Episode 398: Picking a life instead of a career
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All I wish career guidance considered while helping people to pick a career - it's time to change our focus from the hamster wheel to a lifestyle choice
Why I have been bullied my whole life ... that's the alternative title and how I had to splinch myself to understand why others needed to do this to me.
This is the original workshop link to register which I'm sure will put you in touch for the next stages of the process:
https://www.zenchangeangel.com/lib5-challenge
The book:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/84016.The_Same_River_Twice?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=OAPvxzyCRn&rank=1
Which I've just remembered that Gloria Steinem edited! So there you go fill circle - two white exceptions I can think of...
Methods Blog:
https://drnaoiseoreilly.org/purple-learning-project/
Link for the image to go with this podcast:
https://drnaoiseoreilly.org/splinching-the-journey-of-staying-your-core-but-learning/
Splinchign explained : https://harrypotter.fandom.com/wiki/Splinching
All I wish career guidance considered while helping people to pick a career - it's time to change our focus from the hamster wheel to a lifestyle choice
Reading this book reminded me of the hell of private - posh school ... what should have just been an opportunity - why wasn't it? and why does dedication need to be private for there to be opportunity?
Book this podcast is inspired by:
All the Money in the World
Sarah Moore Fitzgerald
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57805402-all-the-money-in-the-world?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=0FHmTxbmlA&rank=5
Finding your tribe, not having friends at school, the different meanings of friends to different people, growing and changing groups - just keep experiencing and don't search for somewhere to belong outside yourself!
Quote:
"Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards." - Søren Kierkegaard
Inspiration: If I mention the word belonging this book should be included! It's an audiobook too
Belonging: From Fear to Freedom on the Path to True Community
Angel Kyodo Williams
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55384181-belonging?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=PKMRkn17KK&rank=5
What are white supremacists really trying to kill with their bombs?
We need to be selfish at a certain stage of our life and it would be better if we felt special - felt we had something to add to the world around us - achieved for ourselves so we can fully present for good relationships beyond our teen years...
How do we get to a place where we believe in something so much that we don't need revenge?
John Berger reads Ghassan Kanafani's 'Letter from Gaza'
https://youtu.be/-ThCEzFWLOQ
Ghassan Kanafani: The commander who never fired a gun
https://youtu.be/NvqcsbNyu-w?feature=shared
Two Holocaust Experience books:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Meaning?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=PAAPsoN6Bb&rank=1
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1617.Night?ref=nav_sb_ss_2_5
Music of the Concentration Camps:
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/horrors-holocaust-jewish-musicians-composed-songs-survival-terezin-180982704/
Follow your passions, what you are good at - your dreams
There is always a way back to education
don't make your dreams Plan B!
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How do you fit in and be unique at the same time... how to find your own style .. not just be a clone of the influencers? Comfortable but standing out too?
Get role models for questioning toxic masculinity
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