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    13: Animals.. What Did We Do to Deserve Them?

    enApril 22, 2021

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    • Exploring Animal Preferences on '2 Hot Takes' PodcastThe '2 Hot Takes' podcast, hosted by Morgan and Lauren, humorously discusses their strong opinions about animal preferences and shares their personal dislikes, making for an entertaining listen.

      Anchor is a free platform that allows users to create, edit, and distribute podcasts, making it an all-in-one solution for podcast production. Morgan and Lauren, the hosts of "2 Hot Takes," shared their love for animals and discussed their preferences, revealing that they have strong opinions about those who genuinely dislike certain animals, especially cats. They joked that such individuals might not be trustworthy or have had negative experiences. The hosts also shared their personal dislikes, with Morgan expressing her dislike for frogs due to childhood trauma. They concluded the episode by addressing a listener's question about feeding earwax to a cat, determining it was not the asshole move, but they expressed skepticism since they were unaware of any benefits. Overall, the episode showcased the hosts' lighthearted and humorous approach to discussing animals and their preferences.

    • Cats and Earwax: An Unusual AttractionSome cats prefer the scent of earwax due to animal proteins, but ensure their balanced diet and consult a vet if needed.

      Some cats are naturally attracted to the scent of earwax due to the presence of animal proteins, which can make it a preferred alternative to store-bought treats for some felines. However, it's important to ensure that this behavior is safe and the cat is getting a balanced diet. While some may find the idea gross, others may find it amusing or even satisfying. It's important to consider the individual circumstances and consult with a vet if necessary. Additionally, when sharing stories related to pets online, it's common practice to include a picture of the pet as a "pet tax" for engagement.

    • Unique cat behaviors: Mister Milo's expensive water preference and a cat's bond with its caretakerCats exhibit various quirky behaviors, from expensive water preferences to strong bonds with their human companions, reflecting their unique personalities

      Cats can have unique and quirky behaviors, just like people. One cat, named Mister Milo, was discussed, who had a strong preference for expensive water and would even sniff and taste test different brands before drinking. This behavior is reminiscent of some people's tendency to buy expensive items, regardless of their actual need or affordability. Another cat, whose story was shared earlier in the conversation, had a strong bond with its human caretaker and would suck on their finger like a baby. These stories illustrate the diverse and endearing personalities of cats and the connections they can form with their human companions.

    • Reuniting with a lost pet and navigating family dynamicsClear communication and respecting differences are crucial in handling stressful situations. Prioritize well-being and empathy towards others' needs.

      The speaker had lost their dog, Cairo, and when they saw him with a stranger at a park bench, they were relieved but also faced a dilemma when their sister asked them to bring the dog to her house despite their strict no-dog policy in their car. The speaker was upset when their sister reacted negatively and accused them of being selfish and inconsiderate. The incident highlighted the importance of clear communication and understanding each other's perspectives, especially during stressful situations. It also showed that people have different priorities and values, and it's essential to respect those differences while finding common ground. The speaker learned that it's better to prioritize the well-being of their pet over their personal convenience and to be more empathetic towards others' needs. Ultimately, the incident served as a reminder to appreciate the little joys in life, like reuniting with a beloved pet, and to approach conflicts with compassion and understanding.

    • Sibling's Responsibility in Finding a Missing DogEffective communication and understanding different perspectives can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.

      While the situation involving a sibling refusing to bring home a missing dog may seem frustrating, it's essential to consider the context and the actions taken. The dog was found, and the sibling waited with it, which shows a level of responsibility and care. The sister's reaction might have been more understanding if she considered the situation from her sibling's perspective. It's important to remember that everyone's priorities and reactions can differ, and misunderstandings can occur. The key takeaway is to communicate effectively and considerately to avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary conflicts. In the end, the important thing is that the dog was found safely.

    • Understanding the Differences Between Emotional Support Animals and Service AnimalsBe aware of the laws and regulations regarding emotional support animals and service animals to avoid potential legal issues. While miniature horses can qualify as service animals, not all establishments recognize this. Clear communication and education are essential for a respectful and inclusive environment.

