78. Being Angry On Purpose: Emunah on the Ground, With Sarit Shear

Episode Guests: M. Gary Neuman, Esther Neuman

Gary is one of the best psychotherapists in the world... I've been doing this a long time. He is the best." -Oprah Winfrey

"When I was a kid, I used to have this fantasy that I had a board of advisors who used to give me life advice. Gary would be on my board." -Anderson Cooper

M. Gary Neuman is a psychotherapist, rabbi, and New York Times best-selling author  of seven books on the topics of marriage and divorce. There are over one million copies of Gary's books in print. He is creator of Neuman Method's Creating Your Best Marriage video program. He has appeared over 50 times on the Today show, a dozen times on the Oprah Winfrey show as well as on NBC Dateline, the Katie Couric show, Steve Harvey, Good Morning America and the View.  Gary and his work have been featured in People, Time, Parents, Parenting, Cosmo, Redbook, O as well as in newspapers including Chicago Tribune, Los Angeles Times, Miami Herald, and Wall Street Journal. Gary cohosts Better and Better Psychology, a Live Call In podcast with his psychotherapist daughter Esther Neuman, discussing all things psychological. He lives with his wife and children on Miami Beach, Florida. Esther Neuman is the Co-creator of NeumanMethod.com  Creating Your Best Marriage Program and Co-host of Better and Better Psychology, a Live Call In podcast. She is a psychotherapist in Miami where she maintains a private practice helping  marriages and families. She is a well known author and speaker, with two of her new books to be published this year on parenting and pregnancy. Her work has been featured in Parents Magazine, Huffington Post, Jewish Press, and was the psychological consultant for Apple TV’s children’s show, Amber Brown, by Emmy nominated writer and director Bonnie Hunt.

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This episode is in honor of Keren Hachemesh.
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On the 22nd of Shevat in 1988 the wife of the Lubavitcher Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka passed away

That afternoon after her funeral the Rebbe established a charitable foundation naming it Keren Hachomesh after the acronym being after his late wife harabanit Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka schneerson .
With the madate of supporting causes that enhance educational and social opportunities for women, girls and brides in need of financial assistance , as well as assisting in the building of women Mikvahs.
Annually on her Yartzheit (the day of her passing) the Rebbe would encourage donations in the amount of 470 (the numerical value of her name)

This past year alone Keren Hachomesh has helped hundreds of individuals including single mothers and their dependents . After school programs for girls and countless organizations whose mandates enhance the quality of life and opportunity for Jewish women as well as grants in the construction of women’s mikvahs around the world .

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Episode Guests: Rabbi Sholom Ber and Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar Not so long ago Bal Harbour, FL was marked by discriminatory practices that prohibited Jews from owning property.  The metamorphosis that has taken place under the visionary leadership of Rabbi Sholom and Chani Lipskar is nothing short of remarkable. Now a flourishing Jewish community, the story of Bal Harbour is inspiring and miraculous. 

Rabbi Sholom ber and Chani Lipskar, are a dynamic duo who have spent decades dedicated to spreading the Rebbe’s message to the world,  transforming Bal Harbour into a haven of Jewish life.  Their vision goes beyond the Jewish community, with a broader commitment to bringing light into the world.

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Episode Guest :
Lizzy Savetsky is a dedicated digital influencer and ardent advocate, who not only shares her fashionable motherhood journey on social media, but also passionately dedicates herself to dispelling myths and destigmatizing topics related to Israel and the Jewish people.
 
Throughout her career, Lizzy has been an outspoken activist, collaborating with various non-profit and philanthropic movements to champion the causes close to her heart—her people and homeland.

Since October 7th, Lizzy has intensified her efforts, working tirelessly to expose falsehoods and challenge misconceptions surrounding Israel. With unwavering dedication, she has become a prominent figure in the advocacy sphere, actively engaging in discussions, sharing accurate information, and shedding light on the realities of Israel's situation. Lizzy's commitment extends beyond mere advocacy; she is on a mission to reshape narratives and foster a deeper understanding of the challenges faced by Israel and its people.

Lizzy also founded the “Real Love, Real Loss” movement on social media to destigmatize pregnancy loss for Jewish women on a global level

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Episode Guest: Jackie Glaser
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For 15 years, Jackie found herself stuck in the dating hamster wheel, repeating the cycle without success. Burned out, dejected, and feeling hopeless, she eventually reached a breaking point. Determined to change her situation, Jackie drew upon her 20 years of experience in psychology, leadership development, Jewish spirituality, meditation, hypnosis, somatic psychotherapy, and bodywork.

Deciding that enough was enough, Jackie channeled her extensive knowledge and expertise into a transformative journey of self-discovery. Focused on dating, tapping into her subconscious beliefs, approaching life with curiosity, and breaking through internal barriers, she successfully found herself happily married today.

