Investing in exceptional possessions and experiences: Investing in high-quality items and experiences can inspire growth, open new opportunities, and bring joy. Airbnb sharing offers income and connections, while Walmart Plus membership saves time and money.
Exceptional possessions and experiences can inspire us to push beyond our comfort zones and achieve more than we thought possible. Whether it's a snowboard that encourages a newbie to tackle the mountain or a luxurious Airbnb rental that makes travelers feel welcome and cherished, investing in high-quality items and experiences can open up new opportunities and possibilities. Additionally, sharing our homes through Airbnb not only brings in extra income but also allows us to connect with and welcome travelers from around the world. Lastly, Walmart Plus membership offers various benefits, including free grocery delivery, gas savings, and a Paramount Plus subscription, making it a valuable investment for those looking to save time and money.
Navigating complex emotional situations: Communication and understanding are key to resolving conflicts and rebuilding connections. Everyone handles emotions differently and deserves respect and freedom in relationships.
Navigating complex emotional situations, especially when it comes to relationships and friendships, can be challenging and require sensitivity and patience. The speaker in this discussion has a complicated past and is currently dealing with the aftermath of revealing his feelings to a friend who has since started dating someone else. Despite his lack of dating experience, he is deeply concerned about losing his friend and potentially damaging their relationship further. It's important to remember that everyone handles emotions differently and that open communication and understanding are key to resolving conflicts and rebuilding connections. The speaker's feelings are valid, but it may be necessary to approach the situation with caution and respect for all parties involved. It's also essential to recognize that everyone deserves the freedom to make their own choices in relationships and that ultimately, the speaker's happiness and well-being should be a priority.
Focus on personal growth before relationships: Work on yourself before seeking a relationship to ensure readiness and prevent idealizing potential partners, maintaining healthy friendships.
Before pursuing a relationship with someone, it's crucial to focus on personal growth and self-improvement. The text discusses a man who has feelings for a friend but is not ready for a relationship due to past experiences and fear of potential hurt. The expert advises him to continue working on himself and to avoid idealizing the friend, as this could lead to unrealistic expectations and potential harm to their friendship. The man's desire to protect his friend from potential harm stems from his belief that he is the only person who wouldn't hurt her, effectively eliminating all other potential suitors. This mindset can be unhealthy and damaging to both parties, and it's essential to be honest about one's intentions to maintain healthy friendships. In summary, focusing on personal growth and self-improvement is essential before entering a relationship, and it's crucial to be honest about one's intentions to maintain healthy friendships.
Understanding the Influence of Emotions on Decisions: Being aware of emotional influences on decisions can help make informed choices, even when societal pressures conflict with personal values.
Our emotions can sometimes lead us to rationalize our actions, and it's important to be aware of this process in order to make informed decisions. The speaker emphasizes that this is a normal human behavior, but being conscious of it can help us gauge our true intentions and avoid making mistakes based on short-sighted feelings. The listener, a woman in her late twenties, shares her experience of being single and feeling pressured to conform to societal expectations. She values her morals and wants a committed relationship before getting intimate, but finds herself in situations where she's set up on dates with men who aren't a good fit. The speaker offers advice on how to navigate these situations with honesty and grace, while staying true to herself. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness and authenticity in relationships.
Embracing Unisex Dating Expectations: Don't conform to labels, embrace fun in relationships, respect boundaries, and screen potential partners.
It's important to embrace a unisex audience and not feel obligated to conform to certain dating expectations. The speaker shares her experience with being labeled as someone who is great to marry but not date, suggesting that this label may be based on assumptions about her stability, kindness, and lack of excitement. She encourages not apologizing for not liking the people set up on dates and reminds that rejection is a part of dating. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of having fun in relationships and not sacrificing it for stability. She advises being clear about boundaries and respecting others' while also not making them feel ashamed for their desires. The speaker calls out the idea that religious or conservative individuals don't want to get physical right away as a myth and encourages a screening process for potential partners.
Balancing Personal Beliefs and Relationships: Find someone fun and respects beliefs, even if it means more work. Acknowledge past decisions, communicate, and focus on moving forward in relationships.
