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    Best Of: Multiplying Orgasms & Pleasure

    enJuly 21, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Explore and enhance your sex life this summerDiscover pleasure-enhancing products and iconic sex toys like Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel, and the Magic Wand for powerful orgasms. Be patient and persistent to achieve multiple orgasms.

      Summer is the perfect time to explore and enhance your sex life with the help of pleasure-enhancing products and iconic sex toys. Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel can help prolong the experience and intensify pleasure for both men and women. And the Magic Wand, a cult classic vibrator, offers various models to suit different lifestyles while delivering powerful orgasms. Remember, being patient and persistent in discovering your body's needs is key to achieving multiple orgasms. So, make this summer the sexiest one yet by checking out Promescent and the Magic Wand at their respective websites for exclusive discounts and guaranteed satisfaction.

    • Learning to achieve multiple orgasmsPatience, presence, and body awareness can increase chances of experiencing multiple orgasms. Focus on sensations and relaxation between orgasms to prolong the experience.

      Achieving multiple orgasms is a learnable skill, not a given ability. For those who have difficulty reaching multiple orgasms, it's essential to be patient and present during the process. Being aware of your body's sensitivity and focusing on staying connected to the sensations can increase your chances of experiencing multiple orgasms. Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination, and the exploration of your body can lead to discovering new sources of pleasure. Additionally, taking time to breathe and relax between orgasms can help prolong the experience. So, be patient, stay present, and enjoy the process.

    • Exploring Your Body for Increased PleasureThrough self-exploration, using mirrors, trying new techniques, and using toys, women can discover their unique sexual response, experience multiple orgasms, and improve their overall sexual experience.

      Exploring your body and understanding your own unique sexual response can lead to increased pleasure and the ability to experience multiple orgasms. The clitoris, a complex and essential part of female sexual anatomy, plays a significant role in this process. Self-exploration, using mirrors, and trying new techniques like indirect touch and varying positions can help women discover what feels good for them. Toys, such as vibrators and g-spot toys, can also enhance pleasure and facilitate multiple orgasms. It's important to remember to breathe, relax, and focus on the sensations in your body. Additionally, strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through kegel exercises can improve your overall sexual experience and contribute to more intense orgasms. Ultimately, the key is to be curious, open-minded, and willing to experiment with different approaches to discover what works best for you.

    • Strengthen pelvic floor muscles and explore different types of stimulation for more orgasmsStrengthen pelvic floor muscles with Kegels and explore various stimulation methods for increased orgasms, including clitoral vibrators, anal toys, and nipple stimulation. Use lubricant for enhanced pleasure.

      Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises with the help of products like Ami's Kegel set can lead to more orgasms. Additionally, exploring different types of stimulation, such as clitoral stimulation with vibrators like Dame Products' Kip, anal play with B-Vibe's beginner anal kit, and nipple orgasms, can contribute to achieving multiple orgasms. Using lubricant and trying new things can enhance your pleasure experience. For those who enjoy bread but want to minimize carb intake, Hero Bread offers low-carb alternatives without sacrificing taste.

    • Add fiber and flavor with hero breadHero bread offers a tasty and fiber-rich alternative to traditional bread, suitable for various dishes and beneficial for health goals.

      Hero bread is a versatile and delicious option for those looking to add more fiber to their diet while keeping sugar intake low. Its light texture makes it suitable for various dishes, from sandwiches and tacos to French toast. Plus, it's a game-changer for those following health goals. Additionally, prioritizing pleasure, whether through food or relationships, is essential for overall well-being. For those struggling to initiate sex in their relationships, communication is key. Share specific desires with your partner to help them understand what looks and feels good for you, making the experience enjoyable for both parties.

    • Communication and boundaries in sexual relationshipsEffective communication and setting boundaries are essential for a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. Create a plan together, discuss desires, and try new things. Prioritize getting to know each other in person before engaging in sexual activities.

