From People Pleasing to Unstoppable: Reclaiming Yourself and Expressing Your True Life w/ Carrie Campbell

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In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Uncovering the power of proximity to achieve success in business
2. Exploring strategies for mastering self-leadership and creating balance in everyday life
3. Understanding how to foster high performance and team engagement within a business.

👉Some key points: 

(02:34) How The Vault started two years ago today. The importance of clarity of vision as well as laser-sharp focus
(05:24) Proximity as an important needle-mover in business: keep the right partners and associates by your side
(07:54) Becoming the leader you always wished you had: the critically important relationship to yourself
(10:35) It's not always about adding more things to your routine to find success.
Sometimes you need to focus on REMOVING resistance points instead
(11:28) Sonja shares a story about the difficulties she faced in her personal relationships while working on her dream business
(21:18) If you are struggling with your own business, and need someone in your corner, Sonja offers 1 on 1 coaching sessions which will take you to the next level

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❗Check out these unique offerings from Jenn:

👉Quiz - Why your coaching business isn’t working: https://geniusunlocked.coach/quiz/
👉Unlocking Your Intuition Meditation Challenge: https://geniusunlocked.coach/unlocking-your-intuition-challenge/
👉We have our 5 day masterclass quarterly. It's $37 for a regular ticket and $30 additional for VIP: https://geniusunlocked.coach/5-day-masterclass/

 In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. Learn how to use the power of the unconscious mind to create a life that one truly desires
2. Discover the science behind how your brain works in order to shift your identity and reprogram yourself
3. Explore the power of self-love, self-expression, money, and sex, when it comes to achieving success.
4. Use Jenn's techniques to identify how you might be projecting your own internal flaws onto external factors 

👉 Some key points: 

(03:51) Jenn gives us an overview of how she ended up with such an impressive resume
Extreme stress and struggles with infertility led Jenn to quit her corporate job
(11:53) What kind of people does Jenn work with? Anybody that aspires to be a coach or is already working as one; or anybody
that seeks to bring coaching skills into their own domain of life
(15:46) Lack of self-love and self-expression were some of the biggest Shadow aspects Jenn had to overcome in herself 
(20:39) We have nine areas of life. Somatic coaching can help you find out what negative thoughts and emotions are there causing your ailment. 
(22:30) What can we do TODAY to remove some of our unconscious blocks in spirituality, family life, sex life?
(29:26) Jenn's 23-mediation program includes neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), timeline therapy, energy work, coaching & more. This is a practical toolkit for utilizing your intuition. 
(32:23) Why you should NOT leave your comfort zone to reach your goals

🌎 Reach out to Jenn Beninger 

LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennbeninger
Website: https://thegoodlifecoach.com/207-2/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JennBeninger11/

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Do you want Sonja to help you win the mental game of High Performance and create Peak Energy and Time so you can Lead your business into 6+/7-figures?

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https://www.facebook.com/groups/thevictoriouscoachcollective/?ref=share_group_link
 

❗Join the 5-Day Identity Shift Challenge on January 29th-February 2nd in the Victorious Coach Collective. Join us by clicking on the link below 👇If you missed the start of the event, the recordings will still be available for you to watch until February 7th

https://www.facebook.com/groups/thevictoriouscoachcollective/

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How Carrie Campbell went from people pleasing and "surviving" to "thriving" and creating a successful life.
2. The four steps Carrie Campbell took to create lasting change in her life.
3. How the Unstoppable Woman Project helps women prioritize themselves and create sustainable success and happiness.

👉 Some key points: 

(03:10) Great success often has a shadow side to it: Carrie's dark night of the soul led her to an epiphany
From a tough family environment to an early abusive marriage, Carrie had to stop being a people pleaser. 
(06:47) Keys to get unstuck from an impossible situation: Step 1 is acceptance of your situation. Step 2 is awareness of your own feelings. Step 3 is taking accountability Step 4 is adaptation. So long as you move forward, it's OK to take 1 step at a time
(11:28) Once you leave behind your old life, you might find yourself socially isolated. A key task is to rebuild a new social network for yourself.
(14:46) After leaving her old life behind, Carrie experienced a rush of creativity and she was able to develop a success map for other women to use as well
(17:32) What are some of the most common struggles of the participants in the Unstoppable Woman program? 
78% of women see themselves as the last priority in their own life
(22:32) Carrie also coaches high-achievers, but has found that their problems are everybody's problems
(24:05) Carrie's project to tackle the problem of suicide: an app using video game technology, Carrie's mindset system and AI, with the goal of stopping teenage suicides and drug dependence
(31:13) People walk around with many unconscious narratives guiding their life. Carrie believes our lives would improve if we were made more aware.
(35:41) How to get in touch with Carrie to participate in her course. Check out the link in the show-notes that Carrie provided for The Vault listeners

🌎 Get in Touch With Carrie 
Check out her "The 4 Pillars of Mindset" course HERE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/734881726667564

Hour one goes over the basics of the unconscious mind and what we need to understand about how it impacts our lives. The second hour presents the 4 pillars for taking back self-ownership, and the last hour breaks down a 30-day process to integrate the pillars as a journaling practice.