      There is a distinction between emotional support animals and service animals, and it's essential to understand the differences to avoid potential legal issues. The speaker in the discussion had an unexpected encounter with a patient who brought her emotional support horse to the office. Although the speaker initially refused, the patient later sued the clinic for discrimination. The incident highlights the importance of being informed about the specific laws and regulations regarding emotional support animals and service animals. Miniature horses can qualify as service animals under certain circumstances, but not all establishments recognize this. The speaker felt terrible about the situation but acknowledges that she should have asked for proper documentation from the patient. This experience underscores the need for clear communication and education to ensure a respectful and inclusive environment for all individuals with disabilities.

    • Understanding the Difference Between Service and Emotional Support AnimalsService animals have legal protections and are trained to perform specific tasks, while emotional support animals do not have legal protections and provide companionship.

      There is a difference between service animals and emotional support animals, and it's essential to understand the distinction. The discussion revolves around a person who brought a horse into an airplane cabin, thinking it was an emotional support animal, but it wasn't. The airline did not have to accommodate the horse, and the person faced backlash. The conversation also touches upon the importance of mental health support animals and how they can be helpful. However, it's crucial to note that emotional support animals do not have the same legal protections as service animals. The person in the discussion seemed remorseful and likely didn't realize the error. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of knowing the rules and regulations regarding support animals to avoid potential misunderstandings and conflicts.

    • Importance of Proper HR Policies and ProceduresSmall businesses must have clear job descriptions, proper hiring processes, and well-defined employment agreements to prevent potential lawsuits. Employees can exploit loopholes in employment laws, making proper documentation crucial.

      Businesses, especially small ones, need to have their HR policies and procedures in order to avoid potential lawsuits. The speaker shares a story about a couple who hired someone to walk their dogs without proper documentation, leading to the employee falsely claiming an allergy and suing them for discrimination. This experience highlights the importance of having clear job descriptions, proper hiring processes, and well-defined employment agreements. The speaker also mentions the prevalence of lawsuits in America and the potential for individuals to exploit loopholes in employment laws. The discussion also touches on the topic of emotional support animals, with comments confirming the legitimacy of horses as support animals and the importance of proper documentation for their use in public places.

    • Misunderstanding Emotional Support Animals and Unusual Pet AttachmentsRespect others' deep connections to their pets, even if they seem unusual to us. Apologize sincerely for accidents and offer support in times of loss.

      Attachments to pets, no matter how unusual they may seem to others, are deeply personal and significant. In the first discussion, a woman mistakenly introduced her pony as an emotional support animal, which could have led to legal issues if it was actually a service animal. The guidelines for ESAs can be confusing, and the consequences of misunderstanding them can be severe. In the second story, a woman accidentally killed a man's pet tarantula during a date, causing him immense grief. The woman felt badly about the situation but couldn't fully relate to the depth of the man's attachment to the spider. The takeaway is that we should respect others' attachments to their pets, no matter how unusual they may seem to us. Accidents happen, but acknowledging the significance of the loss and offering genuine apologies and support can go a long way in repairing relationships.

    • Friend's mistake leads to pet emergency: responsibilities of pet ownershipBeing a pet owner comes with significant responsibilities, including ensuring the safety of your pet and others' pets, and being accountable for their well-being and actions.

      As a pet owner, it's crucial to take full responsibility for the care and well-being of your animal. Feeding them the wrong medication or allowing them to ingest harmful substances can have severe consequences, both for the pet and for the relationship with the pet's owner. In the discussed situation, a friend accidentally gave another friend's dog Adderall, leading to a veterinary emergency. The friend who made the mistake felt immense guilt and potential financial burden, despite not having asked to administer the medication. This incident serves as a reminder that pet ownership comes with significant obligations and responsibilities. Mistakes can happen, but it's essential to own up to them and take the necessary steps to rectify the situation. Passing off responsibilities to others can lead to misunderstandings, guilt, and potential financial strain. Moreover, it's important to be mindful of the potential risks and hazards in the environments where our pets visit or play. Ensuring the safety of your pet and others' pets is an essential aspect of responsible pet ownership. In conclusion, taking care of a pet involves more than just providing food and shelter; it also means being vigilant, responsible, and accountable for their well-being and actions.