It's important to find a balance when it comes to relationships and personal beliefs. Some people may seem like a good match on the surface, but there may be underlying differences that require extra effort and understanding. In the first scenario, the speaker emphasizes the importance of finding someone who is fun and respects your beliefs, even if it means more work in the screening process. In the second scenario, a listener is struggling with feelings of jealousy and resentment towards a friend who has become financially successful while they are still struggling. The takeaway here is that it's essential to acknowledge the past decisions that led to the current situation and focus on finding ways to move forward, such as communicating with the friend and potentially selling the apartment. Ultimately, it's important to remember that everyone's journey is unique, and it's up to us to find the middle ground and appreciate the value of our relationships.
Understanding and Communicating Feelings in Friendships: Instead of comparing and feeling resentment towards successful friends, communicate openly and focus on the positive aspects of friendships for personal growth.
Instead of feeling resentment towards successful friends, it's important to communicate openly about your feelings and understand that they are not looking down on you. Comparing yourself to others and focusing on their successes can poison friendships. It's crucial to remember that friendships are more valuable than temporary feelings of jealousy or inadequacy. Admitting your feelings to your friend may be uncomfortable, but it can lead to a deeper understanding and stronger bond. Comparing yourself to others and pushing away friends who may surpass you is a surefire way to surround yourself with negativity and stunt personal growth. Embrace the normal emotions of jealousy and inadequacy, but don't let them define your relationships. Instead, focus on the positive aspects of your friendships and the personal growth that comes from supporting each other.
Improving tone of voice through practice and guidance: Non-native English speakers can improve tone of voice by practicing techniques like the doorway drill, engaging in consistent English use, and seeking guidance from a voice coach.
To improve a specific aspect of communication, such as tone of voice, it may be necessary to make it an unconscious habit. For non-native English speakers, this can be particularly challenging due to the need to focus on various aspects of language acquisition. However, practicing techniques such as the doorway drill to improve body language and engaging in consistent English language use can help make tone adjustments more automatic. Additionally, seeking the guidance of a voice coach can provide valuable insights and exercises to enhance vocal tone. The journey towards effective communication involves continuous effort and a willingness to try different approaches.
Understanding Consequences for Effective Communication and Sales: Effective communication and sales require understanding the consequences of not taking action, highlighting the benefits and consequences of a service, and using multimedia messages to nurture customers.
Effective communication, whether it's learning a new language or selling a product, requires understanding the consequences of not taking action. Jordan Harbinger, in the discussion, emphasized the importance of accent reduction and referred listeners to Darcy, a professional who specializes in this area. He emphasized that this process can't be learned through YouTube alone and needs to be tailored to individual needs. In the context of sales, Dapper Dan asked for advice on getting men interested in his business that focuses on helping men dress and groom better. Jordan suggested highlighting the consequences of not dressing well, such as missing out on professional and personal opportunities. He also recommended creating content that shows the benefits and consequences of the service. Additionally, Jordan suggested learning from popular YouTube channels like Real Men Real Style, and using multimedia messages to nurture customers. Overall, the key takeaway is that effective communication and sales require understanding the consequences of not taking action and using that information to persuade and provide value to others.
Demonstrate the value of personal growth before asking for support: Effective communication and a readiness to change are crucial for maintaining a strong relationship.
In any situation involving persuasion or sales, it's important to show people what they're missing out on before highlighting the benefits. In the context of relationships, this means demonstrating the value of personal growth and development before asking for support or attention. In the case of the listener, he's struggling to balance his demanding lifestyle with his girlfriend's desire for his attention. Despite her claims that she's content, the relationship has grown distant, and it seems clear that they're not a good fit for each other. The listener should consider breaking up with her, being kind and respectful in the process, and focusing on his priorities. Another listener asked for advice on how to rekindle the physical and emotional connection with his wife, who has lost respect for him due to his lack of fitness and a bad business decision. The key takeaway here is that open communication and a willingness to make changes are essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
Understanding partner's concerns and motivating self-improvement: Focus on communication, healthy food choices, and self-improvement to maintain a respectful relationship.
Communication and self-improvement are key in maintaining a healthy and respectful relationship. The speaker's partner may have expressed her concerns in a harsh way, but it's important to understand that she might be trying to motivate her partner to improve himself. The partner's weight loss might have been a source of insecurity for her, and she may have felt that her partner wasn't making an effort to better himself. However, it's essential to remember that losing weight is mostly about diet and not just exercise. The speaker can focus on making healthier food choices and gradually see results. It's also crucial to work on communication skills and avoid putting each other down to build each other up. The documentary "Seeing Allred" about Gloria Allred is a recommendation for those interested in strong and tenacious women.
