Podcast Summary
Exploring Kinky Dynamics in Classic Sex Positions: Incorporating power play, eye contact, and communication can make classic sex positions more exciting and intimate.
Incorporating kinky dynamics into classic sex positions can enhance intimacy and pleasure. During the episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse discussed three positions – cowgirl cowboy, doggy style, and missionary – and provided ideas to make them more exciting. Cowgirl cowboy offers eye contact and easy stimulation, while doggy style has inherent power play dynamics. Missionary position can be rebranded as surprising and sexy with simple adjustments. Remember, communication and consent are key in exploring new sexual experiences. Dr. Morse's new book, Smart Sex, is a comprehensive guide to boosting your sex IQ and owning your pleasure. She encourages listeners to start book clubs and engage in open conversations about sex. The episode was sponsored by Lelo, a brand known for creating beautiful, award-winning luxury sex toys.
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Exploring Unconventional Sex Positions: Emily Nagoski's new book, Smart Sex, offers tips on making conventional positions more exciting and pleasurable, emphasizing that everyone is a little kinky and encouraging experimentation.
The Sex with Emily community has a strong interest in sex positions, and Emily is catering to that interest by making conventional positions more exciting and pleasurable in her new book, Smart Sex. Emily emphasizes that everyone is a little kinky, as anything outside of conventional sex falls under the definition of kink. In the episode, she focuses on the cowgirl or cowboy position, where the receiver is on top and in control, and provides tips on how to make it more dominant and pleasurable for both partners. Emily encourages experimentation and exploration in the bedroom, and her book offers a comprehensive guide to various sex positions, their pros and cons, and ways to adapt them for different preferences and comfort levels.
Explore pleasure and power dynamics in the cowgirl position: The cowgirl position allows for clitoral stimulation, power play, dominance switches, and the addition of toys for enhanced pleasure. Try it on different surfaces for a kinkier experience.
The cowgirl position offers more pleasure and control for the vulva owner if they move their hips in circular motions or rock back and forth, allowing for clitoral stimulation. This position also allows for power play and dominance switches, as well as the addition of toys for enhanced stimulation. The receiver can lean back to expose their clitoris for self-stimulation, while the giver can stimulate their partner's clitoris. This position can be made even kinkier by taking it off the bed and onto other furniture, such as a chair. Overall, the cowgirl position offers a multitude of ways to explore pleasure, power dynamics, and kink.
Adding surprise and role play to your sex life: Incorporating new positions, surprises, and role play can bring excitement and intimacy to your sex life. Try rear entry with role play or missionary with dirty talk for new experiences and deeper connections.
Exploring new positions and adding elements of surprise and role play can bring excitement and intimacy to your sex life. Using furniture and trying positions like rear entry (doggy style) or missionary with a twist, can make sex feel fresh and fun. Rear entry can be less intimate due to lack of eye contact, but adding role play or stimulation can make it more intimate and pleasurable for both partners. Missionary position, often considered conventional, can also be kinky with the addition of dirty talk or other surprises. Remember, all fantasies are acceptable, and incorporating them, with your partner's consent, can lead to new experiences and deeper connections.
Explore and Communicate for Enhanced Sexual Experiences: Communication and exploration enhance sexual experiences. Dirty talk, focusing on erogenous zones, experimenting with props, and trying new fantasies can make even basic positions memorable.
Communication and exploration are key to enhancing sexual experiences. Many people don't talk during sex, and even simple moans and whispers can make a significant difference. Dirty talk, while intimidating for some, is just another form of communication and can be a turn-on for many. Additionally, focusing on often overlooked erogenous zones like the ears, nape of the neck, and inner elbow can add excitement to any position. Experimenting with kink play props and fantasies can also make even the most basic positions feel memorable and spicy. Lastly, choosing bread options like Hero Bread can help maintain health goals while still enjoying favorite bread products without the guilt.
Exploring Sexual Pleasure Beyond Lubes: Foster open communication and explore beliefs and desires for deeper sexual pleasure, rather than relying solely on external factors like lubes.
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Discovering Mutual Pleasure: Positions for Two Vulva Owners and Overcoming Height Differences: Effective communication, mutual pleasure, and collaboration are crucial for satisfying sexual relationships. Try positions like 69, Lotus, or using toys for mutual stimulation. Overcome height differences with shower benches or communication.
Effective communication and mutual pleasure are key components of a satisfying sexual relationship. Mikaela, a listener, asked for positions for mutual stimulation between two vulva owners. Doctor Emily suggested three options: 1) 69 position with variations, 2) face-to-face positions like Lotus, and 3) using toys such as pegging sets with built-in vibrators. Jamie, another listener, shared her challenge of having an extreme height difference with her partner, especially in the shower. Doctor Emily recommended using a shower bench for him to sit on and her to crawl on his lap for penetration. For those just starting with the show, Doctor Emily encourages listeners to share their progress and stories. Communication, curiosity, and collaboration are essential for both partners to enjoy sex and feel connected.
Exploring new positions and environments: Communicate, experiment, and keep things fresh for a satisfying sex life. Practice new positions and furniture safely to expand orgasmic potential.
Exploring different positions and environments, such as the shower or using household furniture, can enhance sexual experiences for couples. For those who can only orgasm with their legs together, practicing kegel exercises and experimenting with different body positions during masturbation can help expand orgasmic potential with a partner. Remember, the key to a satisfying sex life is communication, experimentation, and keeping things fresh. Don't be afraid to try new things and mix up your routine. Additionally, safety is important, so always test out new positions and furniture before engaging in intimate activities to avoid injuries.
Exploring different techniques and tools for enhanced orgasms: Mindfulness practices and experimenting with various positions and tools can lead to new ways of experiencing orgasms for individuals with vulvas, while stressing less about achieving an orgasm can improve overall sexual satisfaction.
Exploring different positions, techniques, and tools can enhance the orgasmic experience for individuals, especially those with vulvas who often require clitoral stimulation. The discussion also emphasized the importance of mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing and paying attention to the body's arousal patterns, to help individuals better understand their own sexual responses and discover new ways to orgasm. Additionally, the episode encouraged listeners to remember that sex and orgasms are not the only goals and that stressing over achieving an orgasm can detract from the overall sexual experience.