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    52- College Life: Being Hot vs. Not

    enSeptember 11, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Finding the Perfect Fit in Life's AspectsDiscover confidence and comfort with David's Bridal, enhance natural beauty with COSIS, grow businesses with Shopify, and explore new fragrances with Scentbird.

      This episode of Call Her Daddy, sponsored by David's Bridal, COSIS, Shopify, and Scentbird, emphasizes the importance of finding the best fit for various aspects of life, from bridal gowns to makeup and even fragrances. Alex and Sophia shared their personal experiences with these products and the positive impact they've had. David's Bridal offers perfectly fitting gowns and dresses, ensuring confidence and comfort on special occasions. COSIS's makeup and skin care products provide a natural look while addressing concerns like dark circles and blemishes. Shopify, a global commerce platform, helps businesses grow by turning browsers into buyers. Lastly, Scentbird, a luxury fragrance subscription service, allows individuals to try and receive new colognes and perfumes each month. Throughout the episode, the hosts also touched on their past struggles with Instagram and their current shadowban, which makes it difficult for new listeners to find their podcast. They encouraged their audience to continue supporting them and to use the provided discount codes to try the recommended products.

    • Wearing unique identifier helps build friendships in collegeEmbracing uniqueness and understanding campus culture can lead to valuable friendships in college

      Making connections in college can be challenging, but having a unique identifier like wearing "daddy merchandise" can help break the ice and build friendships. The dynamic of each college campus varies, and understanding the social scene can help determine who to befriend. For instance, at a campus where athletes dominate, befriending an athlete could be beneficial. Greek life may also hold significant influence at some schools. Being part of a niche group, like "daddy gang," can create a sense of exclusivity and belonging. Ultimately, college is a time for growth and learning, and embracing new experiences and opportunities can lead to valuable connections.

    • Navigating social circles and reputation in collegeUnderstand social dynamics and adapt to fit in and maintain a desirable reputation in college

      In college, it's essential to find a social circle where you fit in and align with people's interests. Regarding reputation, if you're a woman, especially if you're considered attractive, be strategic about your sexual encounters during the first semester to maintain a desirable reputation. If you're not as attractive, being open to sexual encounters can help you fit in and be more socially accepted. The importance of reputation and the school's environment should also be considered when choosing a college. Overall, the advice given may be controversial, but it emphasizes the importance of understanding social dynamics and adapting to them to succeed in college.

    • Social attractiveness varies in different contextsBe self-aware and adapt to social situations to increase desirability and opportunities for growth

      People should understand the importance of fitting in and finding their place in different social environments. The speaker in this conversation emphasizes that one's attractiveness or desirability can vary depending on the specific social context. For instance, someone who may be considered average or below average in one environment could be highly desirable in another. Therefore, it's crucial to be self-aware and adapt to different social situations. Additionally, having attractive friends can increase one's chances of being included in desirable social circles and events. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of being aware of social dynamics and utilizing one's resources to maximize opportunities for personal growth and enjoyment.

    • Asking innocent questions in class to start a connectionApproach potential connections in class by asking seemingly innocent questions about the professor to spark conversation, allowing for a private and unassuming setting

      Approaching someone in a non-assuming way during class time can be an effective method for starting a connection. Milp Hunter suggested asking a seemingly innocent question about the professor to spark conversation. If the person expresses interest, the conversation can naturally progress. This approach is advantageous because it allows for a private and unassuming setting, reducing the pressure and assumptions that may come with party environments. Additionally, the shared class experience provides a common ground for further interaction. Regarding roommates and hooking up, it's generally recommended for both parties to go to the other person's place for privacy and comfort. While there are concerns about roommate disruptions, the benefits of a private setting often outweigh the potential inconvenience.

    • Setting Boundaries with Roommates and HookupsCommunicate with roommates about hookups, establish rules, act normal, focus on growth, and move on if ghosted.

      College can be a challenging social environment when it comes to hookups and dealing with the aftermath. It's important to communicate with your roommate about boundaries and establish rules. Also, if you hook up with someone on campus, don't let it consume your thoughts. Act normal and avoid acknowledging it publicly. Remember, everyone is overthinking it and it's likely that the other person is not giving it a second thought. Lastly, if someone ghosts you after a hookup, don't dwell on it. Move on and focus on your own experiences and growth during college.

    • Focus on personal growth during collegeMake the most of college by focusing on personal growth and enjoying the freedom of being single, rather than rushing into relationships and avoiding burnout.

      During college, it's important to focus on personal growth and enjoy being single rather than trying to commit to a long-distance relationship. The speaker advises against rushing into relationships during the first years of college and instead encourages observing and playing the long game. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of taking things slow in the beginning and avoiding burnout. College is a time for exploration and fun, and it's essential to make the most of it. The speaker also shares their experience of handling a situation with confidence and advises against being clingy or needy towards someone. Overall, the key takeaway is to make the most of college, focus on personal growth, and enjoy the freedom of being single.

    • Navigating the Unexpected in CollegeStay observant, selective, and cautious during college. Don't compare or feel pressured, make the most of unique experiences while staying true to yourself.

