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    Mindfulness Meditation: Break Free from People-Pleasing Patterns (68)

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    About this Episode

    Do you ever find yourself in a trap of pleasing others, compromising your wants and needs? Based on episode 67 with therapist Justine Carino, this mindfulness-based meditation helps people-pleasers identify their needs, express them, and manage any discomfort that may arise. 

    • 03:10 Meditation begins
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