Emphasizing the Importance of Personal Growth and Self-Improvement: Engage in personal growth and self-improvement activities, as those who don't are not worth associating with. Connect with the show on social media and send in questions for potential answers.
The show appreciates the support of its listeners, especially those who take the time to send in questions. A young entrepreneur named Bryce, whose mother is a super fan, emphasized the importance of personal growth and self-improvement. Bryce suggested that those who don't engage in such activities aren't worth associating with. The show encourages listeners to connect on social media platforms like Instagram and Twitter, and to send in their questions for potential answers on the air. Additionally, Walmart Plus membership offers various savings on groceries, gas, and streaming services, making it a valuable option for those looking to save money and streamline their lifestyle.
20: There But for the Grace of Cryptocurrency Go I | Feedback Friday
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1052: Wack Prenup Request Puts Engagement to the Test | Feedback Friday
Your engagement's on thin ice after a lackluster presentation and surprise prenup request. Is it time to say "I don't" instead? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- Do your habits align with your ideal healthspan/lifespan?
- You're engaged to a man who suddenly asked for a prenup during a romantic date night, leading to a fight where you returned the ring. His proposal seemed half-hearted, and there are potential red flags about his commitment. How do you process this unexpected twist in your engagement?
- You organized a charity run with a local business owner to qualify for a marathon, but he withheld the funds raised for months. Now you're grappling with anger and the desire for revenge. How will you handle this betrayal and protect future charitable efforts?
- As a self-employed carpenter, you sometimes get a bad feeling about potential clients but struggle to turn them down politely. How can you trust your instincts and maintain professional boundaries without burning bridges or damaging your reputation?
- Your coworker and close friend recently threatened suicide while armed, putting you in a dangerous situation. Now you're dealing with the aftermath and conflicting emotions. How will you process this traumatic experience and decide the future of your friendship?
- Recommendation of the Week: Mafbeanl Rocket Launcher for Kids
- Your sister, who you've grown close to as adults, has become distant since you set boundaries with her verbally abusive husband. She's going through fertility struggles and depression. How can you support her while respecting her space and protecting yourself?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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1051: Tu Lam | From Refugee to Real American Hero
From refugee to elite soldier to Call of Duty character: Green Beret Tu Lam shares his incredible journey of overcoming adversity and finding purpose.
What We Discuss with Tu Lam:
- Tu Lam escaped Vietnam as a child on a dangerous boat journey, enduring extreme hardship before eventually making it to the United States as a refugee.
- He faced significant racism and challenges growing up in America, but was determined to prove himself and joined the military, eventually becoming a Green Beret.
- Tu Lam served in elite special forces units for over 20 years, participating in dangerous missions around the world including hostage rescues and counterterrorism operations.
- After leaving the military, he struggled with PTSD and drug addiction, but was able to heal through various methods including psychedelic therapy.
- Tu Lam's journey shows how we can overcome extreme adversity and trauma through perseverance, seeking help when needed, and finding positive ways to channel our experiences. His story inspires us to face our own challenges with courage and to use our struggles as motivation to help others.
- And much more...
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1050: Lisa Kaltenegger | In Search of Alien Life and Livable Worlds
Are we alone in the universe? Alien Earths author Lisa Kaltenegger joins us to discuss new discoveries in humanity's hunt for extraterrestrial life.
What We Discuss with Lisa Kaltenegger:
- The universe contains billions of stars and galaxies, with an estimated one out of five stars having a planet that could be similar to Earth in terms of potential habitability.
- Scientists use various methods to detect exoplanets, including observing changes in starlight and analyzing the light spectrum of planets to detect signs of life-sustaining elements like oxygen and methane.
- The search for extraterrestrial life involves looking for planets in the "habitable zone" or "Goldilocks zone" around stars, where conditions might allow for liquid water on the surface.
- The observable universe is limited by the speed of light and the age of the universe (approximately 13.7 billion years), meaning we can only see as far as light has had time to travel since the Big Bang.
- Anyone can contribute to space exploration and scientific discovery by staying curious, learning about new discoveries, and supporting science education. Even simple actions like looking up at the night sky and wondering about our place in the universe can inspire a lifelong passion for science and exploration.
- And much more...
