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    Is Wanting Money A Bad Thing? | The Desire For wealth & Why We Should NOT Feel Guilty About It!

    enSeptember 06, 2023

    About this Episode

    In this episode of the Mind Money Soul podcast, I'm going to be sharing my top tips on how to move through feelings of guilt, ick or shame, so you can feel excited about wanting more money.  

    We all deserve to create wealth. The more wealth we have, the better. Why? Because money is an amplifier. If you’re a good person, having more money is only going to benefit everybody around you. The more you have, the more it enables you to do the things you love and care about. To put it simply, money transforms the way you can show up in the world. 

    I want you to know that you are worthy of having and making money. You’re allowed to desire abundance and freedom, and repelling wealth is an act of self-sabotage. 'Wealth' doesn't have to mean being a millionaire, it can be as simple as an extra £10,000 a year. It's about being comfortable receiving and accepting more than you already have. 

    In this episode:

    • How to identify if your money mindset is self-sabotaging 

    • Discover how to use your money for good

    • Identifying the ‘why’ behind wanting more money 

    • The power of wealth

    • My big happy goals and why I want more money

    • How to fix feeling guilty about wanting more money

    • The importance of challenging your beliefs to create new possibilities

    Resources

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    Book a Money Mindset Exploration Session

    Get a copy of my FREE Monthly Spending Planner Template

    Get a copy of my FREE Money Date Template

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