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    How to Sex Up Your Holidays

    enDecember 13, 2014
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    • Navigating Holiday Stress in RelationshipsThe holiday season can put pressure on relationships, but prioritizing communication and self-care can help couples navigate family dynamics and expectations.

      The holiday season can be a source of stress and tension for couples, especially when it comes to dealing with in-laws and family dynamics. The speaker shared her experience of choosing to skip Thanksgiving one year to take a much-needed break, and mentioned that she's noticed that holidays can put extra pressure on relationships due to the combination of family, gifts, and expectations. She also shared a personal story about her own family dynamics and the challenges of living up to certain expectations. Overall, the speaker's message is that the holiday season can be confusing and stressful, and it's important for couples to prioritize their relationship and communicate effectively to navigate any potential challenges that may arise.

    • Managing Expectations During the HolidaysAppreciate and love families, take care of ourselves, and prioritize well-being during the holiday season. Understand parents' actions and adjust our reactions. Intimacy is possible but prioritize privacy and personal space.

      People's behaviors and expectations towards their families during the holidays may not change, and it's essential to manage our own reactions and adjust our expectations accordingly. Our parents did the best they could with the skills they had, and their actions might be influenced by their upbringing. While it's essential to appreciate and love our families, it's also crucial to take care of ourselves and maintain healthy relationships. Additionally, the holiday season can be a time for intimacy, with nearly half of Americans admitting to having sex while hosting or staying with relatives. However, many prefer to stay in hotels to ensure privacy and personal space. Ultimately, the holiday season is an opportunity to connect with loved ones, manage our expectations, and prioritize our well-being.

    • Equality in household chores leads to better sex lifeWomen find partners more attractive when they help with chores, leading to stronger connections and increased intimacy. Equality, communication, and shared responsibilities are key to a satisfying sexual relationship.

      Sharing household chores contributes to a better and more fulfilling sex life for couples. According to recent studies, women are turned on by their partners who help out with domestic tasks. This equality in responsibilities leads to a stronger connection and more intimacy between partners. Additionally, the speaker shared personal experiences of having memorable sexual experiences at home, even with parents present, as long as privacy is respected. She emphasized the importance of open communication and maintaining friendships with exes. Overall, the discussion highlighted the significance of equality, communication, and shared responsibilities in creating a satisfying sexual relationship.

    • Effective communication and shared responsibilities in relationshipsCommunication, shared chores, active listening, and thoughtful gifts can lead to increased intimacy and appreciation in relationships

      Effective communication and shared responsibilities in a relationship can lead to increased intimacy and appreciation. The speaker shares an example of how splitting household chores can make women feel less overwhelmed and create space for more romantic activities. Additionally, the use of active listening skills and bringing thoughtful gifts, such as a nice bottle of wine, can help improve interactions with in-laws during the holiday season. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the importance of understanding and accommodating each other's needs and strengths in a relationship. The speaker's experience with her brother-in-law, who surprises and delights his partner by helping with home repairs, illustrates the power of small gestures to create a positive and intimate connection.

    • Prioritizing self-care and relaxation during the holiday seasonMake time for each other, engage in joyful activities, practice intimacy, and set boundaries to maintain a strong connection during the holiday season.

      During the holiday season, it's essential for couples to prioritize self-care and relaxation. This can include setting aside evenings for each other, engaging in activities that bring joy, and practicing intimacy, even when feeling stressed. It's important to remember that sex can be a way to improve mood and connection, and compromising on holiday plans can help reduce stress and maintain a healthy balance. Additionally, setting boundaries with family and other obligations can help ensure that the holiday season is enjoyable and focused on what truly matters. As one speaker put it, "Sex makes everything better." By prioritizing these self-care practices, couples can maintain a strong connection and make the most of the holiday season.

    • Managing Holiday Stress for Couples: Communication, Planning, and Unconventional GiftsCommunicate openly about family issues, support each other, plan and prepare for gifts, and consider unconventional gifts to minimize stress and enhance intimacy during the holiday season.

      The holiday season can bring about various sources of stress for couples, particularly when dealing with family dynamics and gift-giving. Regret and shame are common feelings, especially for men, regarding past experiences and pornography use. To minimize stress, it's essential to communicate openly with your partner about potential family issues and support each other during the holiday season. Additionally, planning and preparation, such as jotting down hints throughout the year for gift-giving, can help alleviate stress and ensure a successful holiday experience. Lastly, considering unconventional yet enjoyable gifts, such as sex toys and products, can add an exciting and intimate element to the holiday season.

