Podcast Summary
The Magic Wand: The Iconic Vibrator: The Magic Wand, a powerful vibrator, is known as the 'Cadillac of vibrators' for its deep, intense vibrations. It has various versions, including rechargeable, mini, micro, and plush. Promescent provides delay spray and warming arousal gel for longer-lasting pleasure and heightened sensations during summer sex.
The Magic Wand, a iconic vibrator, offers powerful and deep vibrations, earning it the title of "Cadillac of vibrators" and a symbol of unapologetic pleasure. It has been praised in Time Magazine and has various iterations, including the rechargeable, mini, micro, and plush versions, all preserving the same powerful rumble. For those looking to enhance their summer sex life, Promescent offers delay spray and warming arousal gel, ensuring longer-lasting pleasure and heightened sensations, respectively. Overall, these products offer innovative solutions to common sexual concerns and desires.
Breaking Taboo: Plus-Size Sex and Relationships: First plus-size model on Penthouse Forum cover shares experiences, upcoming film focuses on plus-size relationships and sex, debate on college girls stripping and incestuous relationships, importance of representation and openness in sex and relationship discussions.
The discussion revolved around sex, relationships, and breaking taboo in various forms of media. Kelly Chabary, a guest on the podcast, shared her experiences as a plus-size performer and model, making history as the first plus-size model on the cover of Penthouse Forum. She also spoke about her upcoming film, Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex Plus Size, which is the first sex education film focusing on plus-size relationships and sex. The podcast also touched on current news stories, including college girls turning to stripping as a side hustle and the debate around incestuous relationships. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of representation and openness in discussions surrounding sex and relationships.
College girls finding unconventional ways to pay for education and living expenses: College girls turn to adult entertainment for flexible schedules and higher earnings, normalizing the trend during Masturbation Month.
College girls are exploring unconventional ways to pay for their education and living expenses, including working in the adult entertainment industry. This trend, popularized by figures like Belle Knox and Joanna Angel, allows women to make significant income through webcam shows and pornography. While this practice is not new, the increased publicity and acceptance of it is. The rationale behind this choice is the flexibility it offers in terms of schedule and earnings. Additionally, May is recognized as Masturbation Month, emphasizing the importance of self-exploration and understanding one's body for better sexual experiences.
Exploring desires and needs in intimacy: Make time for self-exploration, prioritize masturbation, and advocate for inclusivity and respect in all industries.
Self-exploration and learning about one's own desires and needs in intimacy is an ongoing process, and it's essential to make time for it. The speaker emphasized the importance of masturbation and encouraged listeners to prioritize it. Additionally, the discussion touched on the recent ban of Donald Sterling from the Bunny Ranch and other brothels due to his racist remarks. The speaker expressed her support for the decision, emphasizing the significance of inclusivity and respect in various industries, including sports and sex work. Lastly, the speaker highlighted Cali's career, which broke stereotypes in the adult entertainment industry and advocated for inclusivity and representation in pornography.
Celebrating Diversity in Penthouse Forum: Penthouse Forum's June 2014 issue showcases BBW performer Kelli Shabari on its cover, marking a shift towards appreciating women of all sizes. The issue is significant as it's not a political statement, but a demonstration of love and appreciation for diverse women, potentially influencing the industry.
Penthouse Forum's June 2014 issue features Kelli Shabari, a BBW performer, on its cover, marking a shift towards celebrating women of all shapes and sizes in the magazine. This issue is significant because it's not a political statement or an attempt to prove a point, but rather a showcase of love and appreciation for diverse women. The issue, which is currently on stands, may become a collector's item in the future. Shabari, who started her career as a roadie and production designer before transitioning into adult entertainment, shares her story and experiences in the podcast. The podcast also discusses how buying this issue can potentially influence the industry by demonstrating the commercial viability of featuring plus-size women on magazine covers.
A friend suggested doing porn as a way to pass time, leading to unexpected opportunities: Being open to new experiences can lead to unexpected opportunities, even in unconventional industries
People's backgrounds and experiences can lead them to unexpected places. In this case, a friend suggested doing porn as a way to pass the time while waiting for the film industry to recover. The speaker, who had grown up in a culture where sexuality was open and had watched porn since a young age, decided to give it a try. She found opportunities in the plus size porn industry and was surprised to discover that there was a demand for Asian women in this niche. Despite her initial reservations, she found the experience less nerve-wracking than expected, having a background in production and having watched a lot of porn. She eventually grew bored and started doing PR marketing on the side, but her experience in porn remained a significant part of her journey. This story highlights the importance of being open to new experiences and the unexpected paths that life can take us on.
