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They say that a small hole in the body is a large hole in the soul. Today we learn why in our tradition our bodies are considered so holy.

When you make a spontaneous prayer, what’s the first thing you say to God? What’s your final thought? Today we learn that prayer has three integral elements: praise, ask, thanks.

How many shidduchim have you made? How many singles are on your list to assist right now? Today we learn the importance of getting involved in God’s primary occupation and the very first mitzvah to humankind.

Who should suffer more the righteous or the wicked? Should the righteous suffer on behalf of the wicked? Today we learn that the righteous view challenge and pain in this world as a privilege.

Have you ever lent out an item and received it back in poor condition? How bad was it? What did you say to the borrower? Today we learn that we must treat others’ property as well as our own, if not better.

What's the dollar value of a mitzvah? Which would you rather: a mitzvah or a diamond? Today we learn the value of diamonds in the World of Truth.

How many interest-free loans do you currently have outstanding? How do you feel about the pruzbul “loop-hole”? Today we ask how many people actually lend interest-free to begin with, let alone stop lending in the sixth year!

What are some ways you avoid answering back when someone insults you? Today we learn that just like the sun doesn’t get angry when people curse out the hot days, you too must stay focused knowing that you’re here to serve the greater good.

Have you ever sent an email in the heat of the moment you just wish you could take back? Today we learn that when you’re about to act impetuously and irresponsibly, you need to switch to some other activity until your heart and mind have calmed down and you’re able to respond rationally.

What motivates a religious man to use God as a tool in his divorce kit as he withholds the gett? Today we learn that while we are all human and prone to improper conduct, we must never drag God into the fight.

Why do birds fly south? Why do we say they fly south when they eventually also fly north? Today we learn that birds protect us and never question God when He sweeps them away from their natural habitat. Ultimately, they realize that God is carrying them to a better place.

How much FEAR OF GOD should you instill in your children? Today we learn that parents give their children wings to bring their mitzvos to heaven. Mother gives the love and father gives the fear. But each must give the right amount. Otherwise the mitzvah bird will be lopsided. (li”n Joar bat Yehuda)

How would you react if you found a piece of hair or a fly in your soup? Today we learn to avoid letting tiny disturbances ruin our relationships.

Do chemistry and attraction make any sense? Should rationalists believe in such superstitious magic? Today we learn that chemistry is a gift from Heaven to help you identify your spouse.

May one donate one’s organs? Should one donate one’s organs? Today we learn that it all depends on where life begins and where life ends.

Should all kids finish school at 18? Or should we allow kids to finish at their own pace, some quicker, some slower? Today we learn that the current western cultural norms do not align with our Torah needs.

Does wearing a head covering feel like an honor or a hassle? Today we learn that tzitzis aren’t a hassle, they’re a tassle. And upon your reflection, the kippah grants protection.

If you were to describe the Shema in one word, what would that be? Powerful? Awesome? Enigmatic? Today we learn that the key word is PROTECTIVE.

Will FLATTERY get you ANYWHERE or NOWHERE? Today we learn that false flattery is an excuse for not taking the time to appreciate the other person’s true qualities.

How much does someone need to do for you to warrant an expression of gratitude? Today we learn that each of us naturally sits somewhere different along the appreciation spectrum. Like all character traits, we must constantly strive to improve our attitude of gratitude and learn to thank people for even the tiniest nice gestures they do for us.