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    • The Influence of Assholes in the Digital AgeIn the digital age, notorious individuals, despite their negative traits, can have significant influence. It's important to recognize their negative impact and not confuse being offended by their behavior with weakness.

      The impact of social media on culture and the influence of certain individuals, even if they are notorious for being assholes. Sam Harris discussed his appearances on other podcasts where he spoke about people like Andrew Tate and Donald Trump, who, despite their negative traits, have significant influence due to the digital age. Many people seem confused about what it means to call someone an asshole and believe it's a reflection of the accuser's weakness rather than the asshole's behavior. However, Harris argues that being offended by someone's arrogance or bombast doesn't make one weak; it's a natural response to objectionable behavior. The digital world has made it easier for such individuals to spread their influence, and it's crucial to recognize and address their negative impact.

    • Understanding the nature of an assholeAssholes prioritize self-absorption and instrumental love over respect for others, leading to a disregard for human wisdom and personal growth.

      Being an asshole goes beyond just lacking civility or tact. It's about having misplaced priorities and misunderstanding what it means to live a good life. Assholes may appear charming or even successful, but their self-absorption and instrumental love are rooted in a fundamental disregard for others and a lack of wisdom. Despite their flaws, they often attract admirers due to their shamelessness, which many people struggle with. The goal is to recognize our own moral failures and strive to become less of an asshole more of the time through self-examination and the pursuit of human wisdom. The true asshole is the one who doesn't care about this project or the importance of personal growth.

    • Overcoming Shame: Different ApproachesWhile some people try to avoid shame by living morally, others, like 'assholes,' reject moral standards and embrace selfishness. The 'gospel of the asshole' can be harmful, and it's crucial to strive for personal growth and decency.

      Shame can be overcome in different ways. While some people choose to live in a way that minimizes the causes of shame, others, like the "assholes," embrace their selfishness and reject the need for moral improvement. The gospel of the asshole promotes a cynical view of life, where no one is better than anyone else, and everyone is free from judgment. People like Trump, who embodies this philosophy, are impossible to shame because they don't hold themselves to any moral standards. His fans admire him not in spite of his behavior but because of it, as he gives them permission to go on a moral holiday. However, this philosophy of self-worship and rejection of moral improvement can be dangerous and harmful to individuals and society as a whole. It's essential to strive for personal growth and decency, even when faced with the temptation to embrace the "asshole" mentality.

    • The appeal of authentic 'assholes'People find authenticity and freedom in individuals who express hatred towards elites, display casual bigotry, and flaunt scientific ignorance, despite their harmful or offensive behavior.

      The appeal of individuals who express hatred towards elites, display casual bigotry, and flaunt scientific ignorance lies in their perceived authenticity and freedom from hypocrisy. These individuals, often referred to as "assholes," are seen as honest and even noble because they do not hold themselves to any moral standards, allowing them to be true to themselves without fear of judgment or criticism. This malignant self-acceptance can be darkly charismatic, as it grants a sense of comfort and freedom in one's own skin. It's important to note that this perspective is not endorsed, but understanding its appeal can provide insight into the motivations and allure of such individuals. To continue listening to this conversation and access other exclusive content, consider subscribing at samharris.org. The Making Sense podcast is ad-free and relies solely on listener support.

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