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1049: Friend Was a Creeper But You're Not His Keeper | Feedback Friday
A friend's arrest for a dark crime has you shaken. Can you protect your career and sanity from association with this monster? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday:
- How did "The Thing" that Soviets used to spy on Americans during the Cold War (as described in episode 1027: Jonna Mendez | A Woman’s Life in the CIA) actually work? Some of our science-minded listeners have written in with fascinating answers!
- Your close friend was arrested for possessing and distributing child abuse material, leaving you and your friend group in shock. You're grappling with feelings of betrayal, questioning your judgment, and worrying about potential impacts on your career as a preschool teacher. What steps can you take to cope with this crisis and safeguard your professional reputation?
- As the new Director of Nursing Care, you're tasked with improving staff performance after years of lax management. You find yourself constantly disciplining employees and dealing with petty complaints, feeling more like a punitive boss than a supportive leader. How can you maintain positivity while addressing these challenges?
- Your wife's family is fraught with tension due to her sisters' problematic marriages, including allegations of abuse and sexual assault. Fresh to the family, you're not sure where you fit into its overall structure yet. Can you help mend family bonds or should you keep your distance?
- You're a Jewish doctor in a relationship with a Catholic woman, struggling to balance your religious practices with your desire to be with her. After a breakup and reconciliation, you discover she's still in contact with her ex. How do you address this without compromising your values or losing her?
- Recommendation of the Week: Love on the Spectrum
- As the founding CEO of a startup, you sacrificed relationships and recreation to build the company. Just as things were going well, you were replaced by the shareholders and are now owed a significant sum. How can you reclaim your professional path while rediscovering personal fulfillment?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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1048: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part Two
Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 2/2 — find Pt 1 here!]
What We Discuss:
- The extreme brutality and inhumane conditions in the United States prison system, including rampant violence, unsanitary living conditions, and inadequate medical care.
- The complex and dangerous social dynamics within prison, including racial segregation, gang politics, and the constant threat of violence.
- The psychological impact of long-term incarceration, including the difficulty of reintegrating into society and the lasting trauma experienced by both inmates and their families.
- The systemic issues within the American prison system, particularly the profit-driven motives of private prisons that perpetuate a cycle of crime and recidivism rather than focusing on rehabilitation.
- The power of personal transformation and education, as demonstrated by Shaun's journey from drug kingpin to advocate for prison reform. His story shows that even in the darkest circumstances, individuals can find ways to grow, learn, and ultimately use their experiences to make a positive impact on society.
- And much more — be sure to check out part one of this conversation here if you haven't already!
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1047: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part One
Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 1/2]
What We Discuss:
- Shaun Attwood, a former stockbroker turned drug dealer, recounts his journey from the UK to Arizona, where he became involved in the rave scene and eventually established a large ecstasy distribution network.
- Shaun's story involves interactions with dangerous individuals, including members of the Mexican Mafia and associates of former show guest Sammy "The Bull" Gravano, highlighting the violent and unpredictable nature of the drug trade.
- The narrative illustrates the gradual escalation of criminal activities and the blurring of moral boundaries as Shaun became more deeply entrenched in the drug world.
- Shaun describes the intense paranoia and constant threat of violence that accompanied his lifestyle, demonstrating the high personal cost of his choices.
- Despite the dark nature of the story, Shaun's experiences offer valuable insights into the dangers of drug abuse and the importance of making positive life choices. His journey towards redemption, which will be further explored in part two later this week, serves as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to change course and seek a better path in life.
- And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation here later this week!
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1046: Hydrotherapy | Skeptical Sunday
Ice plunges, hot soaks, and eight glasses a day: Jessica Wynn splashes cold water on hydrotherapy myths and explores potential benefits on Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
- Hydrotherapy, which includes various uses of water for health purposes, lacks substantial scientific evidence for many of its claimed benefits, especially for generally healthy individuals.
- The popular belief that we need to drink eight glasses of water a day is a myth perpetuated by beverage companies. Our bodies are well-equipped to signal thirst when we need hydration.
- Extreme temperature changes in hydrotherapy, such as alternating between hot and cold water, can be dangerous and potentially lead to fainting, heart problems, or drowning.
- Many of the alleged benefits of hydrotherapy, such as improved circulation or muscle recovery, can often be achieved through other, potentially safer methods like exercise or breathing techniques.