Performer A's journey from plus size to hardcore gangbang scenes: Performer A found success in her niche as a hardcore gangbang performer despite initial discomfort and lack of authenticity in boy-girl scenes.
The adult film industry, like any other, presents unique challenges and experiences. For performer "A", shifting from plus size girl-girl scenes to boy-girl scenes was a significant change due to discomfort and lack of authenticity. However, she found success in her niche as a hardcore gangbang performer. Her most challenging scene involved a fan blowbang with 18 men, which required extensive testing and preparation. Despite the exhaustion and heat, she managed to please all 18 men, an impressive feat. The scene was inspired by the Japanese women's soccer team's unexpected win in the World Cup, which A supported despite her dual nationality and conflicting allegiances. The experience of having so many men surrounding her on set was a surreal and unforgettable one.
Maintaining intimacy despite challenges: Use eye contact, enthusiasm, and alternative methods to prioritize connection and intimacy when traditional sexual activities are not possible.
Communication and creativity are key in maintaining intimacy, even when faced with challenges such as medication side effects or physical limitations. Kelly Shabari, a sex educator, emphasized the importance of eye contact and enthusiasm during oral sex, and suggested focusing on the frenulum for added sensitivity. For those dealing with cancer treatment and its potential impact on libido, she recommended exploring alternative methods like strap-on harnesses from companies like Spare Parts Hardware. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize connection and intimacy in all forms, even when traditional sexual activities may not be possible.
Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Health and Intimacy: Provesant's FDA-approved delay spray addresses premature ejaculation for longer, satisfying experiences. Pheromones in Crazy Girl's products attract partners and enhance appeal. Shibari emphasizes experimentation for deeper intimacy.
There are various factors affecting sexual health and intimacy, including premature ejaculation and the role of pheromones. For men experiencing premature ejaculation, Provesant offers a solution with its FDA-approved delay spray, allowing for longer and more satisfying sexual experiences. Meanwhile, Crazy Girl's pheromone-infused products can help individuals attract partners and enhance their overall appeal. Shibari, a traditional Japanese rope bondage technique, adds another layer to the conversation, emphasizing the importance of exploration and experimentation in sexual relationships. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of addressing various sexual health concerns and embracing new experiences to enhance intimacy.
Finding peace and focus through bondage: Bondage can provide relaxation, mindfulness, and a sense of control for some individuals. Beginners can explore with bondage tape and communicate effectively to ensure consent and safety.
BDSM, specifically bondage, can serve as a form of relaxation and focus for some individuals. The speaker, who identifies as a rope bottom, shares her personal experience with finding peace and mindfulness through being tied up. She compares this sensation to receiving a massage or being in a situation where one has no control, such as dating people in the film industry or being a roadie. Bondage tape is recommended as an accessible and easy-to-use tool for beginners in bondage play. The speaker also expresses her appreciation for sex-positive companies like Good Vibes and mentions her fondness for sex toys, specifically the cordless Shabari Wands. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the importance of exploration, communication, and consent in the realm of BDSM practices.
Exploring BDSM: More Than Pain and Extreme Practices: BDSM is a consensual, creative, and cerebral experience involving power play, control, mind games, and sensory exploration. Start with light spanking or sensory deprivation, communicate, and negotiate to build a connection.
BDSM is not just about pain and extreme practices. It's a creative and cerebral experience that can involve various elements such as power play, control, mind games, and sensory exploration. For beginners, using a blindfold for sensory deprivation and experimenting with light spanking or sensation play can be a good starting point. Communication and negotiation are essential in any BDSM experience, and it's possible to build a connection with a partner who may not share the same interests. Reading erotica together can also be a great way to explore new ideas and enhance the sexual experience. Remember, BDSM is about consent, exploration, and finding what works best for both partners.
Exploring Erotica and Masturbation for Enhanced Sexual Experiences: Exploring erotica can add depth and spice to sexual experiences, while regular masturbation offers stress relief, menstrual pain relief, and increased sexual desire. Try authors like Jack Stratton and Rachel Kramer Bussel for erotica, and create a comfortable environment for optimal pleasure.
Exploring erotica and practicing masturbation can enhance sexual experiences for both men and women. The speaker, who is featured in Penthouse, emphasizes the importance of spicing things up and providing material for those who might need it. Erotica can offer longer build-up and deeper engagement than traditional pornography. The speaker recommends authors like Jack Stratton and Rachel Kramer Bussel for those looking to explore this genre. Additionally, setting aside time and creating a comfortable environment for masturbation or sex with a partner can lead to increased sexual desire and overall well-being. Masturbation can also provide stress relief and help with menstrual pain. The speaker encourages everyone to prioritize their sexual health and well-being by incorporating these practices into their routines.
