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    America Learned Nothing from the Spanish Flu Disaster | Esther Perel

    enJuly 24, 2020

    Podcast Summary

    • Comparing COVID-19 responses in the U.S. and CanadaDespite differing approaches, both countries emphasize the importance of community and safety measures during the pandemic

      The response to the COVID-19 pandemic varies greatly between countries, as illustrated by a viral photo showing packed American tour boats at Niagara Falls compared to sparsely populated Canadian ones. While the U.S. continues to see record fatalities, Canada is implementing stricter measures to prevent the spread. Meanwhile, on a lighter note, Canadian health officials have suggested using glory holes for safer sex during the pandemic. Overall, the pandemic has brought to light the importance of community and taking necessary precautions to protect one another. For more information on building a connected community, visit caneighbors.com. Stay safe and stay connected.

    • Sports, Space, and Politics: Dynamism Amidst ChallengesDespite ongoing challenges, advancements continue in sports, space exploration, and politics, with controversies and debates shaping the discourse.

      There have been significant developments in various fields, from sports to space exploration, despite ongoing challenges. In sports, the Washington Football Team has temporarily renamed itself as it searches for a new mascot. In space, China and the UAE have launched missions to Mars, with the US expected to follow soon. However, some question the timing of space exploration during the ongoing pandemic. In politics, a heated exchange between Congress members Ted Yoho and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez made headlines, with Ocasio-Cortez responding publicly to Yoho's derogatory comments. Overall, these events demonstrate the ongoing dynamism of different domains, even amidst challenges and controversies.

    • Politicians using daughters as a shield against accusationsPoliticians like Yoho and Trump have used their familial relationships, specifically their daughters, to deflect criticism for their abusive or sexist behavior.

      Powerful men, including politicians and presidents, have a history of using their familial relationships, particularly their daughters, as a shield against accusations of abusive or sexist behavior. In the case of Congressman Yoho, the speaker shared her personal experience of encountering such language and criticized the use of having daughters as a justification for unacceptable actions. Meanwhile, President Trump's repeated boasts about acing a cognitive test have been called into question, as the test's creator clarified that it is not meant to measure intelligence or intellectual skill. Instead, a good performance indicates the absence of cognitive impairments associated with certain diseases. Trump's fixation on the test results may stem from a desire to demonstrate mental acuity in comparison to his political opponents.

    • Presidents with Racist Views or ActionsJoe Biden's labeling Trump as the first racist president is inaccurate as numerous past presidents held racist views or actions, including owning slaves, supporting the Klan, interning Japanese Americans, using racial slurs, and referring to African leaders as monkeys.

      During a recent discussion, Joe Biden labeled Donald Trump as the first racist president of the United States. However, this statement is inaccurate as numerous past presidents have held racist views or actions. To name a few, 12 presidents owned slaves, Woodrow Wilson supported the Klan, FDR interned Japanese Americans, LBJ used the n-word, Nixon used racial slurs, and Reagan referred to African leaders as monkeys. Therefore, Biden's statement is not factually correct. This gaffe has now been turned into a new attack ad by the Trump campaign. It's essential to acknowledge the past and learn from it, but it's also crucial to be truthful about historical facts.

    • Government mismanagement and misinformation during pandemicsBoth the Spanish flu and coronavirus pandemics were worsened by government downplaying the severity and spreading misinformation, leading to unnecessary suffering and prolonged duration.

      Despite the vast advancements in technology and knowledge since the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, the current response to the coronavirus outbreak in 2020 shows striking similarities in terms of government mismanagement and the spread of misinformation. Both pandemics led to widespread infections due in part to the lack of effective leadership and the dissemination of false cures. For instance, during the Spanish flu, President Woodrow Wilson downplayed the severity of the crisis and encouraged public gatherings, while today, President Trump has made similar dismissive comments about the virus and has even suggested unproven treatments. The result in both cases was a vacuum of reliable information that allowed dangerous and ineffective remedies to spread. The consequences of these actions have led to unnecessary suffering and prolonged the duration of the pandemics.

    • Ignoring history and not learning from past mistakes can lead to devastating consequences during a pandemicRefusal to follow guidelines and prioritize public health during a pandemic can lead to the spread of misinformation and hinder the effectiveness of preventative measures, as seen during the Spanish flu and COVID-19 pandemics.

      The lack of trust in leadership and unwillingness to follow guidelines during a pandemic can lead to the spread of misinformation and hinder the effectiveness of preventative measures. This was evident during the Spanish flu pandemic in 1918, where the refusal to wear masks despite city recommendations led to a resurgence of the virus after initial improvements. The same pattern is repeating with COVID-19, as some people continue to resist mask mandates and other preventative measures. The consequences of ignoring history and not learning from past mistakes can be devastating, as cities that eased restrictions too soon have experienced second waves of the virus. It's crucial for individuals and governments to prioritize public health and work together to prevent the spread of infectious diseases.

