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    Friday Five: Midlife transformation and psilocybin, with Eleanor Mills

    enApril 22, 2022

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    • Embracing Change and Finding OpportunitiesFrom unexpected job loss to adapting to new realms, embracing change and finding opportunities can lead to personal growth and making a difference in the world.

      Life can take unexpected turns, and it's essential to adapt and find new opportunities. Eleanor Mills, a renowned journalist and editor, shared her experiences of being let go from her job at The Sunday Times after 25 years. She described it as a shock and a kind of bereavement, as her entire life had been focused on her career. However, she's now embracing midlife as an age of opportunity and has launched a platform called Noon to help other women do the same. Meanwhile, in a different realm, a crocodile can't stick out its tongue, and UnitedHealthcare offers flexible short-term insurance plans for budget-friendly coverage. Lastly, Bombas, a company known for its comfortable essentials, is committed to donating an item for every purchase made. These diverse stories remind us of the importance of embracing change and finding comfort in the unexpected.

    • Navigating midlife transitionsDespite success and energy, self-reflection and openness to new experiences are crucial for navigating midlife transitions, which can be long and complex but rewarding with the right resources and mindset.

      Life's transitions, whether expected or unexpected, can be challenging and disorienting. For the speaker, losing her job after 25 years in journalism was a significant moment that led her to reevaluate her life and seek a new path. She found a lack of resources and support for navigating midlife transitions, so she started a platform called Noon (www.noon.org.uk) to help others in similar situations. The speaker's personal experience of feeling depleted and in need of change, despite her success and energy, highlights the importance of self-reflection and being open to new experiences. The journey out of the "dark forest" of uncertainty and fear can be long and complex, but with the right resources and mindset, it is possible to find a new path and thrive.

    • Celebrating Women in Midlife as 'Queenagers'Embrace the 'Queenager' identity to challenge societal narratives, empower women, and inspire them to see midlife as a time of transition, purpose, and legacy.

      We need to reframe how we view and value women in midlife, or as "Queenagers." This term celebrates the optimism and power that comes with this stage of life, which is often overlooked due to gendered ageism and the male lens in media and society. Women in midlife are moving into their prime and deserve to be revered and celebrated for their sexuality, wisdom, and contributions. It's essential to challenge the societal narrative that devalues women as they age and encourages fear of aging, particularly for younger generations. By embracing the Queen Ager identity, we can empower and inspire women to see midlife as a time of transition, purpose, and legacy.

    • Embrace Change with CompassionDuring midlife change, practice self-compassion, lean on loved ones, embrace vulnerability, and be open to unexpected kindness. This process can reveal true friendships and create a platform for women's unique experiences and ambitions.

      Change, particularly in midlife, can be difficult and emotional. It's important to be gentle on yourself and practice self-compassion during this transition. Hearing that change is difficult from a compassionate source can be calming and allow for forgiveness. Embrace vulnerability, lean into loved ones, and be open to unexpected kindness from others. The process can also serve as a shakeout of friendships and reveal who truly supports you. For the future, aim to create a platform for women in midlife, as this pioneering generation has unique experiences and ambitions.

    • Women redefining what it means to grow olderWomen over 40 are earning more money than women under 40, challenging societal norms, and embracing entrepreneurship to pave the way for future generations.

      Women in the current generation, often referred to as "queen ages," are challenging societal norms and expectations around later life. Empowered by financial wealth and the ability to continue working, women are redefining what it means to grow older. This shift is evident in statistics, such as women over 40 earning more money than women under 40 for the first time in history. By embracing entrepreneurship and refusing to be defined by societal expectations, women are paving the way for future generations and changing the narrative around aging. This sense of empowerment and determination was expressed by the speaker, who is excited about her next act in life and the opportunities that come with it. Whether it's through starting a business or exploring new experiences, the queen age generation is proving that later life can be a time of growth and transformation.

    • Exploring the Healing Power of Magic MushroomsMagic mushrooms containing psilocybin can offer therapeutic benefits for trauma, PTSD, addiction, and mental health conditions through transformative experiences in a safe environment.