Website: http://www.brianandcarrie.live/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/carriecampbellwilliams/?hl=en
 

👉Some key points: 

What is a low-energy state and how it can be recognized?
What is a high-energy state and what are the thinking patterns and behaviors that we are looking for?
How GRATITUDE is a great way to re-center yourself and get out of a mental rut. 

🌎 Join the 5-Day Identity Shift Challenge on January 29th-February 2nd in the Victorious Coach Collective. Join us by clicking on the link below 👇 or Save your seat to join me on zoom:

https://www.sonjamartinovic.com/shiftyouridentity


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Do you want Sonja to help you win the mental game of High Performance and create Peak Energy and Time so you can Lead your business into 6+/7-figures?

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👉Some key points: 

(06:22) The problem with the the short-term approach: massive action is dependent on power of will and is thus not sustainable and can lead you to burnout very fast. 
Sonja shares her story about doing the 75-day challenge and what she learned about motivation through her experience. 
(08:36) Instead of the short-term approach, Sonja suggests a more sustainable, long-term tactic: Assuming the identity of the type of person you want to be. We are always in the "process of becoming." 

🌎 Join the 5 Day Identity Shift Challenge January 29th-February 2nd in the Victorious Coach Collective. Join us by clicking on the link below 👇 or Save your seat to join me on zoom:

https://www.sonjamartinovic.com/shiftyouridentity

🌎Connect with Sonja and join the Victorious Coach Collective

Do you want Sonja to help you win the mental game of High Performance and create Peak Energy and Time so you can Lead your business into 6+/7-figures?

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📌There's a free One Minute Checklist to identify your own strengths and weaknesses in Presentation Skills here: https://speakingandpresentationskills.com.

📌Also check out :
"The Man Who Gave Away His lottery Win" on Amazon UK.

👉 Some key points: 

(02:04) Philip's story so far, in his own words
Phillip started out in sales and found great success by using his own unique method
The key was helping prospects visualize what the benefit of Phillip's offer really was
(05:48) Success in sales and copywriting led Phillip to start his own training program
Phillip continued to defy people's expectations when it comes to sales and presentation by using the element of surprise and originality
(08:24) How to identify what is the RIGHT message to get out there and how to get it to your prospects
The right message is NOT what you DO, but how you benefit your customer, and your customer's customer
Always have a 15 second elevator pitch, ready to go: goal is to get them to say TELL ME MORE!
Always ask: how is my offer benefitting the business I am selling to?
(12:35) Phillip does a live elevator pitch
(16:28) How to START a presentation and really captivate people from the get-go
Communication is not about the TRANSMISSION, it's about how it is received and understood
Surprise them, engage them and close them using the AIDA model
(23:03) The biggest destroyer of presentations is BAD SLIDES! Don't ask your audience to read and listen at the same time
(26:03) Once you engage successfully, How to KEEP an audience captivated: tell a story
(28:42) A speaker Phillip admires is Les Brown
(34:25) Closing thoughts. Everything you do is personal PR. What are you really saying about yourself to the world?

🌎Reach out to Phillip

Website: https://phillipkhan-panni.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/phillipkhanpanni/?hl=en
Twitter: @PKPWordsmith

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Podcast production by Everglade Media

Some key points 

(02:05) Who is Paul Ross? Paul Ross explains his very unusual background in his own words. Going from a pick-up artist to applying neuro-linguistic programming to sales
(06:34) Defining subconscious communication and how to master it
(09:52) What are negative hallucinations?
(12:34) How to REALLY grab people's attention in an age of constant distractions
(14:17) Paul shares a client case study
(16:21) How to sell through Paul's specific way and make it more spiritual practice
(20:20) Some tactics for improving your sales, your marketing and your copy
(24:38) The Invisible Influence Series
(26:27) Some useful tactics for persuasion. Fine-tune your self-perception and ground yourself in your body
(29:31) Paul's technique for improving your leadership skills
(32:15) Paul's decision making process. What assumptions are you making about your decisions?
(35:52) What's the best advice Paul ever got from a mentor?

