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    115. The What, Why And How Of Self-Awareness

    enJune 18, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding the true meaning of self-awarenessSelf-awareness is recognizing the root causes of emotions and behaviors, improving relationships, decision making, and authentic living through introspection, mindfulness, and feedback

      Self-awareness is a crucial aspect of personal growth and development, and it's important to distinguish it from the common misconceptions surrounding the term. Andy Priscilla emphasizes the significance of self-awareness in his podcast, which has been a top-ranked show since 2016, all thanks to listeners sharing the content. Self-awareness is not just knowing what you are feeling or thinking; it's understanding the root causes of your emotions and behaviors. It's essential to recognize that not everyone has self-awareness, and it's something that can be developed through introspection, mindfulness practices, and seeking feedback from others. By becoming self-aware, you can improve your relationships, make better decisions, and live a more authentic life. Remember, self-awareness is not a one-time achievement but a continuous process.

    • Understanding Self-Awareness and Its ImportanceRecognize actions, understand impact, let go of excuses for self-awareness and personal growth.

      Self-awareness is a crucial component of personal growth and achieving one's goals. It involves recognizing one's strengths and weaknesses, understanding one's actions and their impact, and being aware of excuses that may hinder progress. Self-awareness allows individuals to make informed decisions and work in harmony with others. Unfortunately, many people lack understanding of self-awareness or its importance. To become more self-aware, individuals should practice questioning their actions and decisions in the moment, considering whether they align with their goals or hold them back. By acknowledging and letting go of excuses, individuals can boost their confidence and make meaningful progress towards their desired outcomes.

    • Understanding yourself leads to confidenceSelf-awareness helps you recognize when things serve you and make decisions accordingly, leading to increased confidence. Honesty and seeking feedback from peers can enhance self-awareness.

      Building self-awareness and confidence go hand in hand. Self-awareness helps you understand yourself better, and as a result, you gain confidence. This means recognizing when things serve you and when they don't, and making decisions based on that. It's important to be honest with yourself and not rely on external validation. Asking yourself questions about your abilities and seeking feedback from peers can help you build self-awareness and confidence. Confidence is not about doubting or overestimating yourself, but rather having a clear understanding of who you are and what you can do. So, the next time you're faced with a decision, take a moment to assess the situation and trust your self-awareness to guide you.

    • Seeking genuine feedback for personal and professional growthAsk questions, analyze perspectives, and be aware of motivations to distinguish honest opinions from biased feedback. Consistently evaluate strengths and weaknesses for valuable insights and confidence building.

      Seeking genuine feedback from your team is crucial for personal and professional growth. However, it can be challenging to distinguish between honest opinions and biased feedback, especially when dealing with people you have a relationship with. The speaker emphasizes the importance of asking questions, analyzing perspectives, and being aware of potential motivations behind the feedback. By becoming the coach of yourself and consistently evaluating your strengths and weaknesses, you can gain valuable insights and build confidence. The Live Hard program, as mentioned in episode 80, serves as a tool for continuous self-evaluation and growth. Remember, the process of self-evaluation may be challenging, but it's essential for personal development and becoming the best version of yourself.

    • Understanding self for growth and successSelf-awareness is vital for personal growth, leading businesses, and effective leadership. It helps us recognize strengths and weaknesses, manage people, sell, learn from mistakes, and adjust our approach.

      Self-awareness is a crucial trait for personal growth, building a business, and effective leadership. It enables us to understand our strengths and weaknesses, manage people, and sell. Self-awareness is achieved by monitoring our actions in real time, asking ourselves critical questions, and evaluating our interactions. By doing so, we can learn from our mistakes, adjust our approach, and improve. Without self-awareness, we cannot reach our full potential or succeed in various aspects of life. It's essential to invest time and effort into developing this skill and practicing self-evaluation regularly.

    • Assessing actions and intentions for personal growthRegular self-assessment helps identify mistakes, learn from them, and improve for greater success and confidence.

      Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth and achieving desired outcomes. By regularly assessing our actions and intentions throughout the day, we can identify areas where we may have fallen short and learn from our mistakes. Self-awareness allows us to be present in the moment and fully engaged in our interactions, ultimately leading to greater success and confidence. So, start paying attention to your thoughts and actions, and don't be afraid to admit when you're not being fully present. This practice of self-awareness will help you pass your own tests and standards, and get you closer to your goals. As the lyrics suggest, "Hit, shot, case, close, close," we all make mistakes, but it's through self-awareness that we can learn from them and move forward.

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