- Hydrotherapy does show promise in specific medical contexts, such as pain management for fibromyalgia, easing labor during childbirth, and assisting with certain rehabilitation exercises. If you're interested in exploring hydrotherapy for health reasons, consult with a medical professional to determine if it's appropriate for your individual needs and how to practice it safely.
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!
- Connect with Jessica Wynn.
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1045: Helping Pal Who Paid Cost for Offing His Boss | Feedback Friday
We all joke about offing the boss. Your friend actually did. He'll soon leave prison, but you're unsure how to receive him. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- We've all fantasized about offing the boss, but your friend actually did it. Now he's done his time in prison and is returning home. How do you help him rejoin society without ignoring the gravity of his crime?
- You opened a bakery with your partner, but the building owner across the street turned your parking spaces into a dumpster area, including rotting fish from a sushi restaurant. Your attempts to resolve the issue have been unsuccessful. How can you save your business from this smelly situation?
- Your sister-in-law is neglecting her nine-year-old daughter, keeping her out of school and leaving her alone all day. The child's father is unreliable, and you're unsure about intervening. How can you protect your niece without causing more chaos?
- Your wife suddenly claimed to be a lesbian, cheated on you, and left the family. After two years apart, you've reconciled, but things aren't going well. She's depressed, anxious, and isolating herself. Can this marriage be saved, or is it time to move on?
- Recommendation of the Week: iPhone users should consider changing default camera settings for optimal high-res photos. Here's how — with more tips here!
- As a Jewish public servant, you've faced increasing antisemitism and violence at work, even requiring hospital visits. Your progressive values are being challenged by the harsh realities of your job. How can you reconcile your ideals with your experiences?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
- Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.
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1044: Dan Harris | From Breaking News to Breaking Habits
Is happiness a learnable skill? 10% Happier author Dan Harris is here to share techniques for managing stress and finding contentment in a hectic world.
What We Discuss:
- Dan Harris shares his experience as a war correspondent and his struggle with anxiety and drug use that culminated in a panic attack on live television.
- The intense and often toxic work environment in network news, particularly during Dan's early career at ABC News.
- Dan's journey from cocaine addiction to discovering meditation and mindfulness as tools for managing stress and anxiety.
- The concept of "Papañca" (mental proliferation) and how it contributes to unnecessary suffering through overthinking and projection.
- Happiness is a learnable skill. Through various practices like meditation, therapy, exercise, and mindfulness, we can train our minds to be more resilient, peaceful, and content. As Dan emphasizes, we're not stuck with our current traits as if they're unalterable factory settings — they are trainable skills that we can improve upon throughout our lives.
- And much more...
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1043: Andrew Gold | Unveiling the Psychology of Secrets
Are secrets a burden or social glue? Psychology of Secrets author Andrew Gold delves into the evolutionary roots and modern impacts of hiding information.
What We Discuss with Andrew Gold:
- Keeping secrets can be physically and emotionally painful for humans. This evolved as a mechanism to encourage social cohesion and information sharing within tribal communities.
- There's a difference between secrets and privacy. What is considered a secret versus private information often depends on societal norms and can change over time.
- Technology is making it increasingly difficult to keep secrets, with devices like smartwatches and phones potentially revealing information we'd rather keep hidden.
- Virtue signaling and victim signaling are common behaviors, especially on social media, where people may pretend to hold certain beliefs or experiences for status or attention.
- Sharing appropriate secrets can increase intimacy and strengthen relationships. By thoughtfully opening up to others, we can build deeper connections and foster trust, leading to more meaningful interactions and a stronger support network.
- And much more...
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Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason (@jpdef) are joined by Kim Seltzer (@seltzerkimberly) for this round of Feedback Friday!
If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- Can eating disorder habits manifest in seemingly unrelated ways -- like how you feel about money? Is it possible to suffer from financial anorexia?
- How do you go about institutionalizing a legitimately psychotic family member?
- Can exes really be platonic friends?
- Is your imposter syndrome socially sabotaging your ability to mingle with the people you really want to be mingling with at gatherings?
- Do you have difficulty determining what is reasonable and what is not when it comes to your significant other's behavior?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
- Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.
- Connect with Kim on Twitter at @seltzerkimberly or her website, and check out her podcast: Charisma Quotient.
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79: Carter Thomas | Top Cryptocurrency Tips for New Kids on the Blockchain
Carter Thomas (@carterthomas) started as a marketer and strategist in the mobile app space, publishing over 1,500 apps on multiple platforms that have generated 18M+ downloads. Now he educates the curious about cryptocurrency and blockchain technologies via videos and a podcast under the Coin Mastery banner.
