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    390 - Harvey Weinstein's Overturned Conviction & TikTok Ban

    en-usApril 27, 2024

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    • TikTok faces potential ban or sale due to national security concernsGovernment may ban or force sale of TikTok due to national security concerns, impacting over 200 million users worldwide and 70 million in the US, amidst growing concerns over mental health effects on young people.

      TikTok faces a ban or forced sale due to national security concerns, with a deadline set for 270 days from the passing of the bill. The app, which has over 200 million users worldwide and 70 million in the US, may already be on the decline as many of its popular users have waned. The potential ban is part of a larger foreign aid package and could be due to concerns over young people receiving information from the app and potential harm to their mental health. The government's investment in the mental health of its citizens is not a priority, and the app's mental health impact on children is a concern for some, as outlined in Jonathan Haidt's book "The Anxious Generation." Despite these concerns, the government's primary focus is not on mental health, but on national security. The app's future remains uncertain, with a potential sale or ban on the horizon.

    • Government disregard for mental health care and privacyThe speaker criticizes the government for underfunding mental health care and disregarding privacy, while prioritizing military spending and foreign spying.

      The speaker expresses a cynical viewpoint towards the government's lack of concern for mental health care and privacy, as well as their perceived disregard for human life in geopolitical conflicts. They believe that mental health issues are underfunded and overlooked, and that the government prioritizes military spending over mental health care. They also express concern over foreign powers, such as China, spying on individuals and the potential consequences of conflicts like the one in Ukraine, which they believe results in the loss of many lives without sufficient consideration for the impact. Overall, the speaker's perspective is one of disillusionment and a belief that the government does not prioritize the well-being of individuals or care about their privacy.

    • Frustration and Despair: A Confused RantThe speaker expresses frustration and confusion towards the world, using extreme language, and believes the US government is suppressing information and controlling access to it. They also express dissatisfaction with their personal life and feelings of hopelessness, as well as controversial views on the Me Too movement.

      The speaker expresses frustration and confusion towards the world, using extreme and offensive language to express their feelings. They also express a belief that the US government is trying to suppress information and control young people's access to it. The conversation then shifts to the speaker's personal life, where they express dissatisfaction with their relationship and feelings of hopelessness. The conversation also touches on the topic of the Me Too movement and its perceived failure, with the speaker expressing a belief that convicted sex offenders like Harvey Weinstein should be allowed to return to work. Despite the offensive language and controversial views expressed, the underlying emotion seems to be one of despair and a longing for understanding and answers to complex and difficult questions.

    • The Success of the #MeToo Movement Raised QuestionsThe overturned convictions of Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby raise concerns about the #MeToo movement's impact and the need for a more nuanced approach to addressing sexual misconduct.

      The conviction of Harvey Weinstein, a man once at the center of the #MeToo movement, being overturned raises questions about the movement's success. The speaker argues that the movement may have failed if its two most prominent figures, Weinstein and Bill Cosby, are still relevant in the entertainment industry. The speaker also criticizes the "witch hunt mentality" of 2020, which allowed people to testify without being a part of the charges, leading to the overturned conviction. Despite the controversy, the speaker suggests that female judges might not be as sympathetic to the victims due to their own experiences and hard work to reach their positions. Ultimately, the speaker calls for a return to the rule of law and a more nuanced approach to addressing sexual misconduct in society.

    • The Complexities and Controversies of the #MeToo MovementThe #MeToo movement highlights the nuanced and often contradictory nature of public opinion, with ongoing debates over justice, forgiveness, and individual rights. Some figures involved, like Judge Jenny Rivera and high-profile women, face criticism for their actions and hypocrisy.

      The discussion touches upon the complexities and controversies surrounding the #MeToo movement, as well as the debate over justice, forgiveness, and individual rights. The speaker expresses disagreement with the leniency shown towards some high-profile women involved in the movement, such as Judge Jenny Rivera, who refused the COVID vaccine and expressed a desire to see Harvey Weinstein released from jail. The speaker also criticizes the hypocrisy of some women in the movement, pointing to the wealth and privilege of figures like Angelina Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow. The conversation also touches upon the cultural differences between Europe and America, specifically regarding late-night eating habits and the proposed ban on late-night food in Milan. Overall, the discussion highlights the nuanced and often contradictory nature of public opinion and the ongoing challenges of navigating issues of justice, forgiveness, and individual rights in a complex and rapidly changing world.

    • European countries worry about late-night food violence in AmericaEurope fears American late-night food chaos could signal larger societal issues, considering laws to prevent physical fights, concerned about freedom's negative effects when combined with poverty, drugs, and social media.

      Italy and other European countries are concerned about the level of violence and chaos in late-night food establishments in America, and they fear this could be a sign of a larger societal issue. They are considering implementing laws to prevent physical fights from breaking out, despite concerns about freedom. This phenomenon is unique to America, and Italy is looking to prevent such incidents before they become a norm in their country. The discussion also touched upon the negative aspects of freedom and how it can lead to harmful behaviors when combined with factors like poverty, drugs, and social media. The speaker expressed a love for Mack Weldon clothes.

    • Embracing Personal Preferences and Living AuthenticallyMack Weldon promotes timeless, comfortable apparel for those seeking confidence and comfort. A trans man's experience at sex parties underscores the importance of preparation, consent, and authentic living.

      Mack Weldon offers timeless, comfortable apparel for those who want to look and feel good without drawing attention to themselves. The brand specializes in modern performance fabrics and understated designs, ensuring confidence and comfort. Meanwhile, a trans man shared his experience of attending multiple sex parties in one night, emphasizing preparation and the importance of consent. The speaker also expressed surprise at encountering such events in public places and wearing masks during them. Ultimately, both Mack Weldon and the trans man's stories highlight the importance of embracing personal preferences and living authentically.