      College can be a challenging and unexpected experience for everyone. While some may enjoy Greek life or athletics, others may find it overwhelming or even harmful. It's important to be observant, selective, and cautious during this time, and not compare yourself to others or feel pressured to live up to certain expectations. College can bring unexpected experiences, both positive and negative, and it's essential to take it all in stride and make the most of it while staying true to yourself. Whether it's partying too hard, dealing with hazing, or missing out on events due to commitments, everyone's college experience is unique and relative to their individual circumstances.

    • Personalized clothing delivery serviceStitch Fix is an online platform that offers personalized clothing deliveries, helping men expand their wardrobe and potentially reconnect with someone through increased social media engagement.

      Stitch Fix is an online personal styling service that delivers clothing, shoes, and accessories directly to customers, acting as a helpful alternative for those who don't have a girlfriend or don't know how to dress. The service offers a range of brands and exclusive styles, and customers can choose between automatic shipments or ordering new pieces on demand. Shipping, exchanges, and returns are free, and the $20 styling fee is applied towards anything kept from the box. The speaker shares a humorous perspective on being blocked by someone on social media and advises men to be more active on their pages if they've been blocked to potentially get the person's attention back. Conversely, the speaker notes that women tend to be more invested in monitoring their partners' activities when they've been blocked. Overall, Stitch Fix can help men enhance their wardrobe and potentially win back someone's attention through increased social media presence.

    • Reviving Past ConnectionsPersistently reconnecting in person or creatively can help revive past connections. Women can leverage friendships to gain access. Improve sex skills during college for better relationships.

      If you've been ghosted by someone and want to reconnect, consider running into them in person or using creative methods like leaving voicemails from a blocked number. Additionally, the speaker suggests that women can use their friendships to gain access to the person they're interested in. The conversation also touched on the topic of sex and the importance of improving one's skills in this area, especially during college when people are experimenting and may not be experienced. The overall message is that persistence and creativity can help you get back in someone's life or improve your relationships.

    • Stand out in college with effective sexual techniquesConfidently using techniques like the hamstring grab, making noise, and spitting can enhance the sexual experience for both partners and leave a strong impression.

      Confidently performing certain sexual techniques can help a woman stand out in college and leave a strong impression on a partner. The "hamstring grab" move, which involves grabbing a man's legs and pushing his dick deep into your throat, can be particularly effective in giving him a sense of control while also allowing the woman to control the pace. Additionally, making noise and spitting during the act can enhance the experience for both parties. It's important for a woman to be confident and enthusiastic during sex to make her partner feel desired and increase the overall satisfaction of the experience.

    • Discussing uncomfortable relationship behaviors and practical tipsRespect personal boundaries, maintain healthy family relationships, and consider using a reliable setting spray for makeup during intimate moments

      Unconventional behaviors in relationships can make individuals feel uncomfortable and raise concerns. During a podcast discussion, the hosts addressed a listener's question about a boyfriend's excessive PDA with his mother. The hosts agreed that it was an uncomfortable situation and potentially inappropriate, emphasizing the importance of respecting personal boundaries and maintaining healthy relationships with family members. Another topic touched upon was a listener's issue with her partner coming on her face during sex and her makeup staying intact thanks to Urban Decay All-Nighter. The hosts suggested that having a reliable setting spray can be a game-changer for those who enjoy wearing makeup during intimate moments. The episode also featured a promotion for Kosis makeup and skin care, which the hosts praised for its natural look and dermatologist-tested safety. Overall, the episode provided valuable insights and practical advice on various relationship and lifestyle topics.

    • Using psychological tactics to create insecurity and jealousyTexting multiple men before introducing the phone and using excuses to leave the house are tactics used to create insecurity and jealousy in a partner, potentially leading to deeper conversations but also risking hurt and mistrust if discovered.

      Using psychological tactics can help create insecurity and jealousy in a partner during a relationship. One such tactic discussed was texting multiple men before introducing the phone to the current partner, causing them to question the relationship and potentially leading to deeper conversations. Another tactic mentioned was using excuses to leave the house for seemingly innocent reasons, but in reality, to engage in infidelity. These tactics can be effective in keeping a partner on their toes and potentially addressing underlying relationship issues. However, it's essential to remember that honesty and trust are crucial in any relationship, and these tactics can lead to hurt and mistrust if discovered.

    • Effective communication and respect for individuality in relationshipsClear communication and respecting personal space are crucial for strong, healthy relationships. Avoid misunderstandings by clarifying ambiguous statements and be mindful of potential implications of actions or choices.

      Honesty and clear communication are essential in relationships. However, the way information is presented can significantly impact how it is received. Misunderstandings and misinterpretations can lead to hurt feelings and mistrust. It's crucial to be aware of the potential for miscommunication and take steps to clarify any ambiguous statements. Additionally, people may have private hobbies or interests they value highly and want to keep separate from their partners. It's essential to respect each other's independence and personal space. Lastly, Halloween costumes can be a fun and creative way to express yourself, but it's important to consider the potential implications of revealing outfits. Overall, effective communication, respect for individuality, and mindful choices can lead to stronger, healthier relationships.

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