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    Biological Parent & Stepparent Relationships, Part 3

    en-usJune 26, 2023
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    About this Episode

    This is the third episode in our series on the relationship between biological parents and stepparents. Scott and Vanessa talk about parent alienation and child manipulation and its negative effects on children of divorce. They talk about repairing your relationship with your ex (if possible) for the sake of the kids and for your own mental health. 

    We pray this podcast blessed you today! 

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