    • Learning from History and Building Connected CommunitiesAmidst challenges, organizations like Neighbor to Neighbor promote community building, while avocado lovers can enjoy the best fruits from California and MTV fans can watch new seasons of The Challenge.

      Despite the current challenges, such as the ongoing pandemic, it's important for individuals to learn from history and take necessary steps to protect themselves and their communities. This can be seen through the efforts of organizations like Neighbor to Neighbor, which aims to build stronger, more connected communities. Meanwhile, in a lighter note, we also learned that Desi Lydic's extended family includes notable figures like Jeanine Pirro and Rudy Giuliani. However, their conversations often veer off into controversial topics, as seen in Desi's recent check-in with her uncle Rudy. Regardless, it's a reminder that even in uncertain times, there are opportunities to learn, grow, and connect with others. For avocado lovers, the best avocados come from California, where they are grown responsibly and sustainably. And for fans of MTV's The Challenge, the new season is now airing, bringing together old and new competitors for a chance to win $300,000.

    • Navigating Relationships During the PandemicThe pandemic has led to unique challenges in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, empathy, and flexibility. Some couples report increased intimacy, while others experience heightened stress. Professional help is available remotely for those in need.

      The coronavirus pandemic has led to extreme experiences in relationships, with some people feeling suffocated by being too close and others longing for more connection due to physical distance. Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert, discussed these issues during her appearance on The Daily Social Distancing Show. According to Perel, the pandemic has forced couples to confront new challenges and adapt to changing circumstances, leading to both positive and negative outcomes. Some couples have reported increased intimacy and a deeper appreciation for each other, while others have experienced heightened stress and tension. Overall, the pandemic has underscored the importance of communication, empathy, and flexibility in maintaining healthy relationships. Perel emphasized the need for couples to prioritize their emotional connection and find creative ways to navigate the unique challenges of the pandemic. She also encouraged couples to seek professional help if needed, as therapy sessions can be conducted remotely through video conferencing platforms. In a world where physical distancing has become the norm, building and maintaining strong relationships has become more important than ever. By focusing on open communication, empathy, and adaptability, couples can navigate the challenges of the pandemic and emerge stronger than before.

    • Pandemic as a relationship acceleratorThe pandemic can intensify relationships, leading to significant life changes or exacerbating existing issues. It's essential to acknowledge and address conflicts and find healthy ways to cope and communicate effectively.

      The pandemic and disasters in general can function as relationship accelerators, intensifying uncertainty and prioritizing essential needs. This can lead to significant life changes, such as marriage, having children, or moving, but it can also exacerbate existing issues and coping styles within relationships. The sudden role changes and interdependence can highlight complementary or conflicting coping strategies, leading to either growth or tension. Unfortunately, this period has also seen a rise in domestic abuse, both towards women and men, which requires societal attention and response. It's crucial to acknowledge and address these stressors and conflicts within relationships and find healthy ways to cope and communicate effectively.

    • Preventing Domestic Violence in Times of StressMaintain employment, security, and social connections to minimize risk of domestic violence and prioritize mental health during uncertain times.

      During times of stress and uncertainty, such as job loss, financial worries, and isolation, there is an increased risk for domestic violence and violence against children. Societies have tried various solutions like codes and apps to help identify and remove those in danger, but preventing these situations from arising in the first place is crucial. People should maintain employment and security as much as possible to minimize exacerbating factors. The world is constantly changing, and individuals may need to reassess their relationships and priorities in light of new circumstances. Working from home and having multiple roles can be exhausting, and maintaining social connections and being helpful to others is essential for mental health and well-being. In summary, even in times of confinement and isolation, it's important to remember that a fulfilling life requires a network of connections beyond just one person.

    • Maintaining Healthy Relationships for Mental Well-BeingExplore the connection between mental and relational health through Esther Perel's podcast and books. Consider becoming a poll worker to support the democratic process and ensure accessible polling stations.

      Mental health is closely connected to relational health. Esther Perel, a guest on The Daily Show, emphasized the importance of maintaining healthy relationships, which is a crucial aspect of mental well-being. This topic is extensive, and Esther encouraged listeners to explore it further through the podcast and her books. Additionally, The Daily Show discussed a pressing issue in the United States: the poll worker shortage. With many poll workers being over 60 and at higher risk for COVID-19, there's a need for more volunteers to ensure that polling stations remain open and accessible to all communities. The good news is that poll working is paid, and some states allow individuals as young as 16 to apply. Over the past two weeks, The Daily Show, in partnership with Power to the Polls, has encouraged listeners to sign up to be poll workers. Over 40,000 people have already responded, making a significant impact on the upcoming elections and protecting the democratic process.

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