      The use of psilocybin, found in magic mushrooms, can help individuals dealing with trauma, PTSD, addiction, and other mental health conditions. Decca, a survivor of tragic events and cancer, shared her desire to try this therapeutic approach during a magic mushroom retreat in Jamaica, where it's legal. Her editor, Els, accompanied her as a friend and support, and both experienced profound personal growth. The retreat, which included taking controlled doses of psilocybin over several days, provided a safe environment for participants to explore their emotions and thoughts, leading to transformative experiences. This account highlights the potential benefits of psilocybin therapy for those seeking healing and personal growth.

    • Exploring emotional depths with magic mushroomsMagic mushrooms in retreat settings help individuals connect with emotions, experience happiness beyond material success, and provide opportunities for personal growth and emotional healing.

      The use of psilocybin, or magic mushrooms, in a controlled retreat setting can help individuals reconnect with their emotions and feelings, allowing them to experience happiness and love beyond material success. The process involves careful preparation, including honest sharing circles with fellow participants, and taking the dried mushrooms in capsule form with dark chocolate. The effects can be intense and include feelings of nausea, but also a sense of being filled with white light for moments of fear or darkness. The retreat setting provides a high ratio of support staff to participants, ensuring safety and guidance throughout the experience. Ultimately, the psilocybin retreat offers a unique opportunity for personal growth and emotional healing.

    • Exploring Inner Journeys with PsychedelicsPsychedelics can cause intense, unpredictable experiences leading to heightened sensory perception, emotional connections, and altered states of consciousness. While some find therapeutic benefits, risks are present and caution is advised.

      Taking psychedelic substances like mushrooms can lead to intense, inner journeys that bring about heightened sensory experiences and emotional connections. These experiences can vary greatly from person to person, with some reporting feelings of joy, wonder, and connection, while others may encounter fear, nausea, or distress. The effects of these substances are believed to result from the disruption of neural patterns in the brain, allowing for new connections to form and leading to altered states of consciousness. For some, these experiences can be therapeutic, helping to process trauma or provide a sense of profound spiritual connection. However, the unpredictable nature of these substances means that they always come with some degree of risk, and individuals should approach their use with caution and preparation.

    • Finding joy in unexpected placesEven in challenging experiences, there's potential for growth and happiness through finding joy in unexpected places, community support, and an open mind.

      Even in challenging experiences, there are moments of beauty and wonder to be found. The speaker shared a personal story of taking a psychedelic substance and, despite the initial difficulties, experiencing a profound connection with nature and a sense of childlike wonder. This experience of finding joy in unexpected places was further emphasized through the discussion of weight loss with Noom, the celebration of mothers on Mother's Day, and the ability to find a taste of home through Airbnb and Burrow Furniture. The importance of community and support, as demonstrated by Decca's decision to take another dose of the substance with the retreat leader, also played a role in turning a negative experience into a positive one. Overall, the message is that even in difficult situations, there is potential for growth and happiness if we approach them with an open mind and the support of those around us.

    • Exploring the psychedelic experienceThe psychedelic journey is a deeply personal exploration that can lead to profound insights, growth, and new perspectives on life. Preparation, setting, and mental and emotional readiness are crucial for a positive experience.

      The psychedelic experience can be both incredible and challenging, requiring careful preparation and a supportive environment. During such experiences, individuals may gain new perspectives on themselves and their lives, sometimes addressing past traumas and finding joy and happiness as a result. However, these experiences can also bring up intense emotions and fears, highlighting the importance of setting and setting and being mentally and emotionally prepared. For some, the journey may involve significant personal growth, while for others, it could be a last resort to deal with deep-seated issues. Regardless, the experience can lead to a renewed sense of self and a newfound appreciation for the present moment. The use of phrases like "not our dogs" can serve as a reminder to let go of unnecessary burdens and responsibilities. Overall, the psychedelic experience is a deeply personal journey that can lead to profound insights and growth.

    • Discovering one's true purpose through a psilocybin experienceThe speaker found new meaning in life after a difficult period, using psilocybin to connect with the universe and rediscover her true self, leading to a renewed sense of purpose and joy.

