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    • The Connection Between Nature and MindfulnessNature deepens mindfulness practices by inspiring presence, ease, and awareness, leading to ecstasy, joy, and personal growth.

      Mark Coleman, a meditation teacher and author, has found deep connection between nature and mindfulness practices. This connection was first noticed during his early meditation experiences in urban London, where he found that being in nature naturally drew forth qualities of presence, ease, and awareness. This connection grew stronger as he spent time in retreat centers and traveled to Asia to study with various teachers. However, it was not until he came to North America and immersed himself in the vast wild landscapes that he truly experienced the ecstasy, joy, and awe that nature can inspire. Mark's work now focuses on sharing these practices through Awake in the Wild, an organization that runs programs immersing people in nature, and through his books, including his newest, "A Field Guide to Nature Meditation." Overall, Mark's experiences demonstrate the profound impact that nature can have on mindfulness practices and personal growth.

    • Reconnecting with Nature for Meditation and Self-DiscoveryNature offers a powerful and accessible temple for meditation and self-discovery, promoting qualities like spaciousness, relaxation, and connection. Reflect on making nature accessible to all and challenging the commodification of nature.

      Nature can serve as an equally effective temple for meditation and self-discovery as traditional meditation halls. The speaker, Mark, shares how he was drawn to the outdoors and discovered that the qualities developed through meditation, such as spaciousness, relaxation, and connection, could be easily accessed in nature. He also highlights the historical significance of practicing in nature, as many spiritual traditions have done so for thousands of years. However, Mark acknowledges that not everyone has the same access to nature due to socioeconomic reasons. He encourages reflection on how we can make nature accessible to all, and how the "boujification" of nature as a leisure activity for the privileged can be challenged. Overall, Mark's experience underscores the importance of reconnecting with nature as a means of meditation, self-discovery, and spiritual growth.

    • Nature's importance goes beyond personal experiencesNature's benefits extend beyond personal experiences, but access is unequal, making efforts necessary to ensure all have access

      Nature transcends personal experiences and social constructs, as we are inherently connected to it. Growing up urban, some may view nature as an escape or a source of trouble, but historically, access to nature has been influenced by class and economic factors. Today, more than half of the world lives in cities, making access to green spaces a significant issue. However, nature can be found in everyday experiences, like the changing seasons or the smell of blossoms. Our brains are drawn to novelty, making outdoor environments beneficial for mental stimulation. Despite these benefits, not everyone has equal access to nature. Organizations like Outdoor Afro are working to increase diversity and access to nature for underrepresented communities. Overall, nature's importance extends beyond personal experiences and requires ongoing efforts to make it accessible to all.

    • Connecting with nature enhances attention, focus, and mental well-beingEngaging with nature, no matter the setting, can improve focus, reduce stress, and foster a deeper connection to the world around us.

      Connecting with nature, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant the setting, can significantly enhance our attention, focus, and overall mental well-being. This can be as simple as taking a walk around the block, looking up at the sky, or even observing a tree or a plant in your own backyard. The benefits of nature extend beyond our immediate surroundings, as it serves as a reminder that we are part of something much larger than ourselves. The release of phytoncides from trees and the expansion of our perspective can help combat the negative effects of becoming an indoor and screen-oriented species. Even the smallest encounters with nature, such as observing ants, spiders, or bees, can provide a sense of wonder and connection to the natural world. Ultimately, nature offers a doorway to expansion, presence, and a deeper appreciation for the interconnectedness of all living beings.

    • Learning from Nature's ChallengesExposing ourselves to nature's challenges can help cultivate qualities like resilience, steadiness, and humility, leading to personal growth and development.

      Embracing the harsh and uncertain aspects of nature, rather than avoiding them, can be beneficial for personal growth and development. Nature's power, whether it's in the form of storms, bugs, or wildlife, can help us cultivate qualities like resilience, steadiness, and humility. By exposing ourselves to the natural world's challenges, we can learn to let go of preferences for a pleasant environment and develop a deeper sense of respect and reverence for the power of nature. The doctor John DeLaney show, with its practical and direct approach, can provide valuable guidance for navigating life's challenges, making it a great complement to the Being Well podcast. Additionally, as we age, it's important to seek reliable sources of information for our physical health. The ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast, with its scientific expertise and guidance, is an excellent resource for making informed health choices.

