create a casual hookup - which is exactly what so many guys are really after. 

As a dating coach of over 11 years, I'll show you 4 important things you need to do with your online dating profiles to consistently find new friends with benefits. 

Do you find yourself fixating on being able to attract those women who seem to be the hottest in any room? The ones who work for hours to look as good as they do? The ones who work hard to ensure they have every man's eyes on them? 

Getting fixated on these women is actually a dangerous trap that many men fall into - and they get fixated on the wrong women for the wrong reasons, and often this can lead to a huge amount of dating and relationship pain.

Learn how to avoid falling into this dating trap by watching this video.

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and

The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. 

I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women. 

How can a man become more empowered? 

Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. 

Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over. 

ith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore? 

Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data. 

Unfortunately, we are prone to a host of psychological biases which color how we view the dating world. 

In today's podacst I'm going to discuss some of those biases and the important questions we need to ask ourselves when we're presented with new information that may or may not be reliable. 

Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why? 

Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date.

When you apply the Peak End rule to your date, you'll end up with far more second dates because women will have a much fonder memory of you and be much more eager to go for a second date.

What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend?

Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts?  

Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video. 

Today I want to talk to you about why most men have the completely wrong approach to finding an amazing partner, and this approach usually leads to a HUGE amount of heartache, and sometimes huge financial loss too.

How can you STOP being a nice guy? 

Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly? 

Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to show give you a deep look into what lies at the core of your condition, and most importantly how to stop doing this WITHOUT swinging in the complete opposite direction and become an a-hole.

In this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women. 

This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real experts and not just guys who think they have the social skills required to get women. 

Which is better?  Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women? 

Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women. 

It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement. 

So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold approach women in bars/clubs and on the street, are skills that you'll use in almost all aspects of your life, not just when talking to girls. 

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and

The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. 

I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women. 

Did you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women? 

This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression.

Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perceive you and suddenly start being a whole lot more attractive to women. 

Did you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women? 

Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you? 

What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women? 

The trait is empowerment, and after giving dating advice to men for over a decade, it's one of the single sexiest qualities a man can have. The moment a man becomes empowered, women start organically gravitating toward him. 

What do women want? 

What kind of men do women date?  What kind of men do women sleep with? 

Are women supposed to be monogamous? 

Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety? 

Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends. 

Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lead us to try approaching women in ways that hurt our chances of success rather than help. 

Finding a woman to date is far more complex that the stories we hear suggest - women have a highly flexible range of sexual behaviors that depend on a huge range of societal influences. 

When Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area. 

But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating profiles in order to get women to pay them any attention. 

Today I'm going to share with you 10 scientifically proven ways to get a girl to like you using the power of human psychology. 

Be careful with this advice because they are subconsciously and subliminally powerful and need to be used responsibly. 

1. Smell amazing

2. Use Smiling As A Reward

3. Tell Her A Secret About Yourself

4. Make Strong Eye Contact

5. Make Your Shoulder : Waist Ratio As Dramatic As Possible

6. Lower Your Voice

7. Pitch Your Questions Downwards

8. Tease Her Plenty

9. Use Your Friend For Social Proof

10. Learn To Dance Salsa

Have you ever had a woman do something that just leaves you exasperated thinking Why the heck to women do this??

Whether it's pretending to have a boyfriend rather than saying they aren't interested, taking forever to reply to text messages, cancelling dates at the last minute, Stealing your food instead of ordering their own, or pulling away from sex at the last minute. 

In this video I'm going to look at why these behaviors are so common, and most importantly what you can learn and what you can do to stop it happening again in the future. 

Today I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder. 

Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly. 

In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder. 

1) Women don't respond to your first message
2) Women respond but the conversation always fizzles out and you can't get them out on a date. 
3) You just can't get any matches at all on Tinder. 

I'm going to look through some tricks to overcome these obstacles and start turning these matches into dates. 

Women feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways. 

When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you. 

So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make women want you sexually.