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    3 Strategies To Rapidly Improve Your Resilience and Mental Strength

    enJuly 03, 2020

    Podcast Summary

    • Creating unforgettable getaways and promoting wellnessBooking.com offers seamless travel options, CVS Health provides comprehensive healthcare services, natural remedies like slippery elm bark and ginger root support digestive health, pain can be a tool for growth, and choosing growth in tough times unlocks potential

      Effective planning and quality care go a long way in making unforgettable getaways and promoting wellness. For travel, booking.com offers a wide range of options to suit various preferences and makes the process seamless. Regarding wellness, CVS Health provides comprehensive healthcare services, including virtual and in-person care, in-home evaluations, and mental health support. Herbs, such as slippery elm bark and ginger root, are natural remedies for digestive health. Pain is often seen as negative, but it can also be a valuable tool for growth and progress. By recognizing the importance of pain and choosing growth even in tough times, we can unlock our potential and make a difference in our lives.

    • Exploring resilience: Effectively navigating and processing painResilience is the ability to recover from difficult times and bounce back, crucial for dealing with pain in relationships and the world, and can be deepened through reflection

      Resilience is the ability to effectively navigate and process pain in all areas of life. It's the capacity to recover from difficult times and bounce back, much like a resilient object that springs back into shape. Developing this skill is crucial because pain is a common experience for everyone, and not processing it properly can lead to negative consequences. Resilience can be applied to our relationships with ourselves, loved ones, and the world. In this episode, we will explore three reflections on resilience that can help deepen your ability to understand and process pain, allowing you to take better care of yourself, your loved ones, and make a positive impact on the world. So, whether you're cooking, cleaning, jogging, or just taking a break, join me as we delve into the topic of resilience and learn how to become more resilient together. And remember, everyone has experienced pain, but it's how we process it that matters. So, how resilient do you feel right now?

    • Underestimating Resilience: 57% of People are Resilient, 43% Have Blind SpotsReflect on experiences to increase resilience, embrace pain and challenges as opportunities for growth, and use resources and mindset to make the most of experiences, no matter the cost.

      Resilience, the ability to bounce back from adversity, is more common than we think, but many of us overestimate our own resilience. According to research, only 57% of people are actually resilient, meaning that 43% have blind spots that can trip them up. These blind spots are areas of our lives that we're unaware of, and they can cause us to react negatively to pain and challenges. Therefore, it's important for us to reflect on our experiences and learn from them to increase our resilience not just for ourselves but also for the people in our lives, especially younger generations. Ray Dalio, a successful businessman and podcast guest, shares this insight in his equation, "pain plus reflection equals progress." So, instead of avoiding pain and challenges, we should embrace them as opportunities for growth and reflection. And, with the right resources and mindset, we can make the most of summer and other experiences, no matter the cost.

    • Create memorable summer experiences with IKEA and boost gut health with RitualIKEA offers affordable summer experiences while Ritual's Synbiotic Plus supplement supports gut health, reducing bloating, gas, and diarrhea. CVS Health prioritizes overall wellbeing with virtual care and mental health support, while reflecting on pain leads to growth and progress.

      Creating a memorable and affordable summer experience for your family and friends is possible with IKEA, and meanwhile, supporting your gut health with Ritual's Synbiotic Plus supplement can help alleviate bloating, gas, and diarrhea. CVS Health offers various services to prioritize your overall wellbeing, from virtual care to mental health support. Reflecting on pain, rather than avoiding, distracting, or numbing ourselves, can lead to growth and progress. Pain doesn't equate to progress; it's the reflection on the pain that leads to progress. Remember, when facing challenges or discomfort, try to embrace the opportunity for growth and reflection instead of trying to avoid, distract, or numb yourself.

    • Exploring the power of reflectionReflection strengthens resilience by increasing self-awareness, clarifying values, and learning from experiences. Distinguish it from procrastination and overthinking.