    • Prioritizing Sexual Intimacy During the HolidaysGive and receive small, unexpected sexy gifts to prioritize intimacy and pleasure in relationships.

      Prioritizing sexual intimacy and pleasure in a relationship is important, especially during the holiday season. The speaker suggests that giving and receiving sexy gifts can serve as a reminder of the significance of a healthy sex life. She emphasizes that it doesn't have to be extravagant, even a small and unexpected sexy item can make a big difference. The speaker also shares a personal anecdote about receiving a toolkit as a gift, which turned out to be one of the best presents she ever received. She concludes by encouraging listeners to explore Adam and Eve's website for gift ideas and offering a special discount code for free gifts with purchase. Overall, the message is to prioritize sexual intimacy and pleasure, and to not underestimate the impact of small, thoughtful gifts in maintaining a satisfying relationship.

    • Sex toy tester discusses discreet vibrator and cringeworthy TV showWomen may appreciate a discreet, dual-function vibrator like the Crave Vesper, even wearing it as a necklace, despite the risk of accidental activation.

      The speaker, who tests various sex toys for her YouTube channel, has had some painful experiences but doesn't share them publicly for the sake of the show. She discussed an episode of a TV show called "Sex Sent Me to the ER," which features reenactments of people's sexual mishaps. The speaker found the acting in the show to be dramatic and cringeworthy. She then introduced the Crave Vesper, a gold-plated vibrator that doubles as a necklace, which she often wears but keeps hidden. The speaker emphasized the discreetness and beauty of the Vesper, and mentioned that some women might enjoy wearing it as a jewelry piece even if their partners are unaware of its dual function. She also shared that her boyfriend had used it on her during a hot session before a family gathering, creating a playful and unexpected dynamic. The speaker concluded by acknowledging the potential for the vibrator to turn on accidentally but found the risk worth taking for its aesthetic and functional appeal.

    • Discreet and Exciting Sex Toys as Holiday GiftsConsider gifting discreet, effective, and exciting sex toys like the Vesper, Jimmy Jane Form 2, or wireless options for a thoughtful and open present that adds excitement and adventure in the bedroom.

      Sex toys can make thoughtful and discreet holiday gifts. The speaker shared her experience with wearing a vibrator disguised as jewelry, the Vesper by Crave, which is a beautiful and effective vibrator that no one would suspect. She emphasized its discreetness and quietness, making it perfect for use even in professional settings. She also recommended the Jimmy Jane Form 2, a high-end, rechargeable, and waterproof vibrator that can be worn during intercourse. These toys not only add excitement to a partner's life but also signify an openness to new experiences and adventures in the bedroom. Additionally, there is a new trend in sex toys, wireless toys, such as the Bluemotion Bluetooth wireless vibe by Oh My Bod, which can be controlled remotely via Bluetooth or Wi-Fi, adding an extra layer of excitement and surprise. Overall, giving a sex toy as a gift shows thoughtfulness, openness, and a willingness to explore new experiences together.

    • Long-distance relationships: Bridging the gap with tech-driven intimacy toolsInnovative sex toys like panties with remote-controlled vibrators, We-Vibe 4 Plus, Stronic Zwei Pulsator, and Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit bring pleasure and intimacy to long-distance couples, improving communication and enhancing their bond

      Technology is transforming long-distance relationships with innovative sex toys designed for couples. One such toy is the panties with a remote-controlled vibrator, allowing partners to send "texts" in a more intimate way. Another popular option is the We-Vibe 4 Plus, a wearable vibrator that stimulates both partners during intercourse. Men also enjoy vibrations, contrary to popular belief. The Stronic Zwei Pulsator is another luxury toy that thrusts instead of vibrates, providing a unique experience for couples. Lastly, the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is a great gift for couples, helping men last longer during sex and providing a pleasurable experience for women. Overall, these toys enhance communication and intimacy in long-distance relationships.

    • Exploring Sex Toys for Enhanced ExperiencesSex toys like JimmyJane Form 2 Deluxe can enhance solo or partnered sex, improve stamina, provide unique sensations, and be discreetly kept for spontaneous use. Try new things to keep sex life exciting.

