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    How to Negotiate Like a Stripper

    enDecember 14, 2023

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    • Unionization of Strippers: A Remarkable VictoryWorkers, regardless of industry or occupation, have the power to unionize and demand better wages, benefits, and working conditions.

      The power of collective action and unionization can bring significant change and improvements, even for unconventional workers such as strippers. The strippers at Star Garden in Los Angeles, who were previously struggling with inconsistent wages and poor working conditions, successfully unionized with the Actors' Equity Association after a long and grueling battle. The unionization not only brought financial stability but also created a sense of community and camaraderie among the dancers. Lilith, a television writer and stripper, shared her experience of turning to stripping as a backup gig due to the unpredictability of the television industry. She highlighted the sales aspect of the job, where strippers not only perform on stage but also sell lap dances and push drink sales on the floor. The unionization process began when Lilith and her colleagues felt the need for better wages, benefits, and working conditions. They came together, organized, and fought for their rights, ultimately leading to the historic unionization of strippers in the United States. This story serves as a reminder that no matter the industry or occupation, workers have the power to come together and demand better working conditions and fair wages. The unionization of strippers at Star Garden is a testament to the strength and resilience of workers when they stand together.

    • Challenges faced by strip club dancersStrip clubs present numerous safety and financial challenges for dancers, including uneven flooring, rusty equipment, lack of control over earnings, and circumvented labor laws, leading to dancers taking home a small percentage or even losing money. Diversity in dancer rosters is also a concern.

      The strip industry, despite being a large business with over $7 billion in revenue in the US, can be shady and present numerous safety and financial challenges for dancers. Dancers often face issues such as uneven flooring, rusty equipment, and a lack of control over their earnings, with some clubs taking large cuts and requiring dancers to pay for their own costumes, makeup, and health insurance. Additionally, labor laws are sometimes circumvented, leaving dancers without protections such as workers' compensation, unemployment benefits, or anti-discrimination laws. These issues can lead to dancers taking home a small percentage of their earnings, and in some cases, even losing money. The lack of diversity in the dancer roster is also a concern, with some clubs not hiring black dancers. These challenges highlight the need for better regulations and protections for strip club dancers.

    • Dancers' safety concerns ignored, two fired for speaking upIgnoring employee safety concerns can lead to significant revenue loss and negative consequences for all parties involved.

      The safety concerns of dancers at Star Garden strip club were ignored by management, leading to two dancers being fired for speaking up. These concerns included customers being allowed to stay after closing hours, putting the dancers at risk of danger and potential exposure, as well as the inability to directly report dangerous situations to security. Frustrated by these incidents, 17 dancers signed a petition demanding the reinstatement of the fired dancers and addressing their safety concerns. The club, which heavily relied on the dancers, began to lose significant revenue as a result. This incident highlights the importance of prioritizing employee safety and addressing their concerns promptly to maintain a safe and productive work environment.

    • Empowerment comes from unexpected placesIndividuals can inspire change through innovative and determined approaches, whether it's unionizing or joining a grassroots movement, feeling proud and confident to make changes on one's own terms is key.

      Empowerment and change can come from unexpected places and in unexpected ways. Whether it's transforming one's personal appearance or joining a grassroots movement for social justice, feeling proud and confident to make changes on one's own terms is key. The strippers at Star Garden demonstrated this through their innovative and determined approach to unionizing and fighting for better working conditions. Similarly, the Margaret Casey Foundation Book Club offers a platform for thought-provoking discussions and learning from leading change makers, encouraging us all to reimagine and transform our world for the better. In both cases, the individuals involved refused to back down and instead chose to make their voices heard, inspiring change and making a difference.

    • Strippers' skills in engaging customers proved valuable during labor strikeStrikers successfully formed a connection with Actors Equity, on the brink of becoming first unionized strip club, highlighting universal worker issues and unique challenges of live performers.

      The skills strippers use in their profession, such as engaging with people and creating a welcoming atmosphere, proved invaluable during their labor strike. They successfully formed a connection with Actors Equity, who recognized them as workers deserving of a safe and equitable working environment. Despite facing legal challenges from their employer, the strippers persevered and were on the brink of becoming the first unionized strip club in the country. Their experiences highlighted the universal issues faced by workers, as well as the unique challenges of live performers, and Actors Equity was well-equipped to address these concerns.

    • Exceptional customer service and workers' rightsDiscover Card's top-notch customer service with US-based reps and the Star Guardian strippers' unionization victory demonstrate the impact of exceptional service and collective action.

      Exceptional customer service and standing up for workers' rights can bring about significant victories. Discover Card offers unmatched customer service with 247 US-based live representatives, ensuring assistance whenever needed. Meanwhile, the Star Guardian strippers made history by becoming the first unionized strip club in the US, setting a precedent for other gig workers to organize and unionize. Their victory not only brought them better working conditions but also opened doors for other workers in similar industries. Both Discover Card and the Star Guardian strippers serve as examples of the power of excellent service and collective action.

    • Unexpected challenges at the opening of a unionized strip clubDespite initial obstacles, the unionized strip club is making progress and encouraging patrons to tip generously to support the dancers' fight for better working conditions.

      The opening night of the unionized strip club, Star Garden, faced unexpected challenges but was still a memorable experience for the dancers. These challenges included the removal of the ATM, high cover charge, and lack of tipping ability for some patrons. However, progress is being made with the return of the ATM and a decrease in cover charge. The dancers are currently negotiating a contract focusing on diversity and inclusion. To support the dancers, patrons are encouraged to visit the club and tip generously. Another strip club, Magic Tavern in Portland, Oregon, has also recently unionized, and the labor movement continues to gain momentum. Lilith, a dancer and union representative, advised other gig workers considering unionization to believe in their capacity to make a difference and stand together in the fight for better working conditions.

    • Community and solidarity are key to personal growth and changeBy coming together and supporting each other, individuals can overcome challenges and effect change, even in the face of capitalism's odds.

      Community and solidarity are essential for personal growth and bringing about change. Labor organizers, like those in the strip club discussed in the podcast, started as a worker who saw room for improvement and rallied others to make things better. This is true for various labor forces, including gig workers, strippers, and film crews. By coming together and supporting each other, individuals can overcome challenges and effect change, even when facing seemingly insurmountable odds from capitalism. The podcast emphasizes the importance of recognizing our interconnectedness and learning from each other to build stronger communities.

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