      The speaker's experience with psilocybin helped her discover her true purpose in life during a difficult time. After losing her job at The Sunday Times, she felt a profound sense of sadness and identity crisis. However, during a psilocybin experience, she felt a deep connection to the universe and a newfound sense of joy and freedom. This experience helped her realize that she wanted to spend the rest of her life helping others experience similar transformations. She felt reawakened and reconnected to her true self, which had been lost amidst her focus on achievement. The painful process of transitioning to a new chapter in her life was likened to being pruned, but it ultimately allowed her to regrow with renewed purpose and vitality. The speaker is now certain that she is on the right path and is making a positive impact on others through her work. She believes that the psilocybin experience was integral to this transformation and has had a lasting effect on her life.

    • Exploring the depths of the mind with psilocybinPsilocybin can lead to personal growth and transformation, but it's a challenging process that's not for everyone. Some believe it has therapeutic potential, but addressing stigma and risks is crucial.

      Psychedelics, such as psilocybin, can lead to profound personal growth and transformation by revealing hidden aspects of the mind. This journey can be compared to a "hero's journey" or a deep introspection, but it's not for everyone and can be a painful process. The speaker, who has experienced this transformation after attending a suicide prevention retreat and using psilocybin, now meditates daily to reconnect with the sense of peace and understanding gained from these experiences. The speaker also believes that these substances have the potential to be widely used therapeutically, but acknowledges the challenges in addressing the stigma and potential risks associated with their use.

    • Exploring the profound impact of psychedelics on self and the worldPsychedelics can lead to deep insights, feelings of connectedness, and uncover hidden traumas. They require a safe and therapeutic environment and a strong sense of self and appreciation for love, gratitude, and interconnectedness.

      That psychedelic experiences, such as those induced by psilocybin mushrooms, can lead to profound insights and feelings of connectedness and gratitude. These experiences can help individuals access a deeper sense of self and appreciation for the world around them, as well as uncover hidden traumas and ancestral wounds. While the effects of these substances can be joyful and uplifting, they can also be challenging and dark. Therefore, it's important that such experiences are facilitated in a safe and therapeutic environment. The speaker emphasizes the importance of having a solid sense of self and a deep appreciation for love, gratitude, and the interconnectedness of all things as anchoring points during these experiences. The speaker also highlights the potential for psychedelics to reveal the impact of human actions on the planet and the importance of addressing the trauma and legacy of historical events, such as slavery and genocide. Overall, the discussion suggests that psychedelics have the potential to offer transformative experiences, but they require careful consideration and preparation.

    • Experience profound personal growth through retreats offering psilocybin-like effectsRetreats offer women a supportive group environment to explore vulnerability, experiment with self, and discover personal growth through methods like constellations therapy, forest bathing, and intense yoga. Noon Retreats, designed for women, have reported life-changing results.

      A retreat can provide a psilocybin-like experience through various methods such as constellations therapy, forest bathing, mindfulness, intense yoga, and crystal healing. Being in a supportive group environment where vulnerability and exploration are encouraged can lead to profound personal growth and transformation. Noon Retreats, specifically designed for women, aim to facilitate this experience and have received positive feedback from participants who report life-changing results. The retreat concept allows individuals to step away from their normal lives and experiment with a different version of themselves, ultimately leading to self-discovery and growth. For more information, visit the Noon Retreats website at www.noon.org.uk. The retreat experience is about women supporting each other and pushing the boundaries of aging, as we are only halfway through our lives.

    • Critically evaluating avocado heart health studyMedia reports on health and nutrition can be misleading, always evaluate studies critically, focus on reliable sources for accurate information.

      It's crucial to critically evaluate health-related news headlines and the data behind them before making dietary or lifestyle conclusions. A recent study claiming that eating one avocado a week can reduce heart disease risk by a fifth was widely reported in the media, but doctor Zoe Harcombe highlighted several key flaws. The study did not show significant results for women, the relative risk reduction was tiny (only 0.6%), and it failed to account for confounding factors like wealth. While avocados are indeed healthy, this study and its headlines should be viewed with skepticism. It's a reminder that media reports on health and nutrition can often be misleading and exaggerated. Instead, focus on reliable sources and a balanced approach to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

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