Episode #186: "I Have SOMETHING To Say" with Alexandra Kapelos-Peters

Last month we explained WHAT WE ARE DOING, in the new podcast “Issues2Impact” that Chris Majocha, Dr. Xaulanda Simmonds-Emmanuel, Valerie Solomon, and yours truly are launching very soon. This is the WHAT:  We will leverage our collective expertise in nonprofit consulting, content creation, leadership development, and business to empower founders, professionals, and leaders (our guests) who are passionate about making a positive impact in their communities but are challenged by a situation they need to figure out to navigate.

In this episode of “I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY” we talk about WHY WE ARE DOING this. We kick off the discussion by acknowledging the frustration many of us have faced when encountering recurring problems without a clear path to resolution. Recognizing the value of collaboration and diverse perspectives, we will create a space where organizational leaders and entrepreneurs can find trusted guidance and honest advice from us.   

Our goal is to provide a supportive network that breaks down barriers to information sharing, empowering individuals to overcome imposter syndrome and self-doubt. By offering (and recording) our step-by-step guidance and provision of tangible solutions, we hope to help our guests address their pain points and achieve their goals.

So, whether you're facing obstacles in your business, navigating organizational challenges, or seeking innovative ways to drive social change, our podcast is here to support you every step of the way. We want to extend an open invitation to anyone who is grappling with a challenge in their work – simply reach out to us, and we'll schedule you as a guest on our show. Let us be your expert sounding board!

Our WHY: We are genuinely committed to fostering collaboration and taking meaningful action. We're not just here to talk – we're here to drive real change by helping leaders address the issues holding them back from making an impact.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of perspective and mindset in problem-solving. We agree that adopting a growth mindset and exploring the concept of creating an alter ego to unlock personal and business growth is oftentimes the answer, especially for introverted leaders.

We also dive into the significance of defining goals and values, both personally and professionally, and discuss strategies for alignment and achievement. From managing people to embracing uncomfortable situations and learning from mistakes, we explore the challenges and opportunities that come with growth.

As our discussion unfolds, we reflect on the privilege of our experiences and the importance of giving back to our communities, encouraging everyone to lean into new experiences and embrace a mindset of continuous growth.

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The negative perception of consulting stems from the prevalence of consultants who talk a good game but fail to deliver the goods. We’ve all faced this problem – from small to large companies and organizations. But it doesn’t have to be this way. 

To talk about the art of vetting consultants, Chris Majocha and Samí Haiman-Marrero invited Alexandra Capellos Peters, the founder and CEO of Cansulta to I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY where she helps dispel the negative perception of consulting and explain how she built a business around this very problem she needed to solve for herself (classic entrepreneurship story!!!).

Alex shares the challenges she faced in corporate jobs that drove her to become an independent consultant. However, as a consultant, she was also a small business owner who often struggled to find the right help and support to grow and succeed.  She emphasizes the need for help for start-ups and entrepreneurs as she recounts her own experience that led to the creation of Cansulta to bring the magic of world-class consulting to every business.

Their rigorous process of vetting consultants includes the basics like screening resumes which combined with an automated interview and role-playing case studies creates a thorough vetting process. The goal is to find consultants who are experienced, versatile, and capable of applying their expertise to different types of businesses and situations…adaptability!   She generously explains the value of interactive case studies as a way to assess a consultant's skills, abilities, and mindset on the spot.

Alex says that the role of data in the vetting process is also explored, acknowledging that while data can be helpful, it is not always the best indicator of a consultant's fit. The importance of finding the right vibe and energy in a consultant is what’s oftentimes more crucial, as well as the consultant’s desire to help small businesses succeed…as if they were their own.

So, when’s the best time to work with a consultant? This comes along with giving adequate importance to strategic planning. In short, the best time to work with a consultant is proactively and preventatively before you’re in a pickle – although there ARE consultants for that as well. Hence, Alex’s vision of changing the perception of consulting and creating a platform for identifying, vetting, and securing a pool of quality talent who can not only talk a good game but also deliver the goods.

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2020 – a pivotal year marked by George Floyd's tragic murder and the global pandemic's disproportionate impact on distressed communities. As the world grappled with these challenges, the demand for social justice reverberated across various sectors, prompting organizations to reassess their approach to social impact.

