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    • Unlocking the Power Within: Overcoming Setbacks to Achieve SuccessTap into your inner power, persevere through setbacks, and stay motivated in order to achieve your dreams, no matter the obstacles in your path.

      We all have power within us, no matter our current circumstances or feelings of laziness. Mel Robbins emphasizes that we must tap into this power and unlock it, as it can change our lives. She shares an inspiring story of actor Niecy Nash Betts, who experienced multiple losses before achieving success. Just like Niecy, we may have faced a string of setbacks in our relationships, careers, or personal goals. It's important to acknowledge that losing is tough and it's okay to feel disappointed, but we must continue to persevere. By staying motivated and being grateful for even being nominated, we can eventually achieve our dreams and overcome any obstacles in our path.

    • Embracing Challenges and Finding Self-BeliefPursuing your passions and making meaningful changes in life may be difficult, but with self-belief, perseverance, and giving yourself credit, you can overcome challenges and boost your self-esteem.

      Pursuing what you love and making meaningful changes in your life is not easy. It will have moments that gut you and days that just suck. But it's important to remember that nothing worth doing in life is a walk in the park. The higher the stakes, the bigger the battle. And the battle isn't with others, it's with yourself. You have to drag yourself out of bed, do the work, and face the challenges that come your way. Expect it to be hard, but also expect that you can overcome it. Have self-belief, persevere, and give yourself credit for your achievements. It's a masterclass in self-esteem.

    • The Power of Self-Esteem: Recognizing Our Worth and Inspiring OthersBy valuing ourselves and acknowledging our efforts, we not only uplift ourselves but also inspire others to feel valued. Self-esteem empowers us to embrace vulnerability and recognize our worth.

      Self-esteem is crucial and it involves valuing and recognizing oneself. Mel Robbins highlights the significance of thanking ourselves for the work we do, believing in ourselves, and pushing through challenges. By valuing ourselves, we not only uplift ourselves but also inspire others to feel valued. It is not just the job of artists to speak truth to power; it is the responsibility of everyone to speak their truth and unlock their power. A powerful moment is witnessed when someone thanks themselves, acknowledging their efforts and perseverance. While it is important to express gratitude to others, we must never forget to appreciate ourselves and acknowledge the hardships we endure. Self-esteem empowers us to embrace our vulnerability and recognize our worth, as demonstrated by Niecy Nash Betz in her Emmy acceptance speech.

    • Recognizing Our Internal BattlesAcknowledge and appreciate the internal struggles we overcome, take pride in our resilience, and rely on our own belief and recognition of our efforts rather than seeking validation from others.

      We often underestimate the battles and challenges we face within ourselves. While others may only see our external actions and successes, it is important to acknowledge and give ourselves credit for the internal struggles we overcome. Whether it's dealing with personal issues, believing in ourselves, or simply getting through the day, we should take pride in our resilience and progress. Our self-esteem should not rely on others' validation, but rather on our own belief and recognition of our efforts. So, let's pause for a moment and imagine accepting a lifetime achievement award, thanking ourselves for what we have overcome and for the strength we continue to show.

    • The Power of Self-Appreciation: Acknowledging Yourself for Growth and Progress.By thanking ourselves for the challenges we've overcome and embracing small wins, we create a ripple effect of positivity and empowerment that can profoundly impact our lives.

      It's important to thank yourself for the hard work and progress you've made in your life. Mel Robbins shares her personal journey of growth and acknowledges herself for overcoming toxic behaviors and making positive changes. She emphasizes the power of self-appreciation and encourages listeners to do the same. By thanking ourselves for the challenges we've pushed through, the progress we're making, and the time we take for self-care, we create a ripple effect of positivity and empowerment. Mel highlights the simplicity of this practice, urging us to make it a daily habit. Ultimately, acknowledging ourselves and embracing small wins can have a profound impact on our lives.

    • The Power of Self-Esteem: To Keep GoingAcknowledge your efforts, value yourself, and tap into your inner strength and motivation to continue pushing forward, regardless of the outcome.