    • Understanding and valuing relationships with people and animalsRespect boundaries and let go of unhealthy relationships. Appreciate the unique bond between humans and animals, and their role as support systems in difficult times.

      Sometimes, it's important to respect other people's boundaries and move on from situations that may not be healthy or productive for either party. In the first discussion, it was suggested that if someone has hurt us deeply, it might be best to let go and not push for a second chance, especially if the relationship wasn't very serious to begin with. The second story shared highlights the unique bond between a person and their animal companion, and how that bond can provide support and help in difficult times. It also emphasizes the importance of understanding and appreciating the role animals can play in our lives, and the responsibility we have to care for them. The story of the cat acting as an eating disorder support pet is a powerful reminder of the incredible connection between humans and animals, and how they can help us in ways we may not even realize. Overall, these discussions illustrate the complex and often profound relationships we can have with both people and animals, and the importance of respecting and valuing those connections.

    • Unique bonds between humans and animalsAnimals, like cats and dolphins, provide emotional support, mimic human behaviors, bring joy, comfort, and even save lives. They deserve our admiration and respect.

      Animals, particularly cats and dolphins, have the ability to provide emotional support and even mimic human behaviors, creating unique bonds with their owners. These animals can bring joy, comfort, and even save lives in unexpected ways. The story of a woman and her cat, as well as the research on dolphins, illustrate the remarkable connection between humans and animals. Despite the oddities or challenges that come with these relationships, the results are often heartwarming and profound. Animals are truly remarkable beings that deserve our admiration and respect.

    • Understanding Animal Emotions and Social StructuresAnimals, like dolphins and elephants, display complex emotions and form deep connections. Interfering with their social structures can have tragic consequences. Dolphins fear sharks and use coordinated behavior to protect themselves. Elephants mourn their dead and display altruistic behaviors.

      Animals, like dolphins, exhibit complex emotions and form deep connections with individuals, even humans. The story of a woman who kept a dolphin isolated from its pod for months, while well-intentioned, ultimately led to the dolphin's suicide when it was returned to its zoo habitat. This tragic event underscores the importance of understanding the emotional needs of animals and the potential consequences of interfering with their natural social structures. Additionally, elephants, another highly emotional species, display complex behaviors, such as mourning and funerals for their deceased, raising questions about their capacity for understanding time and empathy. Furthermore, elephants and dolphins are known to display altruistic behaviors, saving other animals from danger. These instances highlight the depth of emotions and social structures present in various animal species, challenging the common perception of animals as purely survivalistic beings. Moreover, the fear of dolphins towards sharks is an interesting fact, with dolphins using their speed and coordinated pod behavior to protect themselves from potential threats. Overall, the complex emotional lives and behaviors of animals, as demonstrated through various examples, serve as a reminder of their inherent value and the importance of treating them with respect and compassion.

    • Dolphins saving humans from sharksDolphins can protect humans from sharks and challenging fears can lead to new perspectives

      Dolphins can save human lives by scaring away attacking sharks. This behavior is a clear example of the complex and often surprising relationships that exist between different species in the natural world. The speaker's personal experience of swimming with sharks, despite initial fear, highlights the importance of challenging our perceptions and confronting our fears. Additionally, the conversation touched on the idea that people have different thresholds for fear and adventure, and that our experiences can influence our perspectives. The discussion ended on a positive note, emphasizing the wonders and importance of animals and encouraging listeners to explore deeper topics on the Patreon and YouTube channels.

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    Jason Reid is a successful businessman, coach for CEOs, and founder of over 20 businesses. He is also the founder of the Tell My Story foundation, a nonprofit organization aimed at educating and empowering parents to support their children's mental health struggles. 