In this insightful episode of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY," hosts Samí Haiman-Marrero and Chris Majocha have an inspiring conversation is Michael Houston, the CEO and founder of Mythix Sound Design and Director of Social Impact at Arnold Worldwide. Michael shares his remarkable journey from music production to advocating for social change within the corporate realm.

Despite facing challenges as a marginalized individual at the beginning of his career, Michael found solace and encouragement at Arnold, where he’s empowered to utilize his advocacy skills with gusto. However, getting to where he is now required the courage to quit a prior job that delivered more harm than growth. And it also required an attitude of being open to exploring opportunities that presented themselves, including entrepreneurship, with a collaborative spirit.

Michael emphasizes the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in fostering spaces for social impact. He highlights the transformative (not performative) initiatives he’s created and led with his team and the significance of grace and empathy while at work, particularly during tumultuous times like the pandemic. As he shares his lived experiences as a person of color who is part of the LGBTQ+ community he stresses the necessity of finding supportive communities, embracing intersectionality, and committing to personal growth through ongoing conversations about diversity and inclusion.

It becomes evident as Michael’s story unfolds, that leading with genuineness not only opens doors but also fosters meaningful connections that drive positive change. He delivers a powerful message: in a world yearning for social impact, authenticity is the catalyst for creating lasting and meaningful transformation.

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When you lean into culturally sound content creation with heart, people will show up to support you. In this episode of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY," Chris Majocha and Samí Haiman-Marrero sit down with Marky Marcano, the Founder and CEO of The Marky Marcano Productions and MMTV Studios to talk about how staying true to our roots and understanding audience preferences inform the continuous development of content…successfully. 

Marky's journey as a Producer, TV Host, and culturally mindful Content Creator has been nothing short of remarkable. His stewardship of culture and tradition, as well as his impact as a Puerto Rican in the diaspora, has earned him the affection of loyal fans. “Even though I live in Florida, every time I visit Puerto Rico and I’m interviewed, my friends and relatives in my hometown knock on each other’s doors to make sure they tune in to see me on TV. Having that kind of support is priceless and very humbling,” Marky shares.

With over 14 years of experience, Marky has seamlessly transitioned from his early days in radio to embracing digital technology and podcasting in recent years. His dedication to his craft has earned him prestigious recognitions in his native Puerto Rico such as the Premios Paoli Award, among others.

Every Monday, without fail, Marky broadcasts the Marky Marcano Show LIVE, showcasing his persistence, genuine love for community, and unwavering self-confidence. He just recently reached a major milestone –producing his 500^th show. He marvels, “Imagine that! I started using my cell phone to create content. It was very hard to start, but now I have this platform to do what I love and share it with others.”

Despite his global reach and success, Marky remains grounded in his culture and values. A champion of new talent, he opens doors and his generous collaborations with fellow creators is a testament to the power of authenticity and perseverance in achieving success while staying true to one's humanity. He’s a fervent advocate for social causes and the arts, using his platform to invite the community into meaningful discussions and always ensuring to present a positive spin on trending topics to empower the Latino community.

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🎙️ Coming Soon: Issues2Impact

Chris Majocha and I want to make an exciting announcement! We'll be teaming up with our esteemed colleagues and friends, Dr. Xaulanda Simmonds-Emmanuel and Valerie Solomon on launching a brand new venture that's set to make waves in the community! Join us as we introduce " Issues2Impact," a spin-off podcast where we will tackle real-world challenges head-on.

In this special episode of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY," we dive deep into the purpose and goals of " Issues2Impact." Together, we'll be leveraging our collective expertise in nonprofit consulting, content creation, leadership development, and business to provide invaluable guidance to founders, professionals, and leaders who are eager to make a positive impact in their communities.

Our mission is simple yet powerful: to address recurring issues, offer solutions, and create a supportive community of like-minded individuals who are committed to driving change. Whether it's overcoming obstacles in business, navigating organizational challenges, or finding innovative ways to drive social impact, we're here to lend our expertise and support every step of the way. NOTE: Here’s an open invitation to anyone facing a challenge in the work they do. You can simply DM any one of us and we can schedule you as a guest. Let us be your expert sounding board!

What sets "Issues2Impact" apart is our genuine commitment to fostering collaboration and open-mindedness. We're not just here to talk – we're here to take action and create meaningful change by helping leaders address the issues that keep them from moving forward with their impact. From engaging the community and fundraising to encouraging real, honest dialogue, our new podcast will serve as a beacon of inspiration and empowerment for all who tune in.