Grateful for the lessons learned along the way about the profound influence of the internal world on the external, Jackie realized the power of being co-creators with God. Taking this insight to heart, she designed a specific process to help others get out of their own way and become vessels ready to receive abundance.

Jackie's process revolves around the top five things women need to easily date and marry, covering areas such as recognizing one's worth, trusting oneself with life-changing decisions, authentic dating without fear, and being truly open to meeting a life partner. With a background as a former Today Show psychologist in Australia and the Director of Leadership Development for the global non-profit Olami, operating in 320 locations, Jackie has spent decades teaching and creating impactful programs.

Her goal is to provide tangible results that not only serve individuals in the present but also equip them with the tools for self-mastery, higher emotional intelligence (EQ), and spiritual intelligence (SQ) that will extend into all areas of their lives in the future.

Jackie firmly believes that nobody should remain stuck and alone, emphasizing that everyone can achieve the life they deeply desire. It is her honor to offer guidance on this journey.

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Episode Guest: Yishai Fleisher

Yishai Fleisher is the International Spokesperson for the Jewish Community of Hebron –  home of the Biblical Tomb of the Patriarchs and Matriarchs – and a Middle East hotspot. Yishai works closely with US, Israeli, and global legislators and influencers on issues such as fighting BDS, recognizing Israeli indigeneity, fighting historical appropriation, and strengthening the Jewish people’s presence in Judea and Samaria.  

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Sarit Share returns with profound insight on energy healing and how to be angry in a healthy and productive way. You don't want to miss this one.

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Ben Shapiro is the largest conservative podcast and radio show in the nation. He is the author of eight nonfiction books, including the #1 New York Times best-seller, The Right Side of History: How Reason and Moral Purpose Made the West Great.

Dubbed as "a foe of extraordinary polemical agility" by The Washington Post, Shapiro became a nationally syndicated columnist at age 17 and is one of the most requested speakers on college campuses across the country—despite facing violent opposition by protestors. He graduated UCLA with a bachelor in political science and then Harvard Law School in 2007, before marrying his wife in 2008. The two have been blessed with four children, including the youngest Shapiro born in 2023.

Our discussion with him today is quite distinct from his usual engagements. Here, we're not delving into the realm of politics, but rather, we're exploring a different dimension of thought – the courage to be disliked. Ben’s commitment to pursuing truth and his influence in contemporary politics have made him a prominent voice in the public arena.

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In this episode, we have the privilege of introducing you to an extraordinary guest, Dr. Gary Quinn, joining us from Israel. Dr. Quinn is the director of the EMDR Institute and has developed cutting-edge interventions for PTSD, offering crucial help to those in the midst of a crisis. He has traveled extensively throughout Israel, providing invaluable guidance to individuals who have experienced trauma. Dr. Quinn is not only a compassionate healer but also a dedicated professional committed to helping people find their path to recovery, not only by healing wounds but also by guiding them toward reclaiming their strength and resilience.

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In these challenging times, it's important to acknowledge the pain and suffering that many around the world are going through. Our hearts go out to all those affected by the recent events.  Israel, we want you to know that we stand with you, and we feel your pain.  It's in moments like these that our shared humanity shines through. We believe in the power of prayer and taking on acts of goodness and kindness, in bringing  people together, supporting one another in healing our wounds, and being unified in our mission to build a brighter future. 

This episode is the recorded instagram live  featuring the esteemed Rabbi Shais Taub, delving into the theme of faith and trust during these challenging times. In this enlightening session, both we, along with our engaged audience, posed thought-provoking questions. Rabbi Taub, a beacon of wisdom, shared his personal insights on how to discover faith and trust, even in the face of the pain experienced by the people of Israel and the land of Israel. This conversation forged a sense of unity, depth, and empowerment, and we sincerely hope it brings upliftment to your life as well."

This episode has been sponsored by Tenyad.Org, a charitable powerhouse with a compelling mission. They extend a unique opportunity for us to make a meaningful impact during these turbulent times through the act of Tzedakah. Their beautiful initiative provides unwavering support to new brides, covering all their material needs from the moment they get engaged until they say "I do." This heartfelt endeavor is not only about supporting brides but also about ensuring the continuity of the Jewish people. As we say, "Am yisrael Chai."

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Episode Guests:  Joyce Azria and Rachie Shnay
Joyce Azria and Rachie Shnay are entrepreneurs, visionary leaders, and trailblazers in the world of business, Joyce and Rachey are also close friends with a shared mission to make the world more beautiful, both inside and out. Through their creative talents and  strong shared connection to their Jewish faith, they inspire women around the world to step into their purpose and mission through impactful contributions to others. 

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