What We Discuss with Carter Thomas:
- A primer on cryptocurrency and blockchain so you can understand what people are talking about even if you're not interested in investing.
- Beyond finances, how blockchain can be used to better secure everything from identity to medical data.
- Why it's important to understand this technology now instead of waiting for it to saturate the markets of the mainstream.
- The pros and cons of cryptocurrency trading from the perspective of the vendor as well as the consumer.
- How cryptocurrency is being used today to counteract the hyperinflated conditions of Venezuela's traditional economy.
- And much more...
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5: Faux Gravitas Your Way to Success | Feedback Friday
Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason (@jpdef) are back to banter every week and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday on The Jordan Harbinger Show!
If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- New beginnings! New excitement! New puppies! New levels of sleep deprivation!
- Here's a trick to convey contemplation rather than grumpitude if you've got one of those resting faces.
- How do you turn from a Fibbing Freddy into a Trustworthy Terry?
- How do we prepare for a show? (If you're interested in the longer story, tell us!)
- Do you like this show? Please tell your friends about it -- we're starting from scratch and need your help!
- Why should a woman who has more in common with her boyfriend and his friends be forced to hang out with the girlfriend group at social occasions?
- Sometimes people who are stuck in a rut don't even realize it. Is there a delicate way to tell them?
- There's something to be said for having the confidence to make mistakes (or dress like a kangaroo at the bar) without being embarrassed.
- Recommendation of the Week: Somm
- Quick shoutouts to Rick Higgins, Eric Onesto, and George Taylor!
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger, and check out Jason's (@jpdef) other show: Grumpy Old Geeks. You can also find him on Instagram at JPD.
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110: Stop Financially Supporting Deadbeat Friends | Feedback Friday
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!
If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- How do you know if you're making progress and on track to a better and brighter future if you feel underqualified and inadequate about so much of your life? How can you measure your growth?
- Sometimes you try so hard to help your loved ones with their issues that you forget to help yourself. Support is close if you know where to find it -- here's where we suggest looking.
- How do you keep yourself from falling back into old, obsolete patterns of behavior whenever you visit your friends in your old hometown? Aren't you better than that now?
- You've been on Facebook for 14 years and have never weeded out friends you've only spoken to once in that entire time. Now you're applying to a job and notice one of your obscure connections is VP of the company. Is it tacky to contact them?
- If you genuinely love networking and meeting new people, you might feel bad about having to turn down lunch with some of them because you just don't have as much time as you used to (especially when they turn into sales pitches in disguise). How do you retreat from these invitations politely?
- If you're proud of your political activism in college, does it do any harm to bring it up when you're looking for a new job?
- Should you give up all the guaranteed benefits of your long-term government job to pursue a shaky future in the private sector that could result in more money and reemergence of happiness from that fire and drive you once had, but at a time cost and a possibility of being released or fired and losing those needed benefits for your family?
- Since returning to your hometown as a successful attorney making the big bucks, one of your friends seems to think you should pay for everything you do together because you make more money. What do you do?
- Recommendation of the Week: Jon Levy's What Makes Us Influential? TED Salon Talk
- A quick shoutout to Renee in Montana!
- Tank's Good News: Nike Signs First Runner with Cerebral Palsy
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
- Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: <a href="http://podcastone.com/grumpy-old-geeks"...
60: Todd Kashdan | The Bright Truth about Your Dark Side
Todd Kashdan (@toddkashdan) is a Professor of Psychology and Senior Scientist at the Center for the Advancement of Well-Being at George Mason University and co-author of The Upside of Your Dark Side: Why Being Your Whole Self -- Not Just Your "Good" Self -- Drives Success and Fulfillment.
What We Discuss with Todd Kashdan:
- Why trying to be positive and happy all the time may be harming your ability to get things done and achieve the results you want.
- How what you may think of as negative emotions -- like anger -- can be useful superpowers with the proper awareness and application.
- The problem with living in a time and place when distraction from discomfort comes in an easier and greater variety than ever before.
- Why every decision you make now is based on how you expect to feel in the future -- and you probably underestimate your ability to tolerate distress.
- How you can use the discomfort caveat to ease out of the "put on a happy face" rut around others.
- And much more...
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