      Sex toys, such as the JimmyJane Form 2 Deluxe, can enhance solo or partnered sexual experiences. These toys can help improve last longer in bed and provide unique sensations. The speaker shares personal experiences and testimonials from others who have used the toys and found success. The toys can be discreetly kept around for spontaneous use, and can be presented as a gift with the excuse of "training" for your partner. The speaker also recommends purchasing lubes and suggests checking out SexWithEmily.com for a variety of sex toys and gift ideas. The overall message is to keep the sex life exciting and fresh, even in long-term relationships, by trying new things and being creative.

    • Preparing for unexpected situations during the holiday seasonFocus on positivity, hide vibrators, keep batteries separate, and try MeUndies for comfortable, eco-friendly, affordable underwear with a satisfaction guarantee.

      During the holiday season, it's important to prepare for unexpected situations when spending the night alone, such as making sure vibrators are hidden and batteries are kept separate. Emily, the host of Sex with Emily, emphasizes the importance of focusing on the positive and only recommending good products. She also shared her new obsession with MeUndies, the most comfortable underwear she's ever worn, which is environmentally friendly, affordable, and guarantees customer satisfaction. The episode also touched on Emily's experience in radio and her preference for positivity over negativity.

    • Seeking Support During Challenging TimesDuring life's struggles, seek support and guidance from trusted sources like Ross Mathews' podcast for honest advice, humor, and encouragement.

      Everyone goes through struggles in life, be it relationship issues, work problems, or personal challenges. During these tough times, it's essential to seek support and guidance from trusted sources. Ross Mathews, your friendly gay best friend, offers weekly pep talks to help you navigate life's challenges with honesty and humor. His podcast provides a safe space for those seeking advice and reassurance, making it an invaluable resource for anyone going through a rough patch. So, remember, no problem is too big or too small, and you don't have to face it alone. Tune in to Ross Mathews' podcast for a dose of tough love, humor, and encouragement.

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    The Orgasm Gap: How to Last Longer in Bed

    The Orgasm Gap: How to Last Longer in Bed
    Today’s episode answers the age old dilemma for men and women: How can I enjoy a more fulfilling sex life? Flooded by listener emails about dissatisfying sex lives, today’s show focuses on the “orgasm gap” between men and women. Men tend to arrive to the party earlier than women (on average) so how do we close this gap so everyone can have their fair share of orgasms? Women can have multiple orgasms, so why do men have 3 orgasms for every 1 that women have? So what is the exact definition of Premature Ejaculation (PE)? In the studio contributing to the dialogue along with Anderson is Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, the only FDA approved treatment for PE. Emily and Jeff define the difference between PE, ED  and how to know what’s going on with your situation. Jeff divulges his fascinating journey to launching the Promescent, and the personal and tragic story about the doctor who created this treatment for his patients. Emily shares the news about the innovative nail polish that  thwarts predators by detecting date rape drugs. With 1 in 5 women being sexualy assulted in their lives, it’s imperative to know how to better protect your wife, sisters and friends. A gay caller is concerned about his future and wants to know if he should start dating women to have a more “normal” lifestyle. Can you really switch horses in the middle of the stream?   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SWE: Alpha vs. Beta Male

    SWE: Alpha vs. Beta Male
    The first video promo for Missed Advised premiered last night (Emily makes out with two guys in it). Emily is also throwing a Kegel Kegger to celebrate her birthday and her iPhone app Kegel Camp. While you’re doing your Kegel exercises, win sexy prizes from Good Vibrations, drink some beer (or the beverage of your choice), and do a keg stand or two.Emily discusses the crazy places people want to have sex and professes her love for hotel room sex. Emily and Menace debate the Alpha Male vs. the Beta male-- who is better in bed and who is a better mate. Also, how to get out of the dreaded "friend zone." Nice Guys don't have to finish last, except in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Hotter for the Holidays: A Mash-Up

    Hotter for the Holidays: A Mash-Up
    On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a mash-up of holiday proportions – some of our favorite holiday shows wrapped into one for a very sexy time of year! She talks about why being single during the holidays can actually be a great thing, tips on warming up for some hot holiday sex, and some stats about holiday party hookups and sharing the household chores during the winter season. Happy Holidays! Follow Emilly on all social @sexwithemily  For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.