    In today's episode, Jason Reid bravely shared the devastating story of losing his 14-year-old son to suicide in 2018. This tragic event has shaped Jason's mission: to eradicate teenage suicide by 2030. He is arming parents with the necessary skills to become better communicators, listeners, and leaders for their children.

    According to recent CDC data, teenage suicide is now the second leading cause of death for teenagers in the United States, with the pandemic and increased cell phone usage contributing to the surge in mental health issues among the youth. These concerning statistics emphasize the urgency of addressing the mental health of our children.

    Jason stressed the importance of active listening and creating a safe space for children to express their feelings freely. He pointed out that often, in our attempts to console our kids, we may unintentionally dismiss their feelings, which could have harmful consequences. Recognizing the difference between occasional sadness and persistent symptoms of depression or anxiety is vital.

    Interestingly, Jason's passion for music and his guitars, symbolizes the need to have personal interests, acting as a reminder that life isn't solely about the hardships but also about the joys that make it worth living.

    In this urgent fight against teenage suicide, we, as parents, can make a difference by providing support, fostering open conversations about mental health, and teaching our kids to navigate through life's challenges. Through Jason's heartrending story, let's take action to protect our children and their mental well-being.

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    Doctor Gabor Mate: I Regret My Interview With Prince Harry! The Shocking Link Between Kindness & Illness!

    Doctor Gabor Mate: I Regret My Interview With Prince Harry! The Shocking Link Between Kindness & Illness!
    Being nice is bad for your health, while being angry is healthy, Dr. Gabor Mate unpacks the inner depths that lie beneath the personality you show to the world. In this new episode Steven sits down again with world-renowned trauma and addiction expert, Dr. Gabor Mate. Dr. Gabor Mate is a physician and an expert on addiction, stress and childhood development. For 12 years, Gabor worked in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside with patients challenged by drug addiction, mental illness and HIV. He has over 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience. His books include: ‘When the Body Says No’, ‘In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction’ and most recently, ‘The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture’. In this conversation Gabor and Steven discuss topics, such as: His tough year His biggest self-criticisms Why you don't have to identify with emotions The importance of saying ‘no’ Why he can't follow his own advice Losing himself with success His interview with Prince Harry Why he regrets this interview What he learned about Prince Harry How Prince Harry was a traumatised child The importance of asking for help The need to reconnect to our gut feelings Why gut feelings are everything How we play out our traumas Why women take the pain for both partners in a couple How repressing anger makes you sick Why you need healthy anger The ways that repressing emotions makes you sick The worst part of trauma How being nice hurts your health Why people need to be angry Why people pleasers are unhealthy How you can inherit stress The power of knowing your trauma The need to learn how to breath Why people are having sex too soon How success will never give inner peace The goal you should chase in life You can purchase Dr. Mate’s most recent book, ‘The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture’, here: https://amzn.to/40unjpo Follow Gabor: Instagram: https://bit.ly/46vt340 Twitter: https://bit.ly/3RSjGYo Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Whoop: join.whoop.com/CEO Linkedin: linkedin.com/doac Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Let's Talk Breadcrumbing

    Let's Talk Breadcrumbing

    Hi Everyone, Happy Holidays!

    In today's episode, we talk about the dating term 'breadcrumbing'!

    Attitude of Gratitude (00:00-08:30):

    Our Celeb Talk Includes (08:30-24:30):

    • Mariah Carey teams up with Ariana Grande and Jennifer Hudson for new 'Oh Santa' single
    • Larsa Pippin exposes the Kardashians 

    Our Girl Talk Includes (24:30-01:07:15):

    • What is breadcrumbing?
    • What are the warning signs?
    • How to overcome it?

    We also share our recommendations for the week (01:07:15-01:18:55)

    Interested? Grab a Cup and Join the Talk!!!!!Follow @celebtalkgirltalkpod@natasha_fig @jayrosexoxo on Instagram @celebtgirltalk on Twitter and don't forget to Rate, Review, and Subscribe!Music by WordSmithCover Art by Ria