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    3 Ways Love Affects the Brain & 3 Steps for Healthy Relationships

    enOctober 14, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Affordable outdoor living solutions from IKEA, herbal remedies from Nature's Way, HR solutions from UKG, and exploring feelings of lust.IKEA provides affordable outdoor living solutions, Nature's Way offers herbal remedies for digestive health, UKG creates great workplaces, and On Purpose promotes health and healing through podcasts.

      IKEA offers affordable and stylish outdoor solutions for extending the summer experience beyond traditional vacation lengths. Meanwhile, herbs like slippery elm bark and ginger root, sourced by Nature's Way, can support digestive health. As for work, UKG is dedicated to creating great workplaces with HR, pay, time, and culture solutions. When dealing with feelings of lust, it's essential to acknowledge and understand them without suppressing or acting impulsively. Lastly, On Purpose, the top health podcast, focuses on promoting health, happiness, and healing, with a growing community of listeners dedicated to making mental health conversations mainstream.

    • The Brain's Role in Love and RelationshipsThe brain plays a significant role in love and relationships, with chemical changes and imbalances impacting feelings of lust, attraction, and attachment. Understanding the brain's perspective can provide insights into subjective experiences and help navigate relationships more effectively.

      Love and relationships deeply impact both our heart and gut, but it's essential to remember that they also significantly affect our brain. Our language and thoughts around love often revolve around the heart and gut, but research shows that the brain plays a crucial role in love and relationships as well. The brain experiences chemical changes and imbalances when we fall in love, and these feelings manifest as lust, attraction, and attachment. It's important to understand that love can be subjective, and our experiences can vary greatly. Therefore, examining the brain's perspective on love can provide valuable insights into our emotions and help us navigate relationships more effectively. For instance, men and women may have different timelines for expressing feelings of love, and it's common for people to fall in love too quickly. By recognizing the brain's role in love, we can gain a deeper understanding of our experiences and make more informed decisions in our relationships.

    • Understanding the differences between lust, attraction, and attachmentRecognizing the chemicals involved in lust, attraction, and attachment can help manage emotions and stress in relationships

      Understanding the differences between lust, attraction, and attachment, and the corresponding chemicals released in the brain during each experience, can help us navigate relationships and manage associated emotions more effectively. When we're experiencing lust, our bodies react with testosterone and estrogen. With attraction, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin are involved. And for attachment, oxytocin and vasopressin are released. According to a Harvard Business School study, when we're falling in love, our brains become more active in regions rich with dopamine, leading to feelings of excitement, stress, and anxiety. As cortisol levels rise, serotonin becomes depleted, causing intrusive thoughts and preoccupation. Recognizing these differences can help us manage stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, which are all related to a lack of perceived control over time, thoughts, and tasks. By learning to stay grounded and grateful, we can improve our mindset and find more calm in our daily lives.

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    • Understanding Lust vs. LoveLust is a natural desire for sexual gratification, not the same as love or deeper attraction. Open communication and understanding can help maintain a healthy relationship.

      While lust can be a strong and intense feeling, it is not the same as love or deeper attraction. Lust stimulates the production of sex hormones and can lead to regrettable actions or unhealthy decision making. It's important to recognize that lust is a natural desire for sexual gratification and not confuse it with something deeper in a relationship. Suppressing or acting on lust can lead to negative consequences. Instead, open communication and understanding that feeling lust for someone else does not mean the end of a relationship can help maintain a healthy and sustainable connection.

    • The Science Behind Falling in LoveFalling in love involves the release of hormones like dopamine and norepinephrine, leading to intense feelings and behaviors. Understand this process to prioritize health and recognize that these feelings will eventually calm down.

      The initial high stress and intense feelings of attraction in a relationship are not a sign that the spark has gone, but rather a natural part of the chemical process of falling in love. This process involves the release of hormones like dopamine and norepinephrine, which create feelings of euphoria and attraction. However, these same hormones can lead to decreased appetite and insomnia, and a reduction in serotonin, which can contribute to obsessive thoughts and behaviors. Understanding this chemical process can help individuals prioritize their health and well-being during the early stages of a relationship, and recognize that the intense feelings will eventually calm down, leading to a deeper, more peaceful connection.

    • Brain chemistry and relationshipsUnderstanding brain chemistry can help us appreciate the depth and value of long-term relationships beyond initial feelings of attraction.

      Our feelings of addiction and attachment in relationships are influenced by chemical imbalances in the brain, primarily involving oxytocin and vasopressin. While these feelings can be intense and real, they are also temporary and natural in the context of long-term relationships. It's important to understand that our partners cannot fulfill all of our needs and that placing excessive demands on them can lead to boredom and the pursuit of new relationships. Attachment, rather than lust and attraction, is the primary factor in long-term relationships and acts as a buffer against life's challenges. By recognizing the depth and value of our long-term relationships, we can appreciate the potential greatness that exists beyond the initial feelings of attraction.

