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    40- Rejection & Exposing the Clit

    enJune 19, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Finding the Perfect Fit and Prioritizing Self-CareEmbrace self-care, prioritize values, and find the perfect fit with David's Bridal, address root causes of hair thinning with Nutriful, and consider online therapy with BetterHelp for personal growth.

      Self-care and prioritizing what's important to us are essential for our overall well-being, whether it's in our personal or professional lives. In the latest episode of Call Her Daddy, the hosts discussed the importance of finding the perfect fit for bridal gowns at David's Bridal and the significance of addressing the root causes of hair thinning with Nutriful supplements. They also emphasized the importance of therapy in helping us define our values and priorities, and making time for what truly fulfills us. The hosts also shared their personal experiences, including Father's Day and an unexpected purchase of emergency contraception. Overall, the episode emphasized the importance of taking care of ourselves and making the most of the time we have. Use code "daddy" for 15% off at David's Bridal and "CHD" for $10 off your first month with Nutriful. If you're considering starting therapy, BetterHelp offers convenient, affordable online therapy that comes to you.

    • Unexpected run-ins with friends can lead to memorable experiencesEmbrace the unexpected and find joy in everyday experiences, even if it involves an embarrassing encounter or a creative sex tip

      Unexpected run-ins with friends, even in less-than-ideal situations, can lead to memorable experiences. The speaker shares an embarrassing story about encountering a friend at a Walgreens while buying Plan B, but the encounter ended up being exciting and fun. The speaker also shares a sex tip, which involves getting off a man and using spit or wetness from your vagina to create friction on his shaft, suggesting the idea of treating a man's penis like a hot dog with your vagina as the bun. The overall message is to embrace the unexpected and find joy in everyday experiences.

    • Master the basics of kissing for effective communication and great sexEffective communication and understanding are crucial in sex. Master the basics of kissing like using the right amount of tongue and mixing things up to please your partner and enhance intimacy.

      Effective communication and understanding are essential in every aspect of life, including sex. The discussion highlights the importance of mastering the basics, such as kissing, before exploring more complex acts. A poor kisser can turn someone off, regardless of their age or appearance. Using the right amount of tongue and opening and closing the lips are crucial elements of a good kiss. The conversation also emphasizes the importance of mixing things up and not sticking to the same routine. In summary, to be great at sex, one must first master the basics and communicate effectively with their partner.

    • First kissing experience storiesBe mindful and considerate during intimate moments, everyone makes mistakes, learn and grow from them.

      Everyone's first kissing experience can be embarrassing and unforgettable. The speaker shared her story of making out on the beach with a boy, who ended up bleeding due to her biting his lip too hard. She was mortified and felt embarrassed when everyone found out. The experience left a lasting impression on her, and she transitioned to a new topic. It's important to remember that everyone's experiences are unique, and making out for the first time can be a nerve-wracking and confusing experience. The speaker's story highlights the importance of being mindful during intimate moments and being considerate of your partner's feelings. It's also a reminder that everyone makes mistakes, and it's how we learn and grow from them.

    • Practicing Making Out in High SchoolMany people practiced making out with friends in high school to improve skills and prepare for romantic relationships.

      Practicing making out with friends in high school was a common experience for many people to improve their skills and prepare for relationships with romantic partners. The speaker shared an embarrassing story about making out with a wall in the shower, but clarified that she had also practiced making out with her friends. She emphasized that this was a normal experience and that many women had done the same thing. The conversation also touched on the importance of feeling confident and looking good, leading to mentions of COSUS makeup and Nutriful hair supplements as sponsors.

    • Learning from RejectionRejection is a natural part of life, but we can learn to handle it by developing mental toughness and not letting it discourage us. Everyone experiences rejection, so keep trying like Steph Curry.

      Rejection is a universal experience, and it's essential to learn how to handle it effectively. Using the analogy of Steph Curry missing a shot and then taking another one, the speaker emphasizes the importance of resilience and not letting rejection define us. He also points out that rejection can be more challenging for women due to societal norms and expectations. The speaker shares a story about an uncle who made his nephews ask girls for their numbers at Disneyland until they got used to rejection. The key takeaway is that rejection is a part of life, and we can learn to handle it by developing mental toughness and not letting it discourage us. If you're interested in growing your online business, consider trying out Shopify with its affordable $1 per month trial period. And remember, everyone experiences rejection, so don't let it get you down. Instead, take a page from Steph Curry's book and keep trying.

    • Embracing rejection for personal growthDon't fear rejection, it's temporary and builds resilience. Keep trying and maintain perspective.

      Rejection is a part of life and an essential experience for personal growth. People, especially men, should not be afraid to put themselves out there and shoot their shot, even if they feel the person is out of their league. Rejection may be uncomfortable, but it's temporary and doesn't define one's worth. The speaker shared an anecdote about a cultural practice where kids were encouraged to approach and seduce uncles as a rite of passage. While this may not be appropriate or desirable in modern society, the underlying message remains: facing rejection and continuing to try builds resilience and determination. Additionally, people often place undue emphasis on rejection from strangers while disregarding rejection from those closer to them. It's crucial to maintain perspective and understand that rejection is a normal part of life and not a reason for despair.

