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    Ep 88 Why Being Easy Going Isn't A Good Thing

    enMay 24, 2022

    About this Episode

    Being easy-going is rebranded people-pleasing. When I realised I needed to become more self-led so I could have the internal fulfilment I desired as well as being able to advocate for myself and my family, things shifted dramatically.

    In this episode:

    • Why the words we use really matter 
    • Why I’m no longer ‘easy-going’
    • Being more actively decisive in your own life
    • Speaking up for yourself so you can advocate for your kids
    • Stop juggling balls and open your umbrella instead

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    Take care,

    Rachelle x

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