So, if you're ready to join us on this incredible journey of growth, learning, and impact, check out the specs of what we plan to do in "Issues2Impact." Together, we'll turn challenges into opportunities and pave the way for a brighter, more inclusive future. We can make a difference, one issue at a time.

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Accentism is a thing…a discriminatory or unfair treatment centered on a person’s accent or use of a language. It can represent a barrier to many, but not for Ana Carolina Salazar. To her, it’s an advantage.

In this episode of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY" Chris Majocha and I sit down with the Founder and CEO of BOLD Digital + Hispanic Marketing Agency and as we dive into her inspiring journey of moving to the U.S. from Venezuela as a teenager, not knowing the language, and navigating the challenges of adapting to a new life in a new culture with a new family…well, let’s just say we quickly agree that Ana is no pushover.

Ana opens up about the emotional experience of losing her mother, and how she and her sister came to the U.S. to live with their father, who had remarried. As an English language learner, Ana recounts both funny and challenging anecdotes that shaped her early days in the United States. Despite the initial struggles, Ana now commands English fluently and has been recognized for her outstanding work as a Latina entrepreneur.

Last year, Ana decided to launch her own podcast, "Hablamos Spanglish," where she explores the personal journeys of people who like her, have been oftentimes challenged by how they are perceived and who have bulldozed their way through obstacles that try to get in the way. She not only celebrates her culture and its diverse voices, showcasing the evolution of her accent from a perceived weakness into a strength – her podcast now expands into English, connecting even more souls with the shared story of resilience, passion, and victory!

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Hey there, FAMILIA! This is a biggie. We just recorded a special milestone episode of our award-winning podcast "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY." Can you believe it's our fifth year already? Time truly flies when you're engaged in meaningful conversations.

As we kick off this anniversary celebration, I've got someone special joining me – none other than my incredible co-producer and now co-host, Chris Majocha. Yes, you heard it right! Chris will be stepping into the limelight as we embark on this new chapter together.

Let me take you down memory lane for a moment. Chris and I crossed paths during a board meeting at an arts organization. I was passionately advocating for historically excluded communities, and it seems my unapologetic stance caught Chris's attention. We share all the juicy details of our first encounter and how a lunch invitation followed. Little did we know that encounter would blossom into a profound and loving friendship that feels like family.

Fast forward to the Spring of 2018, and together, we launched "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY." Over the years, we've been honored to host guests from incredibly diverse backgrounds, bringing you unfiltered opinions and raw authenticity.

To mark this milestone, Chris and I decided to give the podcast a facelift and, in a moment of spontaneity, we decided to "renew our vows" on air. The result? Well, let's just say it took Chris by surprise, and our ad-libbed moment turned out to be both funny and heartfelt.

So, without further ado, welcome to "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY" – where we promise to deliver genuine conversations about real issues. If you're tired of the same old canned answers, you've landed in the right spot. Buckle up for a rollercoaster of diverse perspectives.

Join us as we dive headfirst into topics that impact our lives daily – from the boardrooms to the streets. Get ready to hear real people cut through the B.S. and deliver the discussions you've been waiting for.

Thank you for being part of this incredible journey with us. Here's to many more years of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY"!

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I met him at a recent business networking event and was immediately attracted by his energy…everyone is. He’s a people magnet because he loves us all. In this insightful episode of I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, I have a conversation with Dr. Gary Montoute, affectionately known as Dr. G, a trailblazer in the field of IT with a passion for human-centered leadership. In a world often perceived as data-driven and sterile, Dr. G has carved a path that puts people at the forefront of success. For him, nurturing people is at the heart of IT.

Dr. G shares his journey of transforming workplace environments into hubs that invest in the development of individuals. His current triumph is building the most diverse team in his company, proving that inclusivity is not only a moral imperative but a strategic advantage. He believes that human-centered leadership begins with a profound ability to listen—with an open mind and heart. He dives into the significance of introspection and the impact of self-reflection in contributing to a better society that benefits everyone.

