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    • Understanding Psychological Biases in InvestingRecognizing and overcoming inherent biases is crucial for making smarter financial decisions.

      Understanding and addressing the psychological biases that influence our investing behavior is key to making smarter financial decisions. Daniel Crosby, a behavioral finance expert, discusses this topic in his new book, "The Laws of Wealth." He argues that most people's mistakes in investing come down to behavior, not a lack of understanding of complex financial markets. Crosby also shares insights from his previous book, "You Are Not So Great," which applies behavioral psychology to help individuals live happier and more fulfilling lives. He emphasizes that greatness is not a birthright, but rather something we can work towards by recognizing and overcoming our inherent biases. Overall, Crosby's work highlights the importance of understanding human behavior in both personal and financial contexts.

    • The belief in being inherently special can be detrimentalBelieving in your inherent abilities can lead to quitting and cheating. Focus on process and hard work instead for success.

      The belief in being inherently special or gifted can be detrimental. The speaker, who grew up during the self-esteem movement, shares how this mindset led him to quit when faced with challenges and even cheat, as seen in the cases of Bernie Madoff and children praised for their supposed specialness. The speaker emphasizes the importance of focusing on process over outcomes and hard work rather than relying on inherent abilities. The research of psychologist Carol Dweck supports this idea, as children praised for being special were more likely to lie about their grades, while those praised for their hard work and following rules did not. The speaker's personal experience and the research evidence suggest that the belief in being special can lead to quitting and cheating, and instead, a growth mindset that values effort and learning is essential for success.

    • Comparing ourselves to our past selves for genuine self-esteemDevelop a personal benchmark for greatness and avoid contingent self-esteem based on others' lack of it. Genuine self-esteem comes from personal growth and achieving noteworthy goals.

      Contingent self-esteem, based on someone else's lack of self-esteem, can lead us to either overconfident behavior or putting others down. To overcome this, we need to develop a personal benchmark for greatness, comparing ourselves to our past selves rather than neighbors. Additionally, there's no shortcut to genuine self-esteem; it comes from doing hard things and achieving noteworthy goals. In the realm of investing, many people find it intimidating, but understanding the research from behavioral psychology can help them make better financial decisions. The speaker's latest book, "The Laws of Wealth," explores these concepts further.

    • Managing emotions in investingRecognizing the impact of emotions on investment decisions and seeking help from a financial coach or advisor can lead to wiser investment choices and long-term wealth

      Successful investing is not just about what you put in your portfolio, but how you manage your behavior. Your emotions and biases can significantly impact your investment decisions, often leading to poor outcomes. For instance, the affect heuristic, which is the tendency for emotions to influence perceptions of risk, can cause investors to make hasty decisions based on their current emotional state. This disconnect between emotions and rational decision-making is a common issue that even experienced investors face. Therefore, having a financial coach or advisor who can help manage emotions and keep investors from making impulsive decisions can be invaluable. By recognizing the importance of behavioral management in investing, investors can make wiser decisions and ultimately build long-term wealth.

    • Goals-based investing vs Traditional investingGoals-based investing focuses on anxiety-adjusted returns, prioritizing personal motivations, while traditional investing aims for maximum returns with added risk. Both have merits, observe results before opinions.

      Goals-based investing offers a more personalized approach to money management compared to the traditional model of finance. While the traditional model focuses on maximizing returns for every extra bit of risk taken, goals-based investing prioritizes anxiety-adjusted returns that align with an individual's unique goals, wants, and needs. This approach was shown to be particularly effective in helping low-income savers set aside more money by reminding them of their personal motivations before making financial decisions. However, the speaker also acknowledged the appeal of index funds, which have historically outperformed actively managed funds for most investors. Yet, they also suggested that actively managed funds might still have a place in some portfolios. Nassim Taleb's advice, "never ask a man in his opinion, only ask to see his portfolio," underscores the importance of observing results rather than relying solely on opinions. Ultimately, the choice between goals-based investing and index funds depends on an individual's financial situation, risk tolerance, and personal goals.

    • The limitations of index investingIndex investing may concentrate investments in large, expensive stocks, potentially underperforming smaller or cheaper ones. Composition of indexes can be biased and prone to errors, but alternatives like rules-based behavioral investing and robo-advisors offer diversified portfolios and personalized investment strategies at reasonable fees.

      While index investing can be a good option for average investors, it may not be the most effective strategy due to its tendency to concentrate investments in large and expensive stocks, which historically have not performed as well as smaller or cheaper stocks. Additionally, the composition of indexes like the S&P 500 is determined by a small group of people, who are subject to bias and errors, potentially leading to poor investment decisions. However, there are alternatives like rules-based behavioral investing or robo-advisors, such as Wealthfront and Betterment, which use algorithms to create diversified portfolios at reasonable fees. These services can help investors create a personalized investment strategy without requiring extensive time and effort. Overall, it's essential to consider the potential drawbacks of index investing and explore other options to optimize long-term investment performance.

    • Robo-advisors vs Traditional Financial Advisors: Managing Investor Behavior During VolatilityRobo-advisors offer portfolio diversification and management, but their ability to manage investor behavior during market volatility is uncertain. Traditional financial advisors help investors outperform by keeping them invested during tough times, emphasizing consistency and conviction.

      While robo-advisors offer credible portfolio diversification and management, their ability to manage investor behavior during market volatility remains uncertain. Traditional financial advisors have been shown to help investors outperform by keeping them invested during tough times. The recent incident with Betterment illustrates this challenge. On the other hand, consistency and conviction are key principles for individual investors. Consistency can be achieved through simple rules like regular savings or buying dips. Conviction means choosing between active and passive investing, with the former requiring a truly differentiated fund and strong conviction. Overall, the key to successful investing is simplifying decision-making and maintaining a clear stance.

    • A poem about cherishing loved ones in the face of lossReflect on the reality of loss to live a more meaningful life, cherish every moment with loved ones.

      The author, Daniel, wrote a children's poem titled "Everyone You Love Will Die" as a way to have meaningful conversations with his children about the realities of life and death. The poem, which was initially a response to the death of his daughter's pet fish, gained popularity when a friend illustrated it and they put it on Kickstarter. The book's message encourages readers to cherish every moment with their loved ones, as the inevitability of loss can serve as a motivation to live a more meaningful life. Daniel believes that in today's world, where people are often shielded from death, it's important to reflect on the reality of loss in a meaningful way. To learn more about Daniel's books, visit his website or check out his publications on popular online retailers.

    • Understanding the Laws of WealthLong-term perspective, avoiding pitfalls, focusing on what you can control, developing a plan, and staying disciplined are essential for building wealth.

      The importance of understanding the laws of wealth as outlined in Daniel Crosby's book, The Laws of Wealth. Crosby emphasizes the importance of having a long-term perspective when it comes to building wealth, avoiding common behavioral finance pitfalls, and focusing on what you can control. He also encourages developing a plan for managing your wealth and staying disciplined in sticking to it. To learn more about these laws and apply them to your own financial situation, check out Crosby's book and visit everyoneuleveldy.com for additional resources. Remember, building wealth is a journey, not a destination, and staying informed and disciplined are key to achieving long-term financial success.

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