    • The value of intimacy and discretion in sex lifeSocietal pressures and oversharing online can impact the value of privacy and intimacy in sex life for everyone, including trans and non-binary individuals. Maintaining close relationships and valuing quieter, more discreet behavior can lead to fulfilling and meaningful experiences.

      Despite societal pressures and the desire for discretion, being desirable and having a fulfilling sex life is possible for everyone, including trans and non-binary individuals. However, the normalization of sharing every detail online can take away from the intimacy and discretion that some people value. The speaker's experience of multiple sex parties being canceled led her to connect with another attendee and continue the evening privately. The mechanization and oversharing of sexual experiences can be off-putting and take away from the value of secrets and privacy. The speaker reflects on the appeal of quieter, more discreet behavior and the importance of maintaining close relationships rather than broadcasting personal details to a wider audience.

    • The Importance of Personal Boundaries and PrivacyRespecting personal boundaries and privacy leads to meaningful connections and fosters respect for others. Not everything needs to be shared publicly.

      Privacy and personal boundaries are important in today's open and sharing society. The speaker expresses confusion and discomfort with individuals who openly share intimate details of their personal lives, whether it's their sexual encounters or unconventional relationships. She believes that keeping certain things private can lead to more meaningful connections and respect for others. She also questions the need for public attention and validation of such personal matters. Furthermore, she emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and respecting the privacy of others. In a world where information is readily available, it's crucial to remember that not everything needs to be shared with the world. The speaker's perspective encourages a balance between openness and privacy in our personal and social lives.

    • Obsessing over others' private lives is a waste of resourcesInstead of focusing on others' sexual practices, we should respect boundaries, embrace diversity, and attend to our own concerns

      While the world is facing numerous critical issues, there seems to be an excessive focus on an obscure topic about a group of people and their sexual practices, as reported in the paper of record. The speaker argues that this is a waste of resources and attention, especially when compared to the geopolitical crises unfolding in various regions. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of respecting others' boundaries and the diversity of relationships and lifestyles, even if they don't align with one's own perspective. The speaker's stance is that everyone should focus on their own lives and concerns, rather than getting caught up in the details of others' private lives. Ultimately, the speaker finds the article and the topic it covers to be uninteresting and irrelevant to the larger issues at hand.

    • Polyamory and Ethical DilemmasPolyamory raises ethical dilemmas, including jealousy and second chances for those with past allegations, requiring individuals to consider their values and make informed decisions.

      The topic of polyamory and the actions of individuals in these relationships continue to generate controversy and strong emotions, with jealousy being a common issue. Harvey Weinstein's release from jail and potential return to the entertainment industry could spark renewed controversy, as some people may be willing to overlook past allegations in favor of professional opportunities. Despite the ethical complexities, some individuals believe in giving second chances and viewing each situation as an individual case. Ultimately, it's important for individuals to make informed decisions based on all available information and their personal values.

    • Opportunity for a talented individual to shine in a significant movie roleA promising role offers a unique chance for a talented individual to showcase her abilities and make a mark in the industry, despite the challenges faced by women as they age.

      This discussion revolves around an exciting opportunity for a talented individual, who grew up in the South, to take on a meaty and juicy role in an upcoming movie. The role is not the lead, but it's significant and comes with the potential to showcase her unique abilities. The individual is described as being sharp, funny, and passionate about nature. The decision to take on the role is seen as a valuable opportunity to make a mark in the industry, especially for women as they age and navigate the challenges of a cutthroat town. The potential backlash is downplayed, and the focus is on the creative and relationship-building aspects of the project. The individual is encouraged to consider the offer, but ultimately, the decision is hers to make. The conversation is not about influence, but rather about guiding and supporting her in her career journey.

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    Psychotherapist Sam Kendakur talks with host Tammy Kremer about the intersections of sexual health and mental health. Listen in for nuanced conversations about the gray areas and messiness of consent; how to piece apart our own understandings of sexual pleasure, desire, and attraction; the impacts of stigma on sexual and gender identity and those who choose non-monogamous relationship styles. We learn about the unexpected impacts healthcare providers can have on the well-being of folks with marginalized sexual, gender, and racial identities, especially when there are stark differences between the provider and client’s lived experiences.

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    Resources: 

    Sam Kendakur’s website 

    The Best Polyamory, Sex, and Queer Books   

    The Body Keeps the Score 

    Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy

    Higher Education Scholarship Opportunities for LGBTQ+ students on EduMed, Peterson's, GoGrad 

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    Sam Kendakur has worked in the mental health field for the past 12 years in a variety of settings across college campuses, inpatient psychiatric hospitals, alternative peer support networks, clinics, institutes, and currently private clinical practice. He’s invested in creating spaces that make healing accessible and relevant to people from different realms of experience, especially those that inhabit marginalized spaces. The social structure and health care system have failed so many, and he tries to address and combat these shortcomings through a commitment to client-centered anti-oppression practices that honor that suffering is most often nested within inequitable and unjust systems and their consequences rather than individual lack. He specializes in working with the LGBTQIA community, BDSM and kink, race and ethnicity, trauma, and alternative relationship styles. 

    EP 29: ENM RELATIONSHIPS with Guest Alicia Catelli

    EP 29: ENM RELATIONSHIPS with Guest Alicia Catelli

    Today we welcome Alicia Catelli, a long time friend, to discuss ENM and other forms of non-tradicional relationhsips. As a non-traditionalist, Alicia has been able to give her friends objective insight into their relationships which sucessfully remaining single poly. More on polyamory on the next episode. Join me now as we discuss What the heck is ENM?