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    400 7 Mother Types + Emotional Impact

    enMay 03, 2022

    About this Episode

    Do you ever wonder if your relationship with your mother (or maternal impactor) is “normal”? Are you curious about how it has affected you as an adult? 

    Mother-daughter relationships can be complicated and in this episode, I’m breaking down the 7 types of dynamics I’ve seen the most in my 25 years as a psychotherapist, plus the lasting impact each type has on emotions and behaviors in adulthood.

    Find the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/400

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