One key takeaway is the profound significance of removing judgment from the act of listening. Dr. G emphasizes that true human-centered leadership begins with a non-judgmental approach to understanding others. By setting aside preconceived notions and biases, we open ourselves to a deeper connection with those around us. Dr. G encourages listeners to cultivate genuine curiosity and empathy, fostering an environment where individuals can express themselves authentically. In removing judgment from the listening process, we not only enhance our understanding of diverse perspectives but also contribute to the creation of inclusive spaces where every voice is valued. It's a transformative mindset that Dr. G believes is essential for building stronger, more harmonious relationships in both professional and personal spheres.

Mentorship and meditation, according to Dr. G, are also integral components of human-centered leadership. They create spaces for individuals to comprehend one another and, equally crucial, to understand themselves. As we approach the close of the year and the dawn of 2024, Dr. G's insights couldn't be more timely, especially in the context of the ongoing global challenges and the upcoming U.S. general elections, proving that leadership rooted in humanity has the potential to shape a brighter future for us all.

In the intricate landscape of business ecosystems, a myriad of challenges often prevails—from oppressive rhetoric to limited opportunities, inhumane personalities, and a pervasive culture of fear. Yet, amidst this, there are beacons of change and transformative leadership. In this episode of "I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY," I have a profound conversation with Deloria Nelson-Streete, a luminary in the realm of human resources, diversity and inclusion, and employee relations.

With a wealth of experience spanning over 20 years, Deloria is not just the Founder of ACE Solutions; she is a fervent advocate for authentic, creative, and effective workforce transformation. The focal point of our discussion revolves around her exceptional ability to consistently lead with love—a quality that stands as a potent antidote to the oppressive rhetoric, draconian policies, inhumane personalities, and the pervasive culture of fear that often plagues business environments.

Deloria underscores the importance of fostering a sense of belonging in the workplace by embracing the mantra "Come as you are." She emphasizes the risk inherent in stifling individuals from being their authentic selves, asserting that professionalism is rooted in behavior rather than superficial attributes. "Being professional is about behaviors," Deloria asserts, challenging the conventional notions that perpetuate barriers based on appearances, beliefs, and social markers.

We discuss the impending transition to a new global majority in U.S. demographics, and the natural evolution in workplace dynamics as individuals from collective societies, where decisions are made for the benefit of the entire group, assume more prominent roles. This will herald an era of increased empathy, compassion, respect, and caring—emanating from the core tenet of love.

Acknowledging the inherent challenges of navigating close proximity with those holding opposing values, I candidly confess my struggle to Deloria. In response, she offers a profound perspective, encouraging the consideration that aspects of love, particularly respect for human dignity and grace, can be demonstrated from a distance. Establishing healthy boundaries, she asserts, becomes an act of love—to oneself and to others kept at bay to circumvent conflict.

Through Deloria’s insights, we glimpse a future where love becomes the cornerstone of workplace culture—a powerful force dismantling oppressive structures and nurturing an environment where authenticity, respect, and compassion flourish.

What started as a chance meeting at a wedding where she was tearing up the dance floor turned into a revelation about the lack of true representation in scientific research environments. In this episode of I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, my guest and now friend, Dr. Alex de Verteuil shares her journey from the vibrant diversity of South Florida to the less diverse landscape of Oregon where she pursued her Doctorate in Genetics.

This inspiring and enlightening conversation with an Afro-Latina geneticist who's breaking down barriers in the scientific realm delves into the critical topic of representation in STEM careers and why it matters. Driven by her experiences, Alex passionately discusses how systemic design, historically exemplified by events like the Three-Fifths Compromise of 1787, has perpetuated exclusion in scientific research. She emphasizes the impact of this exclusion on decisions that influence crucial aspects of our lives, such as health care.

We explore the importance of diverse perspectives in scientific inquiry and decision-making. Alex advocates for a space where questions are asked about the composition of decision-making groups, fostering a collaborative environment that considers a broad range of perspectives. "We are now more open to ask questions such as, 'Are the right people here to make this decision?', which leads to informed decision-making because we create a space where we can explore diverse viewpoints together," shared Alex.

She gives credit where credit is due for advancements that help people thanks to scientific research of years past. However, Alex also recognizes that it will take a lot more collaborative work to discover things that factor in missing data by bringing historically excluded populations into the fold (NOTE: Many claims supported by scientific research are void of true representation and are incomplete at best). This thought-provoking conversation highlights the transformative power of representation in shaping the future of science for the benefit of all humanity.