    • Using Rejection as MotivationFocus on self-improvement and confidence after rejection to turn the situation around. Remember everyone experiences it and believe in your worth.

      Rejection can be a challenging experience, but focusing on self-improvement and confidence can help turn the situation around. The speaker shares her personal experience of using rejection as motivation to look and feel her best, and feeling a sense of excitement and power in response. She encourages listeners to remember that everyone experiences rejection and that it's important to believe in one's own worth. Additionally, the topic of faking orgasms is discussed, with the speakers sharing their experience of challenging a friend's belief that women cannot get away with it. The conversation highlights the importance of communication and understanding in sexual relationships.

    • Discussing the common occurrence of faking orgasmsBoth genders fake orgasms, communication and honesty are essential for satisfying sexual experiences.

      Both men and women have engaged in faking orgasms at some point in their sexual experiences. The speaker encourages openness about this common occurrence and offers advice for men to check for signs of authenticity after sex, such as sensitivity and reaction. For women, the speaker suggests acting sensitive when a partner attempts to touch or play with the clit after sex to prevent being discovered. However, it's important to note that faking orgasms can create misunderstandings and potentially harm trust in relationships. Honesty and communication are key to ensuring satisfying sexual experiences for both partners.

    • Understanding Faking Orgasms and Pleasing Each OtherEffective communication, genuine pleasure, and effort to please can lead to satisfying sexual experiences for both partners.

      Communication and pleasure are key in sexual experiences. It's important for both partners to understand that faking orgasms doesn't necessarily mean the sex was bad, and men should not judge the quality of sex based solely on whether their partner came or not. On the other hand, some men may not put enough effort into pleasing their partners, leading to unsatisfying experiences. The "pirate ship" sex move, involving slow hip movements and leaning forward while riding, can be a pleasurable position for women. Ultimately, open communication, understanding, and a willingness to please each other can lead to more enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences.

    • Communication and control enhance sexual experiencesSlow down, use filthy talk, focus on hip movements, maintain open communication, and have separate social media accounts for an enhanced sexual experience.

      Communication and control are key elements in enhancing sexual experiences for both partners. The speaker emphasizes the importance of slowing down and using filthy talk during sex, specifically in the "pirate ship" position. This approach can help intensify the experience for the male partner, who may have a hard time lasting long when faced with vocal and enthusiastic female participation. The speaker also suggests focusing on hip movements and grinding to create an amazing feeling for both parties. Additionally, maintaining open communication and being vocal during sex can make a significant difference in the overall experience. While some may find it uncomfortable or suspicious, having separate social media accounts and maintaining privacy can contribute to a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.

    • Social media signals and self-expression in relationshipsAuthenticity and self-expression are crucial in relationships, prioritize them over societal expectations or external validation.

      Social media platforms like Snapchat can sometimes send the wrong message about a person's intentions or values. A man having his Snapchat in his bio, for instance, could be a sign of immaturity or a disregard for commitment, making it a turnoff for potential partners. Similarly, a woman's choice of underwear or swimsuit should not be dictated by societal expectations or men's preferences, but rather by her own comfort and confidence. The most important thing is to prioritize authenticity and self-expression in relationships. Additionally, communication is key when it comes to addressing any insecurities or preferences with your partner. Lastly, embracing imperfections and being true to oneself, as exemplified by recording a podcast in an authentic environment, can lead to stronger connections and a more genuine experience.

    • Discussing comfort, preferences, and communication in fashion and relationshipsBe true to yourself and wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident. Use descriptive language and open communication to enhance intimacy and sexual desire in relationships.

      While some people may have strong opinions about what others wear, ultimately, people should wear what makes them feel comfortable and confident. However, it was also discussed that certain styles, such as one-piece swimsuits or revealing underwear photos, may not be everyone's preference. The conversation also touched on the topic of communication in relationships, specifically when it comes to intimacy and sexual desire. It was suggested that using descriptive language and being open about desires can help enhance the experience for both parties. Additionally, it was mentioned that people may express themselves differently, and what may seem unusual to some may be normal to others. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of self-expression, communication, and understanding in various aspects of life.

    • Embracing authenticity leads to unexpected opportunitiesBeing true to oneself, even in unconventional roles or situations, can lead to unexpected connections and opportunities.

      Having authenticity and being true to oneself, even if it means balancing multiple roles or unconventional endeavors, can lead to unexpected opportunities and connections. The speaker, Sophia, shares her experience of working in corporate America while also hosting a podcast about sex and relationships, and how wearing merchandise related to her podcast led to unexpected interactions and conversations. She emphasizes the importance of being open and authentic, even if it means potentially uncomfortable situations or conversations. This approach ultimately led to success and positive experiences for her.

    • Hosts express gratitude and encourage positive feedbackListeners are invited to engage with the hosts through reviews and social media, with a discount offer from David's Bridal for a perfect fit.

      The hosts of Call Her Daddy, Alexandra Cooper and Sophia Franklin, express their gratitude to their listeners and encourage positive feedback. They also promote their sponsor, David's Bridal, and its focus on providing well-fitting gowns for various occasions. The hosts' energetic and playful banter adds to the show's appeal. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the hosts by leaving reviews and following them on Instagram. The episode is presented by David's Bridal, offering a discount code for listeners to enjoy a five-star fit for their purchases during March.

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