    • Appreciating our interconnectedness with nature and lifeUnderstanding our connection to nature and other living beings can deepen our relationships and inspire us to treat the planet with care and respect

      Understanding our interconnectedness with the world around us, including nature and other living beings, can lead to a deeper appreciation for life and relationships. Stephanie's review of the ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast highlights the importance of science and understanding the impact of food on our bodies. Meanwhile, Mark's reflection emphasizes the significance of recognizing our connection to the natural world and all living things. By practicing this mindset, we can deepen our relationship with ourselves, others, and the environment, leading to a greater sense of awareness, sensitivity, and empathy. This perspective can inspire us to treat our planet with more care and respect, recognizing that every living thing, including ourselves, is part of an intricately connected web of life.

    • Connecting with nature's calming presenceImmersing in nature deepens our sense of connection to all beings and promotes a calmer nervous system response

      Nature serves as both a tangible refuge and a source of profound feelings of connection and oneness. As we spend more time immersed in nature, we begin to feel more at home in it and less as separate entities. This sense of coming home extends beyond the physical environment to our nervous systems, which respond positively to nature's calming presence. The language around seeking refuge in nature can be misleading, as we are already present in this refuge. Instead, we should focus on the feelings nature evokes, such as a sense of connection to all beings and a profound sense of awe. These feelings are an essential part of the experience and can be accessed through various natural settings or even through simple experiences like observing an orchid. Ultimately, the quality of our presence when engaging with nature is crucial in deepening our connection to it and experiencing its restorative effects.

    • Connecting with nature enhances presenceNature invites us to mellow out, calm down, and be present. Practicing meditation in nature can be a great way to start, and focusing on senses can cultivate natural contemplative awareness.

      The quality of our presence matters, and nature can help us cultivate it. When we're stressed, nature invites us to mellow out, calm down, get present, and breathe. Being outside is unboundedly fresh and changing, stimulating our brains and bringing us into the present. For those new to meditation, practicing in nature can be a great way to start. When moving through natural environments or even just throughout your day, slow down and be curious about your sensory experience. Look around, take in the colors, light, movement, shapes, and sounds. Let nature allure your attention into the present. By focusing on your senses, you can cultivate a natural contemplative awareness, which bridges formal meditation practice and life.

    • Mindfulness in nature: Reconnecting with the present momentPracticing mindfulness in nature can help reduce mental distractions and bring joy and appreciation to daily life through sensory experiences

      Being present in nature and bringing mindfulness to our sensory experiences can have profound benefits, even in our daily lives. We often overlook the fact that nature is all around us, from the food we eat to the materials in our homes. By practicing mindfulness in nature, we can reconnect with the present moment and reduce mental distractions. This can be as simple as noticing the sounds, smells, and sensations around us while going for a walk or sitting in a park. When we return from these nature-centered practices, we can bring the benefits of mindfulness into our daily lives by remembering that even mundane tasks and objects have a connection to nature. By staying present and mindful, we can find joy and appreciation in the natural world, no matter where we are.

    • Connecting with nature brings relaxation and inner harmonyConnecting with nature can help us find relaxation, presence, and inner harmony by allowing our inner ecosystem to self-regulate and learn from the natural world around us, leading to a more authentic and untamed way of living.

      Connecting with nature, whether it's through simple activities like making breakfast or gazing out the window, or through more immersive experiences like solo retreats, can bring a sense of relaxation, presence, and even the reclamation of the wild within ourselves. Nature exists as an untamed harmony, and by allowing our inner ecosystem to be self-regulating rather than constantly regulated by our executive systems, we can find inner harmony and learn from the natural world around us. This can lead to a more untamed, authentic way of living that is not harmful to others. In essence, nature has the power to help us forget ourselves and just be present in the moment.

    • Experience smallness and connectedness in natureMeditation in nature enhances focus, builds resilience, and fosters a sense of connection to the world around us.

      Practicing meditation in nature offers unique benefits for mental focus and connectedness to the world around us. Mark Coleman, a senior meditation teacher and author, emphasized the feeling of smallness and connectedness we experience in natural environments. Our brains, which are constantly seeking novelty, are particularly engaged by nature's inherent changes. This focus can help us move away from the default mode network and into a more task-oriented state of mind. Additionally, the intensity and chaos of natural environments can build resilience and help us explore different aspects of ourselves. Overall, incorporating nature meditation into our lives can provide a valuable counterbalance to the excessive screen time and sedentary lifestyles that are common in modern culture.

