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    Addiction: Find Your Purpose Through The Struggle

    en-usMarch 12, 2022
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    About this Episode

    Matt Gardiner and I discuss his addiction to alcohol and how he was able to use it to find his WHY in life and pursue his purpose to help others break free from the prison of addiction.

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    Know Your Why: Part 3 The Conclusion

    Know Your Why: Part 3 The Conclusion

    Today we will wrap things up with the following areas:

    • Journaling- why this will help you develop a deeper understanding of yourself, what you want and how to go after it
    • Trauma- How we deal with it, use it to become better
    • Final Tips
    • Conclusion- Wrapping it all up

    Journaling

    Journaling is a great habit if you want to know more about yourself. I mean, who doesn’t want to know more about themselves? It’s kind of a loaded questions, because most people pretend that they want to get a better understand of who they are and what they want out of life but in actuality they want to spend more time complaining about their circumstances and blame the world for their bullshit.

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    • Reflecting
      • You’ll quickly see the pattern in your thinking, life, and behaviors by reflecting on yesterday.
    • Application
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    • Convenient
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    Writing Prompts

    Consider using writing prompts to add to the level of self-discovery. These are just ideas or questions that direct your writing.

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    • If I had an extra hour each day, how would I spend it?
    • What was my favorite job of all time?
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    • What do I want my obituary to say about me?

    Trauma

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    Being afraid of a bully or losing your pet in first grade might seem inconsequential today, but it wasn’t then. It had an impact.

    Of course, bigger things like abuse or losing a parent can have even bigger consequences.

    Final Tips

    A few final tips for the committed. For the ones that truly want to make a difference in their lives. For those that believe that anything can happen if you dedicate the time, effort and mindset to overcome any obstacle.

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    We are composed of our values, experiences, habits, and preferences. The mistakes we repeat limit us. Our passions remain hidden.

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    • Discover Your Inner Self
    • Values
    • Strengths & Weaknesses
    • Repeating Mistakes
    • Mediation- How Does Your Mind Work?
    • Darkness & You
    • Habits
    • Ho

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    Know Your Why: Part 2

    Know Your Why: Part 2

    Today’s episode we are going to focus on the following areas:

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    • Meditation- How does Your Mind Work
    • Darkness & You
    • Habits
    • How to Find Your Passion

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    Repeating Mistakes

    We often view these areas of our lives where we frequently suffer from “bad luck”. Luck, goo and bad, is evenly distributed across all of humanity. If you have an area of your life where you seem to be unlucky consistently, you’r3 making one or more mistakes repeatedly.

    Meditation- How Does Your Mind Work?

    Our minds are very different than they appear to be. There’s the real world, and then there’s what’s going on between our ears. We all have a different view of the world a different perception. The thoughts, noise and chatter going on in our heads taint our perceptions. It’s not easy to see the world and life without these filters changing our perspective in some way.

    Start a daily meditation practice. You only need 15-30 minutes each day to get significant benefits. There’s a plethora of information to help you get started, from books to videos to guided meditation.

    Darkness & You

    We all have our approach or method for dealing with discomfort. Some are relatively harmless, while others can be quite destructive. It’s possible to have strategies for dealing with discomfort that are actually beneficial!

    Discomfort is your mind’s way of protecting you. This is great if you’re about to risk your life, but it’s misguided the majority of the time. Success is heavily dependent on the ability to overcome this discomfort and take appropriate action.

    Habits

    Your habits control your destiny. It’s not the amazing things you do or fail to do once a year that make a difference. It’s the things you do day after day that add up over time.

    The key to increasing the odds of being successful is creating goals that are aligned with your purpose and values, and them creating habits that bring you closer to those goals. So, do your habits support your goals?

    How to Find Your Passion

    When you were a child, you were passionate about a particular career. The market may have tanked for becoming a cowboy or a dragon slayer, but you also lost your way. You allowed people to change your mind. Or may have gotten a little lazy. Maybe you were more interested in impressing others than following your dream.

    In Part 3 and the final section of this series we will focus on:

    • Journaling- why this will help you develop a deeper understan

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    KNOW YOUR WHY: PART #1

    KNOW YOUR WHY: PART #1

    Today’s episode is going to be a 3 part series, all about Know Your Why.

    In this episode we are going to cover the following topics:

    1. Intention & Mindset
    2. Discovering Your Inner Self
    3. Values
    4. Strengths & Weaknesses

    Benjamin Franklin said, “There are three things extremely hard: Steel, diamonds, and to know one’s self.”

    1. Do you believe there is more to learn about you? Your life? What your here on this earth for?
    2. Do you even think you have a purpose?
    3. Do you feel like you already know everything there is to know about you? I’m sure you do, many people feel the same way, but you’d be wrong
    Funny thing is we spend so much time focusing on other people’s perception of what we hope they will see in us, or value to the world and yet the irony is they themselves are doing the exact same thing, therefore no one is actually paying attention to you only their own hope of what they want people to see them as.


    We avoid looking at ourselves because we are afraid of what we might see, so we avoid examining ourselves and focus on how we can “help” others to distract us from seeing our truth.

    As unpleasant as the truth maybe it holds the secret to greater levels of personal success

    When you understand yourself, you can:

    • gain control over yourself
    • avoid your weaknesses and common pitfalls
    • understand and deal with your negative habits
    • have healthier relationships
    • choose a life path that suits you
    • find enthusiasm and happiness
    We are all suffering from a case of mistaken identity. We have been programmed by our environmental dispositions, which shape our mindset, though process and daily actions in life.We repeat the same mistakes over and over, but don’t have a clue we are doing it. On the off chance we recognize our repeated mistakes, we don’t understand why we’re doing them or how to change it.

    Success is much more challenging without self-knowledge

    To be highly successful, it’s necessary to:

    • Set big goals by having a vision that are meaningful to you
    • Utilize your strengths and avoid your weaknesses by creating a plan
    • Deal with stress in a productive manner with an application process
    • Know how to motivate yourself in order to execute
    • overcome fear
    • perserve

    For more detailed information and if you are looking to change your perception, build structure and systems in your life to develop new habits for you to find success schedule a FREE consult today! 

    My method of coaching is based on three relationship drivers: Mind/Body/Spirit. I work with all walks of life, no matter where you are in your career or life path. The ultimate goal is for you and I to build a foundation and systematic approach to help you define and achieve your goals. It is time to take back your life and stop existing and start living.

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