Connect With Paul Ross

Check out Paul's  5 part Invisible Influence series: Text COMPEL to 411-321 if in the USA.
Outside the USA use WhatsApp to text COMPEL to 1-909-741-1321

Connect with Sonja and join the Victorious Coach Collective

Do you want Sonja to help you win the mental game of High Performance and create Peak Energy and Time so you can Lead your business into 6+/7-figures?

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Some key points: 

(02:32) Sonja shares a personal epiphany about dealing with negative emotions
(03:37) We have systems for everything, and they can be improved 
(04:22) In order to have great results, you need to manage your energy and health correctly 
(07:19) The seven levels to create a week of success. Level #1: Rewind the tape
(07:57) Level #2: State your number 1 priority for the end of the week
(08:35) Level #3: Fast-forward 2 weeks and clear the personal "landmines"
(09:43) Level #4: Review your schedule and decide on the things that are NOT getting done
(11:13) Level #5: Define the priority goals that will really move the needle for your business
(14:05) Level #6: Approach things with the right attitude
(15:33) Level #7: Measure accountability and continous improvements

Connect with Sonja and join the Victorious Coach Collective

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Today’s guest is living proof that one can pursue one’s passion in life, and do so while making a profit as well. Matt McWilliams worked with some of the top companies and entrepreneurs on the planet such as Shark Tank’s Kevin Harrington, Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi, Kim Walsh Philips, Ryan Levesque, Michael Hyatt, Claire Diaz-Ortiz, Lewis Howes, Brian Tracy, Jeff Walker and more. He’s here to help you on your quest to turn your passion and message into a profitable and growing business. He’s been through the startup phase multiple times in the past two decades and has built a following from scratch. Today, he lives out his passion for helping others find their purpose, passion, message, and path to profitability. He’s the host of The Affiliate Guy Podcast, your source for affiliate marketing news, tips, and strategies to take your online business to the next level.

Some key points: 

(02:27) Like many of us, Matt got into his line of work almost by accident  
(06:34) No matter who you are, you can be sure: the world needs YOUR message 
(07:53) The meaning of the name "Affiliate Guy"  
(11:23) Some tactics to get very clear on your passions and direction. Some key questions to ask.
What are people asking you help for? What is interesting about you?  
(15:26) Many people don't believe their voice is important. How to overcome this obstacle?  
(22:33) Picking a niche: how to avoid going too specific or too broad.  
(30:18) Building a following from scratch: some tactics for standing out
(36:27) How to reach out to Matt and how to get his book (check out the exclusive affiliate link!)
(38:33) The biggest obstacle holding you down in business 

Connect with Matt McWilliams

Turn your Passion into Profits (book)  
Special link for The Vault listeners: 
www.passionsintoprofitsbook.com/sonja

Twitter
https://twitter.com/mattmcwilliams2
Homepage 
https://www.mattmcwilliams.com/

Connect with Sonja

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Stephen McGarvey is an international speaker, an expert on persuasion and influence, and the founder of a boutique consulting firm, Solutions In Mind. He assists corporations and audiences around the world in solving difficult communications problems by guiding them on an engaging, fast-paced, fascinating journey inside the unconscious mind. His new book is the USA Today and Wall Street Journal #1 Best Seller Ignite a Shift: Engaging Minds, Guiding Emotions and Driving Behavior. Learn more at solutionsinmind.com.

Some key points: 

(02:20) How Steven came to write his book "Ignite a Shift: Engaging Minds, Guiding Emotions and Driving Behavior."
(04:11) How to influence people and maintain your integrity at the same time
(06:20) The risks associated with marketer's using manipulative tactics to influence others
(10:28) What are some signs to look out for if you think you're being influenced
(16:21) People struggle with making decisions.
(18:31) How can high achievers maintain a sense of meaning? Focus on the WHY?
(23:17) Don't focus your energy so much on what you DON'T want, but what you DO want
(26:50) Handling objections: some tactics for shifting the perspective of your clients
(31:06) Steven's upcoming e-course to support Ignite a Shift
(32:55) Steven shares an inspiring case study. Using hypnosis to remove a life-long phobia
(41:55) People tend to repress negative emotions. We should embrace them instead.

Connect with  Steven

Ignite a Shift: Engaging Minds, Guiding Emotions and Driving Behavior (Morgan James Publishing, July 2022).
Learn more at solutionsinmind.com.

Connect with Sonja

Do you want Sonja to help you grow your service based business and convert your following into clients. Book a free  Business assessment strategy call here:

https://linktr.ee/sonjamartinovic