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    Ep 15: Should you watch porn when you’re in a relationship? - ft. Jamie Laing

    enJuly 20, 2021

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    • Bombas' donation program and PlushCare's telehealth servicesBombas donates an item for every purchase, contributing to over 100 million items donated since 2013. PlushCare offers telehealth services for weight loss, including FDA-approved medication prescriptions.

      Bombas, a socially conscious brand, donates an item to those in need every time a purchase is made. This has resulted in over 100 million items donated since 2013. Meanwhile, PlushCare offers telehealth services to aid in weight loss, including prescription of FDA-approved medications. The podcast hosts, Sophie and Melissa, shared their experience trying a new wine and had some humorous moments. Despite their expensive taste, they found the wine they tried was not significantly different from others. They also discussed the challenges of tasting wines and the importance of clear labeling. In real life, they were excited to record together again after doing so over video call. They also clarified a misunderstanding about one of Melissa's conditions and joked about their ability to fall asleep easily. Lastly, they welcomed listeners from various locations around the world.

    • Exploring the complexities of beauty routines and seeking advice from unexpected sourcesWomen share various beauty practices for confidence, value diverse perspectives for advice, beware false security in relationships, and embrace individual quirks and habits.

      Women often engage in various beauty routines to feel confident and fabulous, from waxing nose hairs to shaving facial hair or even watching their friends' hair habits. Another intriguing revelation was discovering shared passwords and the value of seeking advice from different perspectives, especially boys, as they may offer unique insights. It's essential to remember that not all guys are the same, and some may provide valuable insights that could help navigate complex social situations. Additionally, it's important to be aware of the potential for false security in relationships and to be open to constructive feedback from trusted friends. Lastly, the conversation touched on the topic of alcohol consumption and the stigma surrounding it, emphasizing the importance of self-love and embracing individual quirks and habits.

    • Exploring Friendship and Wine with Jamie and MelissaThrough their podcast, Jamie and Melissa have deepened their friendship while sharing their love for wine and entertaining anecdotes about their personal lives. They've discovered the importance of tolerance and relaxation in friendships, and their candid conversations have resonated with a large audience.

      The speakers, Jamie and Melissa, have a close friendship and enjoy hosting their podcast together. They discussed their love for the podcast and how they've learned more about wine since starting it. They also shared some personal anecdotes, including their relationships and arguments with their partners. Despite some disagreements, they acknowledged the importance of having a level of tolerance and relaxation in their friendships. The podcast has gained a large following, and they were surprised and excited to learn that many people enjoy listening to it. The conversation also touched on their experiences with different types of wine and their opinions on wine regions. Overall, the conversation showcased the speakers' candid and lighthearted approach to discussing relationships and their shared passion for wine.

    • Understanding and leniency in relationshipsExpress genuine feelings, be supportive, and understand the importance of personal needs and experiences in relationships.

      Leniency and understanding are important in relationships, even when dealing with less-than-ideal situations. This was evident in the discussion about a problematic bathroom design and the importance of going to the bathroom regularly. The speakers also shared advice on handling crushes and offered different approaches to expressing feelings. Ultimately, they emphasized the importance of being genuine and true to oneself. Additionally, they highlighted the inspiration and positivity that comes from sharing personal experiences and supporting each other.

    • Expressing feelings clearlyBeing open, clear, and direct in expressing feelings and intentions is crucial for avoiding confusion and helping both parties feel more comfortable in romantic situations.

      Communication and clarity are key when it comes to expressing feelings and making moves in romantic situations. According to the discussion, girls might unintentionally give mixed signals, which can leave guys feeling uncertain and hesitant. For instance, stating that you're not drinking or planning to leave early can give the impression that you're not interested, putting the guy on the defensive. In contrast, girls might not explicitly express their feelings or intentions, leading to misunderstandings. Additionally, guys are often more insecure and require clearer signs than girls, who might be shy or less vocal about their feelings. Overall, it's essential to be open, clear, and direct when expressing interest or intentions to avoid confusion and help both parties feel more comfortable.

    • Honesty about feelings saves relationshipsBeing truthful about emotions, even when not invested, can save relationships from prolonging unhealthy situations. Honesty during breakups leads to closure and moving on.

      Honesty about feelings is important in relationships. Both speakers shared their experiences of being honest when they weren't emotionally invested, and how it saved them from prolonging unhealthy relationships. They also discussed how some people, especially men, might use the label of being "emotionally unavailable" as a way to avoid commitment or to hide their true feelings. The speakers also touched upon the topic of breaking up, sharing stories of how they ended relationships, and how being honest even in difficult situations can lead to closure and moving on. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of being truthful about emotions and not leading people on.

    • Porn desensitization and mundane sexWatching porn can make real-life sex less fulfilling. Open communication and respectful dialogue can help maintain trust and strengthen relationships when dealing with porn use.

      Watching porn can desensitize individuals to real-life relationships and sex. The discussion highlights how porn can lead to a need for increasingly explicit content to maintain excitement, potentially causing sex to become mundane and less fulfilling in real-life relationships. It's important for couples to communicate openly about their feelings and concerns regarding porn use. If one partner discovers porn, addressing the situation with understanding and respect can help maintain trust and strengthen the relationship. Ultimately, the key is to remember that sex is a valuable and intimate experience that should be cherished and prioritized in real-life relationships.

    • Partner's attachment to ex-girlfriendSpeaker expresses concern over partner's lingering attachment, suggests limiting contact for long-term relationships.

      The speaker in this conversation is concerned about her partner's lingering attachment to his ex-girlfriend. She has noticed signs of this attachment, such as ex-girlfriend's belongings in the house and mail addressed to her being kept instead of redirected. The speaker finds it frustrating and is unsure about the nature of their current relationship. She believes that her partner may not be fully over his ex and suggests that they should not be friends if they were in a long-term relationship. The speaker also reflects on how people's insecurities can manifest in controlling behaviors, such as disapproving of their partner's interactions with others or holding onto belongings of past relationships. Overall, the speaker is expressing her unease and seeking advice on how to handle the situation.

    • Navigating Post-Relationship Dynamics: A Personal StoryEvery post-relationship experience is unique and can bring up a range of emotions. Respect and clear communication are key to navigating these dynamics.

      While some people may be comfortable with being friends with their exes, others find it disrespectful or challenging. The speaker in this conversation shares her experiences of encountering exes and the emotions that come up for her. She mentions feeling manipulated and disrespected in some situations, while in others she has no bad feelings. The speaker also expresses admiration for the podcast and the hosts, and shares some light-hearted moments from the past. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and nuances of post-relationship dynamics and the importance of respect and communication.

    • Sharing Personal Milestones and Gifts on the PodcastRomana discusses her upcoming wine release, encourages listeners to share their dilemmas, emphasizes the importance of good health care, and shares her love for giving gifts with 1800flowers.com's Celebrations Passport.

      Romana is excitedly anticipating the release of her own wine, and in the meantime, she encourages listeners to share their "juicy girl dilemmas" for potential discussion on the podcast. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of being extra when it comes to health care, specifically with UnitedHealthcare's Health ProtectorGuard fixed indemnity insurance plans, which help manage out-of-pocket costs without usual requirements and restrictions. Lastly, Romana shares her passion for being an excellent gift giver, thanks to 1800flowers.com's Celebrations Passport, which offers free shipping and rewards for more gifts given. Overall, the podcast discussion highlights the joy of anticipating personal milestones, the importance of taking care of health, and the pleasure of giving thoughtful gifts to loved ones.

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