    • Connecting with nature for improved well-beingConnecting with nature, whether physically or emotionally, can enhance vitality and mastery, even during difficult times. Try incorporating small nature-focused practices into daily life for improved well-being.

      Connecting with nature, whether through physical activities or simply appreciating the beauty around us, can provide a sense of mastery, control, and vitality, especially during challenging times in life. This connection can be practiced in small ways throughout our daily lives and can serve as a home base for improved well-being. If access to natural environments is limited, focusing on the feelings and sensations we get from nature, even in small ways, can still be beneficial. Subscribing to the podcast, sharing it with others, and supporting it on Patreon are ways to engage further with the content and community.

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    Understanding the “Flight” Response: Anxiety, Avoidance, and Feeling Safe

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    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation

    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation
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    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy

    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy
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    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine

    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine
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    Awareness Is A Superpower

    Awareness Is A Superpower
    Making his 9th appearance on the podcast, today marks another mind-bending deep dive into the multiverse with Guru Singh, my treasured friend and favorite wizard of all things mystical. For those newer to the show, imagine a modern-day Gandalf who rocks like Hendrix while dropping pearls of wisdom that beautifully fuse Eastern mysticism with Western pragmatism. A celebrated third-generation Sikh yogi, master spiritual teacher, author, and family man, for the past 40 years Guru Singh has been studying and teaching Kundalini Yoga. He is the author of several books, a powerful lecturer, and behind-the-scenes guide to many a luminary, including Fortune 500 CEOs, athletes, and artists. Guru Singh is also a talented musician who rocked alongside Janis Joplin and the Grateful Dead in the 1960s. When he isn’t recording tracks with people like Seal, he’s bringing down the house on the daily at Yoga West, his Los Angeles home base. The focus of today's discourse? Awareness. We talk about the importance of self care, crucial as we near the pressures that accompany the holiday season. We discuss cancel culture. The critical distinction between awareness and judgment. And empathy versus endorsement. And we dive into the incredible power of awareness to cultivate an objectivity about ourselves, others and the world we inhabit. As always, Guru Singh takes us out with a song, so make sure to stick around to the end. You can watch it all go down on YouTube.  Enjoy! Peace + Plants, Rich

    AwakenToMeaning.com | Online Wisdom Practices by the Vervaeke Foundation

    AwakenToMeaning.com | Online Wisdom Practices by the Vervaeke Foundation

    Dr. John Vervaeke introduces his colleagues from the Vervaeke Foundation and dives deep into the concept of "Awaken to Meaning," an online platform for wisdom cultivation and self-improvement. Guests Ryan Barton, Christopher Mastropietro, and Taylor Barrett share their personal journeys toward wisdom and their roles in the foundation. The team delves into the purpose and offerings of their online dojo, detailing its role as a hub for bridging theory and practice. They discuss the importance of wisdom cultivation, practical application of teachings in daily life, the transformative impact of various practices, and the nuances of maintaining accessibility and financial sustainability. Throughout the conversation, they invite listeners to explore their practices and contribute to the ongoing journey of self-improvement. Finally, the team acknowledges the contributions of their patrons and encourages listeners to trust in their efforts to enrich lives.

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    Time-Coded Moments:

