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    Being Honest About Your Romantic Preferences

    enSeptember 16, 2019

    About this Episode

    Join me, along with Marlon Rice, Brooklyn's Magnolia Tree Center Executive Director, and Sakina Williams, founder of BK Buddha in this candid discussion about relationship preferences. This Brooklyn couple shares with us how their past experiences have shaped their abilities to find joy and contentment within themselves first so eventually, their connection would prove to be just as satisfying. One of the best conversations I've had all year, hands down! Many lessons about acceptance and self-reliance to be learned in this episode. 

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