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    How To Be An Optimist with Pat Berges

    enNovember 01, 2022
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    Podcast Summary

    • Building Meaningful Connections and CollaborationsPrioritize relationships and collaboration over competition, especially during challenging times. Successful businesses streamline communication and work together, while individuals and companies can make a positive impact through partnerships.

      In today's interconnected world, it's essential to prioritize connections and collaboration over competition, especially during challenging times. US Cellular encourages us to put down our phones and focus on building meaningful relationships. Successful businesses, like those using Slack, understand the power of working together and streamlining communication. Picasso simplifies the process of co-owning a vacation home, allowing families and friends to come together. Even in the face of adversity, individuals like Pat Burgess and companies, such as the one producing ventilators during the pandemic, can learn the importance of partnership and collaboration to make a positive impact. Ultimately, having a clear sense of purpose and working towards common goals can lead to more meaningful and intentional decisions.

    • The power of optimism and resilience in overcoming challengesEven in the face of adversity, focusing on small victories and practicing optimism and resilience can help one overcome challenges and maintain a positive mindset during recovery.

      Even in the face of adversity, resilience and optimism can help one overcome challenges. The speaker shares his personal experience of a near-tragic accident that left him with severe pain and the subsequent struggle to maintain a positive mindset during recovery. Initially, he found himself stuck in a cycle of negativity, using curse words as his first words every day. However, he realized the importance of self-talk and incentivized himself with small rewards to break this pattern. He also learned to take things one day, or even one minute, at a time to make the process more manageable. This experience highlights the power of optimism and resilience in overcoming hardships and inspires us to focus on the small victories along the way.

    • Allow yourself to feel and process emotionsPractice acknowledging and experiencing negative emotions through visualization, meditation, gratitude, and consciously thinking about positive support to help heal and move forward.

      Allowing yourself to acknowledge and experience negative emotions, rather than suppressing them, is crucial for healing and moving forward. This can be done through various practices such as visualization, meditation, and gratitude. Taking time each day to feel and process emotions, picture yourself healing, and focus on the positive can help re-center you and remind you of what's important. Additionally, consciously thinking about all the good vibes and love being sent from others can provide emotional support and help you receive and heal. Remember, it's okay to allow yourself to be human and experience a range of emotions, and using these strategies can help you move beyond them.

    • The Power of GratitudeFocusing on positivity through gratitude meditation can help individuals cope with challenges and improve overall well-being. It can lead to hope, inspiration, and personal growth during difficult times.

      Practicing gratitude can help individuals overcome challenges and improve their overall well-being. Pat shared his personal experience of using a gratitude meditation practice to cope with a broken spine and make remarkable progress in just a few months. By focusing on positive vibes and breathing in love and care from loved ones, while breathing out negative thoughts, he was able to fill his "gas tank" with positivity and start his day. This practice helped him get through the darkest moments and eventually led to a quicker recovery. The power of gratitude should not be underestimated, as it can lead to hope, inspiration, and even personal growth during difficult times. Pat's journey serves as an inspiring reminder of the transformative effects of gratitude and the resilience of the human spirit.

    • Choosing our attitude and impactDespite adversity, we can choose to focus on helping others, express gratitude, and make the most of our time.

      Even in the face of adversity, we have the power to choose our attitude and the impact we have on others. The speaker's experience with a neck injury led him to focus on helping others, instilling compassion and gratitude in his children. He encourages us to remember that challenges are a part of life, but how we respond to them is within our control. The speaker's favorite quote, "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened," reflects his perspective on embracing life's ups and downs. By focusing on the present and expressing gratitude for what we have, we can make the most of our time. The hourglass symbol in his office serves as a reminder of the limited time we have and the importance of using it wisely.

    • Building community and human connection during organizational changeEmpower individuals to drive change, validate strengths, and foster courage to overcome self-doubt and innovate during organizational transitions

      During times of organizational change, such as mergers or cultural initiatives, it's essential to focus on building community and human connection among employees. Trust and communication are key to overcoming mistrust and competition. There's no one-size-fits-all solution for improving culture, so it's important to tackle issues at a local level and empower individuals to drive change. Inspiration and courage are contagious, and leaders can foster these qualities by validating and encouraging their team members. Even small acts of empowerment, like recognizing someone's strengths and abilities, can make a significant impact. Remember, courage comes from the outside, and fear comes from within, so leaders can help their teams overcome self-doubt and develop the courage to take risks and innovate.

    • Learning to solve problems and stay optimisticRegardless of age, solve problems with determination and optimism. Believe in your ability to make a difference and inspire others with your positive attitude.

      No matter how young or old you are, if you encounter a problem, don't just complain about it – take action to solve it. Pat, the storyteller, learned this valuable lesson when she was a child, as she struggled with coloring the world correctly according to her perception. Despite facing ridicule from her classmates, she was encouraged by her mother to find a solution instead of giving up. Pat's determination led her to write a letter to the CEO of Crayola, suggesting the addition of named markers. Her idea was adopted, and she received a package of markers with her name on them, marking the beginning of a new era for Crayola. This experience instilled in Pat the belief that everyone has the power to make a difference, regardless of the size of the problem. Additionally, optimism, like color perception, is not always an innate strength. Some people naturally see the world through optimistic lenses, while others must work at it. Regardless, with effort and determination, anyone can develop a system for optimism and approach life with a positive attitude. As Ben Zander, the conductor, defines success – by the number of shining eyes around us, inspired people who are engaged and contagious in their optimism. So, let's all strive to be problem-solvers and optimists, and surround ourselves with those who inspire us.

    • The power of relationships fuels courageRelationships and support fuel courage, making us stronger and more resilient. Practice inhaling gratitude and exhaling fear to manage daily stresses and challenges.

      Having the courage to face difficult situations is not something we can dig up from within on our own, but rather, it's often fueled by the support and encouragement of others. When we feel that someone has our back, we are more likely to find the courage to do remarkable things. Conversely, when we feel alone, courage can be harder to come by. Fear is something we can deal with on our own, but success is a team sport. Breathing in the gratitude of the relationships and support in our lives, and exhaling the belief that we have to do everything ourselves, can help us become better leaders, friends, family members, and happier individuals. This practice of inhaling gratitude and exhaling fear can be done anywhere, and it's an effective tool for managing daily stresses and even getting through physically demanding situations. Overall, the power of relationships and the support of others can give us the courage to face our fears and challenges, making us stronger and more resilient.

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