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    7 Ways to Get Through Tough Days, Weeks & Months In Love & Relationships

    enAugust 13, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Planning getaways and prioritizing wellnessMeticulously plan adventures using booking.com, prioritize digestive health with slippery elm bark and ginger root, embrace individuality in relationships, and listen to the On Purpose podcast for personal growth.

      Planning unforgettable getaways and prioritizing wellness go hand in hand. The speaker shares his experience of meticulously planning adventures with his wife using booking.com for accommodations, emphasizing the platform's wide range of options that cater to various preferences. Additionally, he highlights the importance of herbs, specifically slippery elm bark and ginger root, in promoting digestive health. Furthermore, the speaker encourages embracing individuality in relationships instead of trying to change loved ones into our own image. Lastly, he expresses his gratitude for the impact of the On Purpose podcast on listeners' lives and personal growth.

    • View your partner as a friend during tough timesApproach relationship challenges with empathy and understanding, focusing on your responsibility and working together for solutions, strengthens bond and personal growth

      Successful relationships go through tough times and require effort to navigate those challenges. It's a common misconception that successful relationships are free of conflicts or difficult periods. Instead, they are built on how partners respond to and learn from these experiences. The first principle for dealing with tough times in relationships is to view your partner as a friend. Just as you would support and encourage a friend going through a difficult patch in their relationship, you should approach your own relationship challenges with empathy and understanding. By focusing on your responsibility in the relationship and working together to find solutions, you can strengthen your bond and grow as individuals. Remember, successful relationships are about the journey, not just the good times.

    • Observing your relationship from an outsider's perspectivePracticing mindfulness in relationships can bring clarity and wisdom, allowing you to recognize your role and take the right steps forward. Remember that both parties have non-negotiables and things open for discussion, and considering your partner as a friend can help maintain perspective.

      Treating your relationship as if you're observing it from an outsider's perspective can bring wisdom and clarity. This technique, often used in mindfulness, allows you to recognize your role in the situation and take the right steps forward. Additionally, regarding challenging times in a loving relationship, it's essential to remember that both parties have non-negotiables and things open for discussion. Thinking of your partner as a friend can help maintain perspective and foster a healthy resolution. This approach can lead to a renewed appreciation and connection in the relationship.

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      It's essential to identify and understand our non-negotiables in relationships and in life. These are the deal-breakers, the values and principles that are non-negotiable for us. Everything else can be navigated and figured out. By knowing our non-negotiables, we can avoid unnecessary arguments and conflicts, and maintain healthy relationships. Additionally, being prepared and planning ahead can help us save money and enjoy the summer season without breaking the bank. IKEA offers affordable outdoor furniture and accessories, making it possible for everyone to create their dream summer escape at home. Lastly, listening to our gut instincts is important, but sometimes we may need additional support. Ritual's Synbiotic Plus supplement can help support gut health and provide relief from bloating, gas, and diarrhea, allowing us to make the best decisions for ourselves.

    • Reflecting on Relationships: Self-Reflection and CommunicationReflect on relationships, identify strengths and weaknesses, avoid amplifying small issues, focus on self-reflection and communication to build strong partnerships, don't let temporary feelings dictate lifelong decisions, CVS Health offers comprehensive healthcare services, Synbiotic Plus and Ritual provide discounts for health improvement.

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    • Avoid amplifying situations or responding out of insecurity and egoListen attentively and respond with empathy and understanding to build a stronger, more meaningful relationship

      During interactions with our partners, it's essential to avoid amplifying situations or responding out of insecurity and ego. Instead, when someone expresses their feelings or challenges, we should listen attentively and respond with empathy and understanding. Amplifying their issues or making it about ourselves can create confusion and hinder the connection we seek. For instance, if our partner shares a difficult day, it's not helpful to respond with our own struggles or make it a competition. Instead, we should validate their feelings and offer support. By focusing on understanding and responding to our partner's needs, we can build a stronger, more meaningful relationship. In summary, practicing active listening and avoiding ego-driven responses can lead to more effective communication and a deeper connection with our partners.

    • Understanding and responding to your partner's unique needsFocus on building a deeper connection by understanding, compassion, and patience, rather than trying to change or expecting your partner to react and respond like you.