      Reflection is a powerful skill that helps build resilience. During challenging times, such as the pandemic or social upheaval, self-reflection can lead to increased self-awareness and appreciation for what truly matters in life. By reflecting on what we value more and less, we can gain clarity and find meaning in our experiences. Reflection is a muscle that needs to be strengthened, and it's important to differentiate it from procrastination and overthinking. Through self-reflection, we can learn from our pain and find value in it, making us more resilient and better leaders in our personal and professional lives.

    • Developing desirable qualities for effective leadershipBenjamin Franklin's dedication to improving virtues like humility, equality, vulnerability, openness, generosity, and gratitude fosters resilience and a fulfilling life. Cultivating these qualities builds a clear vision and enables growth beyond comfort zones.

      Effective leadership requires self-reflection and the continuous development of desirable qualities, even in the face of challenges and pain. Benjamin Franklin's story serves as an inspiring example, as he dedicated himself to improving virtues such as humility, equality, vulnerability, openness, generosity, and gratitude. These qualities not only build resilience but also foster a more fulfilling personal and professional life. By maintaining a clear vision of what we aspire to, we can push through hardships and grow beyond our comfort zones. The absence of humility, however, can hinder our progress by eliminating qualities such as gratitude, genuineness, and generosity. Ultimately, considering the qualities that our loved ones and communities value in us can motivate us to stretch beyond our perceived limits and leave a positive legacy.

    • Focus on what truly matters in lifeReflect on values, lead with humility, and focus on leaving a positive legacy to live a meaningful life

      We should focus on what truly matters in life and make decisions based on how we want to be remembered in the future. Reflecting on our values, leading with humility, and leaving a positive legacy are three important areas to consider. A story called Stelig's $5 Challenge illustrates the importance of focusing on what's truly valuable – in this case, time – rather than getting distracted by temporary goals. By asking ourselves thoughtful questions and focusing on what will make a lasting impact, we can live our lives in a meaningful and purposeful way.

    • Overlooking true value in the distractionsFocus on essentials, not distractions, for growth and success in business, personal life, and health

      Sometimes we focus too much on the distractions and overlook the true value. In a business competition, a group of students realized that the most valuable thing they had was just three minutes to present their ideas to a Stanford class. They sold this time slot for $650 and won the competition. This story illustrates how we can get so caught up in the distractions, like time or money, that we forget about the real value. In another context, this could apply to personal growth or career development. For instance, we might spend too much time and energy on trivial matters, like social media or unproductive activities, and neglect the things that truly matter, like learning new skills or building relationships. The speaker encourages us to stay focused on what's essential and not get sidetracked by the distractions. Additionally, the speaker shared her experience of using Booking.com to plan her travels and highlighted the platform's wide range of options and ease of use. She also mentioned how CVS Health offers various services to promote health and wellness. Lastly, she emphasized the importance of herbs in maintaining digestive health and introduced Nature's Way as a reliable source for herbal supplements.

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    Episode Resources:

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    Episode Resources:

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    21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep 

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    Episode Resources:

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    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    With Love and Gratitude,

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    Episode Resources:

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    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    07:18 #2: Do You Discuss Important Things In A Healthy Way?

    13:19 #3: Do You Feel A Sense Of Respect?

    15:36 #4: Are You Scared Of Being Lonely?

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    23:53 #7: Can They Tolerate Your Weaknesses And Can You Tolerate Theirs?

    24:53 #8: You're Subtle Settling If It's A Financial Decision

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    Anitta: 6 Ways to Heal Your Inner Child & Let Go of Past Trauma

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    With Love and Gratitude,

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    • 01:35:21 Anitta on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

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    And what are the benefits of slowing down in everyday life?

    Today, Jay addresses the growing concern about how to slow down in our fast-paced world. Many of us feel like time is flying by, and Jay offers practical tips to help us feel more present and in control. 

