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    Anxious thoughts? 5 tips to help you sleep

    en-usMarch 26, 2020

    Podcast Summary

    • The impact of thoughts on sleep qualityAcknowledging the power of negative thoughts and practicing techniques to change them can help improve sleep quality over time. Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI) is an effective treatment for both occasional and chronic sleep issues.

      Our thoughts and catastrophizing can significantly impact our ability to fall and stay asleep. Insomnia can lead to a vicious cycle of anxiety and worry, making it even harder to sleep. Acknowledging the power of these thoughts and practicing techniques to change them can help improve sleep quality over time. Sleeping pills may provide temporary relief, but cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI) addresses the root cause of poor sleep. Whether you have occasional or chronic sleep issues, the strategies discussed in this episode, including CBTI, can help you get to sleep and stay asleep. Insomnia can have a major impact on our lives, causing anxiety, mood swings, and even leading us to feel isolated. It's important to remember that you're not alone, and there are effective treatments available to help you get the restful sleep you need.

    • Log your sleep patterns for better understandingRecording sleep behavior can help challenge negative thoughts and improve sleep hygiene, leading to better sleep

      Understanding and logging your sleep patterns is a crucial first step in overcoming insomnia. As shared in the discussion, a woman named Drew experienced years of sleeplessness, feeling paralyzed and unable to function normally. She eventually sought help from a specialist, Dr. Steven, who practices Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBTI). The first step Dr. Steven recommends is to log your sleep patterns. This may seem simple, but it can help individuals realize that their perceived lack of sleep is often different from the reality. By observing and recording their sleep behavior, individuals can begin to challenge their worst-case scenario thoughts and start making positive changes towards better sleep hygiene. This simple yet powerful practice can be a game-changer for those struggling with insomnia.

    • Challenging harmful thoughts for better sleepWriting down fears, replacing with facts, viewing self as person with insomnia, sleep restriction, and consistent sleep schedules can improve sleep quality.

      Our thoughts play a significant role in our sleep patterns, and it's essential to identify and challenge the harmful or false thoughts that contribute to anxiety and insomnia. Drew's experience shows us how writing down our fears and replacing them with factual thoughts can help stop the cycle of anxiety and improve sleep quality. It's important to remember that labeling ourselves as insomniacs is a harmful fiction, and instead, we should view ourselves as people experiencing insomnia. Another helpful step to break this pattern is sleep restriction, which involves using the bed only for sleep and setting realistic sleep goals based on what we've learned from our sleep logs. By sticking to these consistent sleep schedules, we can train our bodies to associate the bed with sleep and improve our overall sleep quality.

    • Train your body to associate bed with sleepPractice sleep restriction and relaxation techniques like meditation to improve sleep quality, reduce anxiety, and promote relaxation.

      Practicing sleep restriction and incorporating relaxation techniques, such as meditation, can significantly improve the quality of your sleep. During sleep restriction, you're training your body to associate your bed with sleep, rather than anxiety or worry. Meditation techniques, like the body scan, help quiet the mind and reduce hyper-arousal, promoting overall relaxation. You can find various relaxation techniques through apps like Headspace, Calm, or 10 Percent Happier, and over time, you may be able to practice these techniques without the aid of an app. By combining sleep restriction and relaxation techniques, you're creating a powerful toolkit to help combat insomnia and improve your sleep health.

    • Create a sleep-focused bedroom environmentUse your bed only for sleep, remove clocks and electronics, and engage in calming activities outside the bedroom to improve sleep quality.

      Creating a calm and sleep-focused environment in your bedroom is crucial for improving sleep quality. This means using your bed only for sleep, with exceptions for sexual intimacy. If you find yourself having negative thoughts when trying to fall asleep, leave your bed and engage in a low-key activity in another room. Additionally, removing clocks and electronic devices from your bedroom can help reduce stress and disruptive thought patterns. By separating your bed from activities that keep you awake, you can retrain your mind to associate your bedroom with sleep, leading to a more restful night.

    • Effective Tools for Improving Sleep QualityCBTI involves creating a sleep-conducive environment, managing stimuli, and addressing negative thoughts for better sleep. Tracking sleep patterns can provide valuable insights.

      Improving sleep quality takes time and effort, but effective tools like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBTI) can make a significant difference. CBTI involves creating a sleep-conducive environment, managing stimuli like screens and caffeine, and addressing negative thought patterns. It's important to remember that there will be challenging nights, but having the right tools and mindset can help manage these setbacks. The definition of success with sleep improvement may vary from person to person, but the confidence in having an effective approach to handle sleep issues is invaluable. Success stories, like Drew's, demonstrate that even after years of struggling, substantial progress can be made in just a few weeks. By tracking your sleep patterns, you can gain insight into your sleep habits and better understand how to improve them.

    • Reflect on sleep habits, adjust bedroom environment, and practice relaxation techniquesTo improve sleep, keep a sleep journal, align bedtime with sleep needs, find a relaxation technique, and create a sleep-conducive bedroom.

      Improving your sleep involves self-reflection, reevaluating your bedroom habits, and implementing relaxation techniques. First, keep a journal of your sleep-related thoughts and anxieties to better understand them. Second, consider adjusting the amount of time you spend in bed to align with your actual sleep needs. Third, find a relaxation technique, such as deep breathing or a body scan, that helps you unwind before bed. Lastly, establish new rules for your bedroom to create a sleep-conducive environment. Remember, changing your relationship with your bedroom and sleep patterns takes time and effort. For more practical tips on various topics, visit npr.org/lifekit and subscribe to our newsletter. A bonus tip: whitening toothpaste can help remove stains from white t-shirts. As always, if you have a useful tip, share it with us at 202-216-9823 or lifekit@npr.org. This episode was produced by Sylvie Douglass, and I'm Alison Aubrey. Thanks for listening!

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