      Effective communication in a relationship requires understanding and responding based on your partner's unique needs and temperament, rather than reacting out of your own insecurities or expecting them to be like you. This means being patient, empathetic, and willing to learn about your partner's way of dealing with challenging situations, while also recognizing and respecting the differences between you. Remember, everyone processes emotions and situations differently, just like everyone has different temperature preferences. So instead of trying to change your partner or expecting them to react and respond like you, focus on building a deeper connection through understanding, compassion, and patience. This approach not only strengthens the relationship but also allows both partners to grow and learn from each other.

    • Appreciating each other's differencesInstead of trying to change our partners, we should amplify their good qualities during tough times to encourage positive reinforcement and maintain open communication.

      Trying to change your partner into a version of yourself can be detrimental to a relationship. Radi and the speaker have different strengths and weaknesses, with Radi appreciating the speaker's organization and drive, while desiring more spontaneity herself. However, when the speaker tried to make Radi more organized and the reverse, they both lost the qualities that initially attracted them to each other. Principle number 6 suggests amplifying your partner's good qualities during difficult times instead of criticizing their mistakes. This approach can lead to positive reinforcement and encourage your partner to repeat their strengths. Lastly, the speakers encourage having regular check-ins with each other to maintain open communication and address any potential issues before they escalate.

    • Open conversations for personal growth and relationshipsPlan unforgettable experiences with Booking.com, prioritize mental health, and have access to support through CVS Health and BetterHelp

      Having open conversations, even if they're difficult, is important for personal growth and relationships. The speaker shares his experience of meticulously planning travels with his wife using Booking.com, emphasizing the platform's wide range of options and ease of use. Another key takeaway is the importance of prioritizing mental health and having access to support, as discussed in relation to CVS Health's various wellness offerings and BetterHelp's online therapy services. Overall, the episode encourages listeners to have meaningful conversations, plan unforgettable experiences, and prioritize their mental wellbeing.

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    When you feel like you’re missing your own life, it can feel stressful, overwhelming and plain ol’ not good! Since it’s our mission at Soulfull Wellness to feel well, it’s important that we take time to evaluate how much joy we’re experiencing. Yes, joy, awe, and wonder are, believe it or not, just as important as eating right and getting quality sleep. I’m sure we don’t need to remind you that stress is the number one cause of all illness and disease. Which is why today we’re going to talk about cultivating joy, by changing your environment. 

    When you change your environment, such as surrounding yourself with different people, your thoughts and emotions change for the better. Sometimes, we just need to shake things up just a bit, in order to let go of stress, and move into the present moment.

    In This Episode:

    • Kit shares her pros, cons, and wellness lessons learned from taking a week off and vactioning with family
    • Kaelynn talks about the healthy side effects of taking a break from adulting once and a while

     

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    E37: A Different State of Mind with Katie Scoggins

    E37: A Different State of Mind with Katie Scoggins

    It's so important to feel our shit. But Katie Scoggins had no idea HOW important until multiple car accidents gave her two concussions and a permanently altered brain. We're talking about how hard it is to let go of our "always in control" mentality and why we need to break down our resistance to difficult, raw, and unexpected emotions. Also this week, I'm doing my most swear-word-filled top of the show yet, called "I'm an Asshole; You're an Asshole: Forming Proper Apologies in Grief."

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    The Holiday Episode

    The Holiday Episode

    This week, The Therapy Crouch is streaming live and direct from sunny Portugal where Pete and Abbey are away with the kids.


    Abbey and Pete reminisce some of their most memorable moments from being on holiday over the years, including fights with paparazzi, near death experiences and going undercover in Barcelona.


    Agony Ab is also back with a bang - with Abbey giving fashion tips on what to wear to a kinky rave and how to pass gas discretely when you’re in a new relationship.


    All of this, only on The Therapy Crouch!



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    Experiencing Cold-Weather Malaise? Here's Your Winter Survival Guide

    Experiencing Cold-Weather Malaise? Here's Your Winter Survival Guide

    We’re about to enter the post-holiday slump that comes when vacation ends, the days are cold, daylight is short, and so many of us are just waiting for spring to eventually arrive. So this week we’re talking about winter doldrums and sharing some ideas about how you can prevent experiencing cold-weather malaise. Feels like we’re in a holding period as we await “spring”, the light at the end of the winter tunnel. But right now it’s too far away, just a glimmer. What to do? Create little lights for yourself along the way to get yourself through.

     

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