      Self-esteem is critical and how you value and perceive yourself is key. Oakley's experience on the ski team teaches us that even when we don't achieve the desired outcome, we can still thank ourselves and count it as a win for giving our best effort. It's important to remember that we are not competing against others, but against ourselves. By acknowledging our efforts and being truthful with ourselves, we tap into our power and motivation to keep going. Self-esteem plays a significant role in this process. So, on those days when we may not feel great or fall short, thanking ourselves and valuing our efforts can unlock the strength and determination we need to continue pushing forward.

    • Taking Action: The Key to Changing Your LifeDon't wait for motivation or confidence, believe in yourself and take action. Push through resistance and setbacks, hold yourself accountable, and keep moving forward towards success.

      Taking action is crucial in changing your life and reaching your potential. Mel Robbins emphasizes the importance of not waiting to feel motivated or confident before taking action. It's about pushing through resistance, friction, and pain, even when it's not easy. Believing in yourself comes from acting as if you believe in yourself, regardless of doubts or uncertainties. Spoon-feeding belief in oneself requires getting back up after setbacks and continuously moving forward. David Goggins' example showcases the daily battle we face in our journeys towards success. It's not about swearing at others, but rather holding ourselves accountable and pushing past our own limitations.

    • The Power of Determination and Self-BeliefWith unwavering commitment and consistent action, we can overcome self-doubt and achieve greatness, as the greatest battle is not with external forces, but with ourselves.

      David Goggins' story teaches us the power of determination and self-belief. Despite facing extreme challenges, including childhood trauma, learning disabilities, and fear of water, Goggins managed to transform his life and become a Navy SEAL. His journey shows that it's possible to achieve the seemingly impossible if we have the unwavering commitment to follow through. Goggins emphasizes that self-doubt can be overcome by taking consistent action and proving ourselves wrong every day. The key is to awaken something inside of us and recognize that the greatest battle is not with external forces, but with ourselves. By pushing through the tough moments and staying focused on our goals, we can achieve greatness and make it all worth it in the end.

    • Conquering the Battle WithinIdentify and confront your past self to overcome self-doubt and insecurity, and move forward confidently towards your goals.

      We often battle against versions of ourselves from our past. This concept of "you against you" means that there is a past version of us that we have to confront and overcome in order to reach our goals. Just like David Goggins battles with his former self, we too have to identify the version of ourselves that brings self-doubt and insecurity to the table. It's important to recognize who we're fighting against, whether it's fear of judgment or insecurity about putting ourselves out there. By acknowledging and confronting this past version of ourselves, we can break free from its grip and move forward with confidence towards our aspirations.

    • Overcoming the Past to Unlock Your Full Potential.By identifying and actively outgrowing negative versions of ourselves, we can break free from their grasp and tap into our full potential, leading to true fulfillment in life.

      We all battle with versions of ourselves from our past that hold us back. Mel Robbins shares her experience of feeling anxious and insecure every morning, stemming from a childhood incident. She emphasizes the importance of identifying this version of ourselves and actively working to outgrow it. By acknowledging and outworking those negative thoughts and feelings, we can break free from their grasp and tap into our full potential. It is liberating to recognize that we are bigger, better, and stronger than the old versions of ourselves. By not letting our past selves rob us of who we are meant to become, we can experience true fulfillment in life.

    • Embracing the Battle: Unleashing your Full PotentialOvercoming fear and doubt and taking daily actions are essential in unlocking our untapped potential and achieving personal growth.

      We often hold ourselves back from reaching our full potential. We let the old versions of ourselves win, leaving our untapped potential locked away inside. The key is to identify and battle against these old versions of ourselves that hold us back. It's a daily fight to outwork the insecurities and doubts that prevent us from celebrating our achievements and sharing ourselves with the world. It's not enough to just think or listen to inspirational content, we must take action and push through. Blaming others for our lack of progress is a cop-out; it's our own fear and insecurity that holds us back. We are meant for more, and it's up to us to prove it to ourselves. So let's embrace the battle of You against you every single day and unleash our full potential.

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