    Jay recommends connecting with ourselves, looking at our schedule, and reaching out to loved ones. By waking up 20 minutes earlier than needed, this small change can set a calm tone for the day. And there is power in silence and spending time in nature. Silence helps reduce our brain's cognitive load, and being in nature makes us feel more present and less rushed.

    Throughout the episode, Jay provides easy-to-follow advice to help us slow down and enjoy life more fully, reminding us that slowing down is about being more present, not doing less.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to slow down time

    How to change your daily habits

    How to plan for your day

    These small changes can make a big difference in how you experience time. Remember, there's more to life than increasing its speed. Let's slow down together and savor every moment.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

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    16:32 #5: Being Present With Your Breath To Align Your Body And Mind

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    Culture Isn't Soft-It's What Sets Your Company Apart: A conversation with Ron Alvesteffer and & Gretchen Murphy

    Some think culture is the soft stuff.  Come in to work, have fun, have happy hours and play ping pong.  My guests for this episode know well culture is about how an organization treats their people as evidenced by how they communicate, develop team members and create opportunities for them to flourish. My guests for this episode are Ron Alvesteffer President and CEO of Service Express and Gretchen Murphy Chief Human Resources Officer.  

    Listen in as Ron and Gretchen explain why they putting employee happiness first is the key to their success, how they put employees first and why they believe this approach has led to tremendous growth and success including 100 new hires since March 2020.   This is a fun one…if you are an HR leader – consider encouraging your CEO to listen too or vice versa – so much food for thought in this episode!

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    The Power of the B-Corp to Attract Talent and Do Good: A conversation with Hanna Schulze

    The Power of the B-Corp to Attract Talent and Do Good: A conversation with Hanna Schulze

    The talent market is getting interesting as 2021 progresses. The pandemic caused many to pause and consider where they focus their time and energy along with their returns for their efforts.  There is a ripple effect in everything we do. Your employees touch the community, your business uses resources and you influence customers – each with upstream and downstream effects that often go unnoticed.  

    My guest for this episode is Hanna Schulze, president of Local First and Good For Michigan. Good For Michigan is Michigan's B Local. Like me, Hanna believes that successful, vibrant communities thrive when they put people first. Listen into to learn more about steps organizations can take to expand their focus from the bottom line to the triple bottom line.

    Connect with Hanna Schulze
    Website: https://localfirst.com/
    LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/hanna-schulze-she-her-

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    A Daughter's Voice at Modern Widows Club: Cultivating Their Personal Legacy of Love

    A Daughter's Voice at Modern Widows Club: Cultivating Their Personal Legacy of Love

    Today, a member of our "Legacy Club," who are daughters of widows and thus daughters without fathers, have communicated to Modern Widows Club their aversion to being labeled as "Fatherless Daughters." They do have fathers, and their memory stays alive through them. They prefer to be seen as architects of their own legacy of love, as a way to honor their fathers.

    Heather Price, daughter of Cindy Price (an MWC member), from Orlando, FL, is with us on the HWHW podcast. Heather recounts her experience and where she was at the time of her father, James Price's, passing while he and her mom were in Costa Rica on vacation. 

    Essential Highlights:

    • Reflecting on the cherished, remarkable memories between her and her father.
    • Inquiring about what aspects of her father she misses the most.
    • Understanding the type of support she was provided. How did she respond? What worked? What could have been done differently? 
    • Because she attended the MWC 2023 Widow Empowerment Event in St. Louis, MO with her mom, how did this program benefit her and meeting other daughters? 
    • Changes between the mother daughter relationship after loss.
    • Exploring the reasons behind her decision to become a daughter who now gives financially as a recurring donor at Modern Widows Club.
    • Listening to Heather discuss the significance of creating a legacy in honor of her father's memory. 

    We deeply appreciate Heather's willingness to share her experiences of personal loss as a daughter with such vulnerability.

    At Modern Widows Club, we are committed to supporting daughters and their mothers, knowing that the next generation of adult women will be better informed and more knowledgeable about widowhood. We are grateful for the opportunity to provide this support.