Exploring Intimacy with Sex Toys and Finding Compatibility: Using sex toys like the Fleshlight can offer pleasure and stamina training. Good manners and age compatibility are essential in relationships. BBW performers prioritize respect and politeness. The Fleshlight is a 'gym workout' for the penis, enhancing pleasure and performance.
The use of sex toys, specifically the Fleshlight, can provide an intimate and satisfying experience, offering both pleasure and stamina training. Good manners and age compatibility are important factors when meeting potential partners. As a BBW performer, she caters to an audience who appreciates and celebrates larger bodies, and values politeness and respect. The Fleshlight, with its realistic feel and ability to practice edging, can be seen as a gym workout for the penis. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of exploring personal pleasure and finding compatibility in relationships.
Importance of authenticity and representation in adult entertainment: Performer emphasized the importance of authenticity and representation in adult entertainment, sharing how her unique appearance resonated with a specific audience and led to fan favorite moments due to their authenticity.
Authenticity and representation are important in adult entertainment. The speaker, a porn performer, shared how her Asian and plus-size appearance resonated with a specific audience, making them feel more comfortable watching porn with their partners. She also discussed an embarrassing moment during filming where her makeup smeared and her eyelash fell off, but the scene ended up being a fan favorite due to its authenticity. This experience led her to change her performing style and realize that she didn't need to be overly made up or fake orgasms for the audience. She emphasized that her goal is to help the man watching reach an orgasm, and her own orgasm is not a priority on set.
Porn vs. Real Life: Understanding Women's Sexual Pleasure: While porn can provide pleasure, it may not accurately depict women's orgasms as many require clitoral stimulation. Personal exploration and communication are essential for satisfying sexual experiences.
While porn can serve its purpose, it may not accurately represent the ways women experience pleasure and orgasm. Many women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, but this is often overlooked in porn. The speaker shares her personal experience of discovering her ability to squirt from fingers, not a magic wand, and the importance of clitoral stimulation. She also mentions that porn often focuses on penetration and thrusting, which may not be effective for all women. The speaker also expresses her preference for giving oral sex over receiving it due to her submissive nature, and her exploration of BDSM and breath play as forms of kink. However, she emphasizes the importance of trust and safety in these practices. Lastly, she reflects on how porn has taught her about body confidence, as many people, including herself, were bullied or teased as children, leading to negative self-perception.
Empowerment through acceptance and affirmation: Open communication, acceptance, and positive affirmation are essential for building strong relationships and enjoying a healthy sex life.
Self-acceptance and positive affirmation are essential for good relationships and satisfying sex life. Porn performer Kelly Shabari shared her personal experience of feeling empowered and more confident after entering the adult industry, where she found acceptance and admiration from her fans. She emphasized that people, especially women, often have insecurities about their bodies and the way they look, which can negatively impact their sex lives. According to Shabari, men can help by giving genuine compliments and affirmations to their partners. She also noted that women tend to overthink and worry too much, and a simple reassurance can make a significant difference. Overall, the key takeaway is that open communication, acceptance, and positive affirmation are crucial for building strong relationships and enjoying a healthy sex life.
Friends with benefits relationships: Casual convenience or hidden heartbreak?: Communicate openly about boundaries and feelings to avoid unnecessary pain in casual relationships.
Friends with benefits relationships can be convenient and enjoyable, but they come with risks. If both parties are clear about their intentions and keep the relationship casual, it can work. However, one person often develops stronger feelings, leading to heartbreak and an end to the arrangement. It's essential to communicate openly and honestly about boundaries and feelings to avoid unnecessary pain. Additionally, Emily Morris from the Sex with Emily podcast introduced her new line of aromatherapy massage oil candles, which melt into luxurious body oil when warmed, making for a perfect self or partner massage experience.
Honesty is key in relationships: Communicate openly and honestly in relationships to avoid misunderstandings and foster strong, healthy connections.
Honesty is crucial in any type of relationship, be it personal or professional. If you're considering a no-strings-attached arrangement with a friend, it's essential to communicate openly and honestly with each other to avoid misunderstandings and potential hurt feelings. Honesty is also key in romantic relationships, and if you're looking to enhance your sex life, check out the "Sex with Emily" podcast for tips on that front. Additionally, if you're interested in learning more about dating, relationships, and networking from a charismatic perspective, be sure to tune into the "Art of Charm" podcast. Remember, honesty and clear communication can help foster strong, healthy relationships in all areas of life.
