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    5 legal tips to help limit the freak out moments during your divorce proceedings

    enFebruary 09, 2022

    About this Episode

    Are you freaking out about your divorce proceedings? At some point during everyone’s divorce there may be a moment of panic or a feeling of hopelessness. This is the episode to listen to if you are worried. Let Lyn, a family law specialist of over 35 years experience explain the legal things she explains to her clients to calm them down when they are panicking. And some great tips you can use to eliminate more worry later down the track. Divorce and court isn’t as scary as you think it is. We’ve got your back. Press play and feel better today.

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    You Don’t Want to Miss Out On

    • Five points to remember when freaking out in divorce proceedings
    • Your ex isn’t special, the family court has seen it all before
    • Why keeping notes of your divorce proceedings can help calm you in a moments of panic of your divorce
    • What happens if mediation fails?
    • How long it takes from initial application to final trial
    • What are the new family court directives
    • How to stop your ex from freaking you out.
    • How to be proactive in your divorce proceedings instead of reactive.
    • How to make plans before you ask for a response to something so you don’t have to worry about what their response will be, if any.
    • How to speed up your divorce process.
    • Consequences and how to use them to help progress the matter forward.
    • Drafting letters as your next response as a way to calm yourself
    • Why setting your own divorce goals are important
    • Why creating a action plan of steps needed is important
    • Why you need a plan a, plan b and plan c to eliminate the panic
    • How not to let the new year make you upset about your divorce.
    • Divorce songs and how they can help you get the confidence to face the legal stuff.
    • Why do you need to focus forward and live your life during the divorce process?
    • How what you focus on can affect how you cope with your divorce process.
    • How to reclaim your power after separation.
    • You don’t need your ex to do a thing to get your divorce finalised
    • Why threats don’t always end up in reality
    • Why getting a psychologist can really help your mental health during your divorce proceedings.

     

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    Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different. 

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    Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

     

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    Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.

     

    Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

     

    Questions not to miss...

    1. How does mindset play a crucial role when dealing with a narcissist during divorce?

    2. What are some common challenges faced by individuals divorcing narcissists or those with narcissistic traits?

    3. How can a person shift their mindset to empower themselves during and after divorce from a narcissist?

    4. What role does radical acceptance play in changing one's mindset when divorcing a narcissist?

    5. Have you observed differences in the mediation process between individuals who have shifted their focus and those still stuck in old patterns?

    6. What strategies can be employed to gradually extract oneself from the psychological control of a narcissist?

    7. How does the concept of "baby steps" contribute to the process of changing mindset and establishing boundaries?

    8. In what ways do narcissists escalate their behavior when they sense a loss of control, especially during divorce proceedings?

    9. How can individuals protect their energy and mental well-being when they are required to interact with a narcissistic ex during divorce-related tasks?

    10. What practical steps can be taken to minimize the impact of negative communication, such as setting up email rules and avoiding unnecessary text messages?

    11. In the context of legal abuse, how can individuals protect themselves and maintain their power during divorce proceedings?

    12. How does the legal system and court processes contribute to the challenges of dealing with a narcissist in divorce?

    13. How can individuals anticipate and prepare for the tactics of a narcissist in legal proceedings?

    14. Can you share insights on dealing with word salad communication, such as long and confusing messages or letters?

    15. What advice do you have for handling legal abuse by a narcissist and remaining empowered during court proceedings?

    16. How can individuals cope with the emotional challenges of facing legal abuse and ongoing coercive control?

    17. What are some common patterns of abuse exhibited by narcissists, and how can individuals become aware of these patterns?

    18. How can individuals protect themselves from falling into the same negative patterns when entering new relationships after leaving a narcissistic one?

    19. In the fast-paced family court environment, what advice do you have for individuals to take the time they need and make informed decisions?

    20. How can single parents, especially those who have left a narcissistic relationship, manage the overwhelming demands of parenting and legal processes simultaneously?

    21. What valuable lessons have you learned from your experience in helping individuals navigate divorce and separation from narcissistic partners?

    22. Can you share some final words of wisdom or key takeaways for listeners dealing with narcissists in divorce?

     

     

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    Gain invaluable insights into the crucial factors that can sway your property split percentage. This episode is your overview look for those going through the process at the intricate landscape of property settlement. The Family Law Act 1975 - Section 75 is the cornerstone of this discussion, unravelling the complexities and helping to provide clarity on the considerations that shape your financial future post-divorce.

    Perfect for anyone navigating the nuances of property division in their divorce or defacto separation, this episode and additional podcast episodes are your go-to guide that can go hand in hand with your own lawyer to comprehend property settlement. Listen now to embark on the journey of informed decisions and financial empowerment!

    Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and insights. Each individual's situation is unique, and listeners are encouraged to seek legal advice tailored to their specific circumstances. The content herein should not be relied upon as legal advice.

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    1. What are the future needs that should be considered in determining the percentage of the property split in divorce?

    2. How does age and state of health play a role in determining future needs and affecting the property pool percentage?

    3. Does the court consider mental health issues, such as post-traumatic stress disorder, in relation to future needs?

    4. What factors contribute to the disparity of income, earning capacity, property, and financial resources between parties?

    5. How does having the care of a child impact the property division in divorce?

    6. Is there a financial advantage to having 50/50 care of the children, and does it affect the property pool?

    7. How does the court adjust the property pool based on each party's commitments and expenses for self-support or child support?

    8. What responsibility does each party have to support another person, particularly an adult child with a disability?

    9. How does the court consider a party's eligibility for a pension or benefit in the property division?

    10. Who determines what constitutes a "reasonable standard of living," and how does it influence property pool adjustments in divorce?

    11. Is it common for financial agreements to overlook spousal maintenance?

    12. How does the court adjust property division based on various factors, such as child custody, income, and health?

    13. What considerations are made when tweaking percentages in property division based on future needs?

    14. In practical terms, how realistic is it to consider all these factors in property settlement?

    15. How does the court handle cases where both parties are of the same age, same health, with equal custody and property split?

    16. Is there ever a dismissal of factors in property division, and what conditions lead to such dismissals?

    17. How do parties defend themselves against fabricated claims to secure a larger property pool percentage?

    18. Is it worth going to trial for minor percentage adjustments in the property division, considering the associated costs?

    19. How often do people agree on adjustments without going to court, especially when the differences are minimal?

    20. When dealing with child custody and property division simultaneously, how does uncertainty about future custody arrangements affect the process?

    21. In cases where custody is undecided, do people prioritize settling property matters first?

    22. How do lawyers balance property settlement and children's matters, considering the emotional involvement in child-related issues?

    23. Is there a noticeable difference in stress levels between property settlement and children's matters for family lawyers?

    24. How do you handle cases where one party may be making up information to secure a larger property percentage?

    25. What role does detailed proof play in defending against fabricated claims during property settlement?

    26. Considering the potential financial impact, how do lawyers advise clients on settling versus going to court for minor adjustments?

    27. How does the financial value of the overall property pool impact the decision-making process in property division?

    28. How do adjustments in property percentages translate into real dollars, and do people fully grasp the financial implications?

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    Overcoming The Sleep Struggle During Divorce

    Overcoming The Sleep Struggle During Divorce

    Are you finding yourself staring at the ceiling, gripped by divorce-related stress and anxiety, unable to fall asleep at 2 am? Is your mediation or family court event looming, and your lawyer has said to make sure you get a good sleep? Ever wondered how lack of sleep amplifies the toll on your decision-making abilities during these challenging times? If these questions resonate, then this episode is for you.

    Join us as we navigate the intricate connection between sleep and divorce stress with the brilliant Shea Morrison, a seasoned sleep coach. Uncover practical strategies, bedtime rituals, and the profound influence of light on your sleep patterns, tailored to alleviate the specific stresses of divorce.

    Listen in for a podcast that not only addresses the challenges of divorce-related sleep amidst heightened stress and anxiety but sets you on a path to tranquil nights, empowering you to make sound decisions for your brighter future. 🎧💤

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    The Divorce Sleep Struggle: What are the three crucial areas where sleep struggles emerge during divorce, and how can you address them?

    Nightly Routine Hacks: Discover simple yet powerful steps to enhance your bedtime routine and ease into a restful night's sleep during this challenging life transition.

    Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleep: Explore effective techniques to relax before bedtime, helping you achieve the quality sleep you need during divorce.

    The Light-Sleep Connection: Understand the profound influence of light, especially blue light, on your sleep patterns and why managing it is crucial during divorce.

    Melatonin's Role in Sleep Amid Divorce: Delve into the science behind melatonin and its significance in managing your sleep-wake cycle during the divorce process.

    Morning Sunlight Rituals: Uncover the benefits of getting natural sunlight in the morning, a powerful tool for boosting your mood and promoting better sleep during divorce.

    Evening Light and Sleep Quality: Learn how evening light exposure impacts the release of melatonin and discover strategies to improve your ability to feel sleepy when needed.

    Creating a Sleep Haven: Explore practical tips for crafting a sleep-friendly environment that supports your well-being, especially in the midst of a divorce.

    Navigating Nighttime Anxiety: Gain valuable advice on handling stress-triggered wake-ups and discover the importance of feeling safe in managing sleep disruptions during separation or divorce.

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