    • [00:00:26] Dr. John Vervaeke introduces the team from the Vervaeke Foundation, discusses the purpose of their gathering, and explains the concept of "Awaken to Meaning," which he describes as a dojo for wisdom cultivation and self-improvement.
    • [00:02:43] Ryan Barton shares his personal journey to wisdom cultivation and his excitement for the launch of the online dojo.
    • [00:08:41] Taylor Barrett introduces a low-barrier entry for people new to intentional practice.
    • [00:11:20] Taylor discusses the more intermediate and advanced offerings available on the site such as Circling & Dialogos weekends and Dialectic Logos training.
    • [00:14:03] Christopher Mastropietro discusses the playful and experimental nature of the learning process, emphasizing the importance of testing different practices and ideas.
    • [00:17:50] Vervaeke describes the platform as a developmental dojo and introduces the concept of the three dimensions of wisdom: view, care, and action.
    • [00:22:10] Dr. John Vervaeke discusses the need to recover the term 'wisdom' in a way that is accessible and challenging to individuals in their current life situations.
    • [00:24:18] Christopher Mastropietro emphasizes the importance of starting with small, manageable goals and slowly integrating new practices into one's routine.
    • [00:27:11] Dr. John Vervaeke talks about the longing for a space where individuals can genuinely aspire and grow, not just for themselves but for the betterment of the world.
    • [00:29:20] Ryan Barton emphasizes the importance of cultivating wisdom and living out of the being mode.
    • [00:31:20] Mastropietro shares how exposure to dialogos and dialectic over a few years can create changes in perception and understanding of the world.
    • [00:33:00] Mastropietro talks about how these practices can help in personal relationships, allowing for opportunities for disclosure where there were none before.
    • [00:36:00] Vervaeke shares his personal experience of how these practices have helped him avoid paths of self-deception.
    • [00:41:00] Ryan Barton shares his personal journey with meditation and mindfulness practices, discussing the transformative impact they have on his life.
    • [00:46:03] Taylor Barrett discusses the catalyzing moment that made him realize its significance and how it has shaped his life and relationships.
    • [00:48:17] Ryan Barton discusses the financial sustainability of their projects and the opportunities available at multiple tiers. 
    • [00:56:30] Dr. John Vervaeke asks the audience to extend their trust in the team, acknowledging the prevalent suspicion in the marketplace. He assures them that his team has continuously earned his trust and encourages listeners to maintain rational hope for an alternative to deceit and false appearances.
    • [01:01:18] Discussion on the framework presentation, pointing out they are not pushing or expecting a religious outcome or religious conversion, but instead are offering a courtyard where the religious and the nonreligious can deeply commune with each other.

    Quotes:

    "Each person will have a different point of entry, and those points won't be the same. You don't have to take everything on at once. It's not possible or desirable because if you overwhelm yourself quickly, it's a good way to discourage yourself from doing anything." - Christopher Mastropietro

    "I had no idea what was possible in relationship until I started doing the practice of authentic relating and circling, and now it's so much richer." - Taylor Barrett

    “Behind all the hermeneutics of suspicion, there is a hermeneutics of beauty. There are people out there still pursuing and practicing the good. I strongly believe that I've found good people doing good work and creating a great place. I just wanted to address that concern you might have and ask you to rationally hope that there's an alternative to all of that bullshit and that's on offer here.” - Dr. John Vervaeke

    “When you're signing up to participate, you're contributing to the creation and the unfolding of this project. This flows in both directions, you're not taking something away, but you're actually giving into it. This is a participatory and co-creative process, and it has to be that in order for it to fulfill and be true to its own intentions.” - Christopher Mastropietro

    “For those of you who identify and are happy to identify with spiritual but not religious, this is a place to bring disciplined learning to that proposal.”  - Dr. John Vervaeke 

    Amos Lee, Reaching Out Through Music

    Amos Lee, Reaching Out Through Music
    Musician Amos Lee started meditating in college as a way to cope with his mother's breast cancer diagnosis and his own Generalized Anxiety Disorder. For two years, he was going on retreats and meditating two hours a day. Lee knows what it's like to face personal hardships, so he views his music "as a service," a way to reach out and comfort people who may also be suffering. He talks about how working on his new album, "My New Moon," was therapeutic for him, writing about some very personal experiences. Finally, Lee performs a song he wrote after witnessing his grandmothers passing, in this touching episode. Have a question for Dan? Leave us a voicemail at 646-883-8326. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Is My Husband’s Depression My Fault?

    Is My Husband’s Depression My Fault?
    On today’s show, we hear about: A woman struggling not to blame herself for her husband’s depression A couple who wants to buy their dream home—but the kids are away for the summer A woman trying to help her pregnant sister get out of an abusive relationship Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp DreamCloud Hallow Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards Redefining Anxiety Quick Read John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

    Thomas McConkie, The Mormon Meditator

    Thomas McConkie, The Mormon Meditator
    Having been raised in the Mormon faith, Thomas McConkie was feeling a little lost after he had a falling out with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, his family and his faith-based community. When he started going to a Zen meditation center in Salt Lake City, Utah, a daily practice became "a lifeline," McConkie said, and it eventually helped him make his was back to Mormonism, start a meditation center called Lower Lights School of Wisdom and launch his "Mindfulness+" podcast. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.