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      Love and relationships involve natural feelings of infatuation and attraction, but it's important to find balance and appreciate the growth that comes with time. Additionally, planning unforgettable experiences, such as travels, can be made easier with the help of services like booking.com. In the realm of health, CVS Health offers various services and solutions to cater to different needs, including virtual care, mental health support through BetterHelp, and in-home evaluations. Overall, it's essential to recognize the importance of self-care, planning, and seeking support when needed to enhance our personal growth and well-being.

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    • 01:00:27 Charles on Final Five 

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    Tune in to hear about what’s on the Ex Appeal agenda for Y2k22. 

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    How To Manifest: A Guide w/ Robert Zink

    How To Manifest: A Guide w/ Robert Zink

    You might believe in it, you might not - but today you’re going to learn that manifestation is real.

    No, you’re not just gonna think about a million dollars and it’s gonna appear in your account, sorry. But you will learn the importance of daily practices and application of the art of manifestation, in order to receive the greatness you deserve in your life. 

    Continuing the month of personal growth on Almost Adulting, today we welcome Robert Zink. Robert is a modern day businessman, successful life coach and mentor who teaches astonishing things in the area of personal empowerment, career enhancement, and the law of attraction. Violet and Robert believe in the power of manifestation and how it can truly change our lives. They begin the conversation by defining what manifestation is and how we can attract positive things. Next, Robert explains the three steps to successfully attracting the person you’re interested in, how we always attract people that are like us - whether we’re aware of it or not. Finally, the duo discusses the thin line of when wanting something so badly can turn into an obsession - and how to balance this line in a beneficial way using manifestation. Be ready to receive your blessings Besties, they’re coming very soon!

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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Introduction
    • 01:01 What is manifesting?
    • 03:23 Start attracting positive things
    • 06:26 Is there a wrong way to go about manifesting?
    • 13:37 Can people feel when you’re not over them?
    • 14:18 Take them off the pedestal  
    • 17:25 A relationship is like a good money tip
    • 20:39 Anything we manifest, we feel and we see
    • 23:45 Hanging on to the hurt and anger
    • 25:28 Can someone accidentally manifest harm to others?
    • 28:17 We attract who we are
    • 31:52 How can one manifest in their sleep?
    • 36:42 Joining the program
    • 41:41 A story of manifestation
    • 44:21 When does it become an obsession?
    • 47:58 Can anyone just manifest strongly? 


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    Accessible Herbalism for Wound Care

    Accessible Herbalism for Wound Care

    Everyone gets hurt sometimes. Knowing how to take care of injuries at home is an excellent skill to have. You can prevent a minor injury from becoming something serious with a few simple steps: stop the bleeding, clean & disinfect, then help the healing process. Bringing in herbalism for wound care support is going to be a major boost to this process, making it go faster & more certainly in the right direction!

    We also discuss strategies for coping with chronic wounds. When we work with herbs for wounds that are chronic, such as diabetic ulcers, they can make improvements even where these have been recalcitrant and slow-to-heal. In all cases we’re careful to adjust our herbs based on the state of the wound – particularly wet vs dry wounds – and to choose preparations that make sense for the type of wound we’re working on.

    Herbs discussed in this episode include: yarrow, cayenne, chamomile, peppermint, spearmint, thyme, oregano, sage, lavender, garlic, onion, cinnamon, clove, black tea, juniper, cedar, pine, calendula, plantain, goldenrod, & seaweeds.

    This is part 7 in our Accessible Herbalism series! We’re sharing strategies for safely improving some of the most common health concerns, especially for marginalized communities. We want to empower people to take action in support of their own health and the health of their neighbors. The safe, accessible tools of holistic herbalism can fill in the gaps left by uneven access and affordability of conventional care. Working with easy-to-find, inexpensive herbs, with low risk of adverse effects and drug interactions, is something anyone can do.

    We’re building a community health collective organizing tool out of this material as we go through the series. You can learn more about the project and find all the collected resources here:

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    S03#4 - Der beste Freundin Check

    S03#4 - Der beste Freundin Check

    In Folge 4 ist niemand geringeres als Maribels beste Freundin Laura mit am Start! Denn sie hat ihn getroffen - den Fotografen. Ob er den beste-Freundin-Check bestanden hat?

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    ExAppeal - Ep 1: Sex and dating (with Dr Justin Garcia)

    ExAppeal - Ep 1: Sex and dating (with Dr Justin Garcia)

    In the first episode of ExAppeal, Jen and Julien discuss when is a good time to start having sex when you date someone. When is it too early? Too soon?

    They also ask their questions to Dr. Justin Garcia, sex therapist specialized in relationship and advisor for Match.com.

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