      Effective communication and setting boundaries are crucial in maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. In the first part of the discussion, it was highlighted that one partner feels they are doing all the work in initiating and planning sex, while the other seems disinterested and needs guidance. The solution suggested was to create a plan together, including discussing each other's desires and trying new things. It's important to remember that learning new skills and exploring sex can take time and effort, and open communication can lead to a more fulfilling and enjoyable experience for both partners. In the second part of the discussion, a listener shared her dilemma about a man she's been sexting with who wants to have sex before their first date. The advice given was to prioritize getting to know each other in person before taking the next step sexually. While sexting and verbal communication are important, it's essential to remember that physical presence, body language, and in-person interactions are also crucial components of a successful sexual relationship. Therefore, it's recommended to go on a date first to determine if there's mutual interest and compatibility before engaging in sexual activities.

    • The Risks of Impulsive Sexual EncountersIt's important to get to know someone in person before having sex to avoid potential risks and misunderstandings.

      While sexting and physical intimacy can be exciting, it's important to get to know someone in person before jumping into sex. The speaker shares her experience of being attracted to a great texter, but discovering that she enjoyed their conversations more than their in-person interactions. She also emphasizes that pictures and online personas don't fully represent who someone is. Additionally, the story of a caller who got caught having sex outside serves as a reminder of the potential risks and embarrassment that can come with impulsive sexual encounters. Overall, the speaker encourages waiting to have sex until you've built a connection with someone and have a better understanding of their character.

    • Importance of open communication and experimentation in sexual relationshipsListening to your partner's needs and feedback, being willing to try new things together, and maintaining open communication can lead to deeper connections and more satisfying sexual experiences.

      Open communication and experimentation are essential elements in maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. Griffin's story highlights the importance of listening to your partner's needs and feedback, as well as being willing to try new things together. While the experience of getting caught by his father was initially embarrassing, it ultimately led to a deeper connection between Griffin and his girlfriend. Furthermore, the story serves as a reminder that sex should be consensual, safe, and enjoyable for both partners. As Griffin and his girlfriend continue to explore their sexuality, they can draw on this experience as a reminder to keep things interesting and prioritize open communication.

    • Communication is crucial for sexual intimacyEffective communication about sexual needs and desires is essential for a fulfilling relationship. Every individual has unique preferences, and open dialogue can help bridge the gap towards mutual satisfaction.

      Effective communication is key in a relationship, especially when it comes to sexual intimacy. The speaker in this conversation has been with her partner for five years, and she's expressed her desire for him to reciprocate oral sex. However, he rarely does, despite her reminders. She's a giving lover, but feels neglected in this aspect of their relationship. The root of the issue might be due to a lack of education or awareness about women's sexual needs. The speaker believes that her partner may be selfish in other areas of their relationship, such as gift-giving. They've had fun and enjoyed their time together, but she feels that open and ongoing communication about her needs is necessary for a fulfilling sexual relationship. It's important to remember that every individual has unique preferences and requirements, and open dialogue can help bridge the gap towards mutual satisfaction.

    • Communication is key to a satisfying sexual relationshipExpress desires, initiate conversations, set boundaries, and ensure both partners receive pleasure through open communication.

      Communication is key in a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship. The conversation around sex and desires should be an ongoing process, not a one-time discussion. Women's needs for foreplay and oral sex have changed from previous generations, and it's essential to express these requirements to partners. Men may not be aware of these expectations, and it's up to women to initiate the conversation and set boundaries. It's not about blame or apologies but rather about expressing desires and ensuring both partners receive pleasure. It's important to remember that everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual experience and that open communication is the foundation for achieving that goal. Don't be afraid to have the conversation multiple times if necessary, and don't accept anything less than what you desire. Ultimately, it's about setting expectations, expressing needs, and ensuring that both partners are satisfied.

    • Honest conversations about feelings and desiresExpressing truth is essential, but lasting change requires reasoning and explanation, patience, and consistent effort.

      Having open and honest conversations about feelings and desires in a relationship is important, but it may not result in immediate behavioral changes. Expressing your truth can be difficult, but it's essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. However, to bring about lasting change, it's necessary to provide reasoning and explanation as to why the suggested behavior or change is beneficial for both parties. Change doesn't usually occur after just one conversation, and it may take time and consistent effort. It's essential to approach these conversations with love and patience, and to give the other person time to process and adjust. Remember, the goal is to prioritize each other's pleasure and needs in the relationship.

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