stupid things people say

Sometimes we don't know what to say to people who are in grief, so we fall back on what we've heard other people say. That can be good, but at other times, that can be very bad when what we've heard people say in the past is hurtful to those who are already hurting. 

In this episode, I discuss three platitudes people sometimes use when talking with those in grief: 

• S/He's in a better place.
• Everything happens for a reason.
• God never gives you more than you can handle.

I talk about why these remarks are hurtful and what might be helpful to say instead.

Nat and Daniele Parris recount all the stupid things they've heard people say about their twins and what they've said to back to them.

Daniele Parris is a work-from-home mom to an upbeat 12-year-old boy and 6-year-old boy-girl twins. She lives in the suburbs of New York City and has degrees in Fine Arts and Philosophy from New York University. She makes her living in the Healthcare industry and spends most of her time with her boisterous Italian family, trying to get a word in edgewise. Her hobbies include cooking and baking, an unholy knowledge of 80’s hair-metal bands and trying, albeit almost always in vain, to guess the monetary value of the items on Antiques Roadshow.

This episode is sponsored by Cord Blood Registry.

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